I've been fantisicing about sexy women. Is it cheating if I'm not with another man?
2006-08-03 04:41:57 · 32 answers · asked by heavenlyhanayah1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you really have to ask? Is this an open relationship? If it is, is this an agreement between you and your partner, then it's not cheating.
I foyu are hiding it from your partner, and your partner has not agreed to this, then it's cheating
2006-08-03 04:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actually do it, yes it is cheating. It's worse than cheating with another man because it's a huge secret (the fantasizing, the strong urge to try it, or the fact that you are bi--if that ends up being the case) to be hiding from the man you love.
2006-08-03 04:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by morticia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While it is cheating it can be lots of fun. Talk to your husband about it because he just might be ok with the idea as the most common fantasy for men is 2 women going at it.
2006-08-03 06:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by wildladyreba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're fantasizing then I say no it's not cheating. But if this is a curiosity or your body and mind saying "I'm bored" sexually then I say involve your boyfriend/husband in the fantasy...watch the games (and the fire) begin! If he is offended by your fantasy, well, then I'd say you need to change partners. You'll never be satisfied with this person. Best of luck!
2006-08-03 04:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating. However, you can always get someone that approves of your fantasies and that will allow you to fulfill them. That is what my husband has told me. I am allowed to play with the ladies as long as he knows and he will not consider it cheating. So I guess it depends on the situation and what the others involved think about it.
2006-08-03 05:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is cheating. If you are in a relationship with some body else and you are thinking of other people then your not giving yourself wholly to that other person and taking away from the love that you feel.
2006-08-03 04:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by LA M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is Cheating! Whether it's with a woman or a man. Even thinking about it is sinful. Think about what your thinking. Food for thought!
2006-08-03 04:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your mate approve of you being with a woman? If not, then it would be cheating. If he's cool with it, then go for it!!!! I can't imagine a guy NOT approving of that! It's every man's fantasy to see (or hear about) two women together, especially their own woman!!! My hubby would lovvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvve it!!!!!!!!! I just can't find the right woman!
2006-08-03 04:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never ok with that. Think of it, if its alright, y do most society go against it? Man is made man. Woman is made woman. And God created Adam n eve together. Y not get to know God more and He will help you to renew your mind and lead you to the right way.
2006-08-03 04:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by chyi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about it is not cheating. Doing it is. It makes no difference if it is a male doing you or a female it is still cheating. PERIOD>
2006-08-03 04:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋