Lately I havent been real interested in having sex with my husband. He says it is because he has gotten fat which I dont think is the case because when I was fat he didnt not want to have sex with me. My older sister said she went through this phase but when she hit her 30's she wanted to have sex all the time. Is there something wrong with me or am I just not into my sexual prime yet?
2006-08-03 05:31:25 · 8 answers · asked by fire_fly0434 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe you need to take some time for yourself and pamper yourself aliitle. that may be the problem sometimes we don't feel sexy and that takes us out of the mood to have sex.
2006-08-03 05:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by respectfuljoy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is said that most women reach their sexual peak during their 30s, but another way to rekindle the flame between you and your partner is to take sex to another level. Experiment with each other in ways you havent and dont be afraid to try something new. Sex toys and role play are also another way to make sex "more fun". Having a significant other who has gained a little more weight then you had hoped has been an issue with couple for years. Although we may not want to admit it, sometimes the best way to come across is to be just let you inner feelings be known. Join a health club together. Make suggestions.
2006-08-03 12:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by bros.parker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister hit it right on! I went through the same thing in my mid-late 20's....once I turned 30, look out! My husband says I want it too much...lol.
2006-08-03 12:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate. There have been times when I just don't want to because I don't feel like it. I have noticed that when I exercise more often and feel better about myself I am more inclined to want to have sex. Also, as I near the age of thirty....I am wanting it more and more...I don't think that is a myth.
2006-08-03 12:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by manderin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, only you would know that. Just because he had sex with you when you were fat does not mean that you would do thesame for him. Be honest with yourself. Is that the reason? If it is that does not mean that you don't love him.
2006-08-03 12:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all tend to have phases we go thru, if it continues for a long time, i might see the doctor, but if it seems kinda normal it probably is.
2006-08-03 12:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression can be one of the causes of low sex drive. If you think you might have other symptoms of depression, it would be worth investigating.
2006-08-03 12:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate as well, however it seems to me from my own experience, that when your sex life/drive dwindles, then soon enough the relationship does too... hopefully for you my experience wont be the same for you
2006-08-03 14:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by miss me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋