2006-08-03 06:37:35 · 43 answers · asked by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not married...I just want to know if it's possible!
2006-08-03 08:30:21 · update #1
Yes, it's quite possible. Men have a tendency to be freaking clueless. :) The fact that the husband thinks everything is fine only adds to the wife's despair.
2006-08-03 06:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by men_so_totally_suck 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is totally possible. If the man is happily married and loves his wife he should talk to her if she isnt and find out why she isnt happy. If there is something he can do within reason to make her happy (but keep in mind a person has to be happy with themself too) then he should try it. If he cant help her the he might want to reconsider the marriage and let he go to be happy.
2006-08-03 06:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always one of the two who loves the other more. If the wife is truly unhappy, I think that eventually the wife will want out. The situation might be OK for the instant, but it's only natural to want to be happy. The couple could be getting along great... as friends but beyond that ...its a matter of time before something gives.
2006-08-03 06:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely possible because some men are oblivious to their wives' feelings even when their woman is sending them signals left and right they still don't see that their wife is miserable. So they continue on with their rose colored glasses on and pretend like everything is fine and dandy because they are in denial. But the wife is miserable and longing for a more sensitive and loving mate and a more intimate relationship....Yes it is possible....the wife can be completely unhappy and her husband can be totally unaware despite the signs....
2006-08-03 13:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it's not a healthy relationship. This situation can occur when the the woman is a push over/meek and the husband is a male chauvinist and expects to have his way all the time. He gets his way all the time because the woman is meek and gives in, but she's truly not happy from within.
2006-08-03 13:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is very possible and it could happen the other way around. As time goes on people get different feelings for each other. Sometimes good and sometimes bad. It doesnt mean that she cant become happy again one day with help.
2006-08-03 06:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by angelawct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is something that doesn't make her fully happy, talk to her and see what you can do to change her to be a happily married woman. Good luck.
2006-08-03 06:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost all relationships consist of one partner being more in love than the other. The range can be vast or small but it almost always exists. I've been in both types, it's not really pleasant on either side, best to go with partner where range is small. Peace.
2006-08-03 07:02:31 · answer #8 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, there are many times someone thinks the other is as happy as the other when they are not. But that at comes with communication.
If you can't talk about what is not making you happy then you can't resolve it. He should ask his wife why she isn't happy and then work on the things together to make her happy again.
2006-08-03 06:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that's very possible. It means someone is not communicating their wants, needs and desires to the person, and therefore the other person might be oblivious and totally happy.
Maybe that's what the saying, "Ignorance is bliss" means.
2006-08-03 11:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by redcarol57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋