My husband have sex with me? We usually have a great sex life. The last time we had sex was last week Monday I want to say. I'll initiate it but it's like he's the female now and tells me he is to tierd and makes up some dumbass excuse. When I ask him about it(like everyday) he justs laughs at me. I know it's not me, and I will go to the extreme of rapeing him in the middle of the night if I don't get some here pretty soon. I honestly can't live for over a week without sex. What should I do?
2006-08-03 10:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by lillady 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him about it. Don't play around. Just tell him the facts at hand. Be open and honest to the point of brutality in this case. Make sure he knows that if you don't get some soon, that someone else will be.
Or you could just bare it and take matters into your own hands. I'm sure he'll get the point. Or you could tell his friends that he's not putting out. That'd probably take care of it too.
2006-08-03 10:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been married? What else has changed? Is your husband depressed? Have you gained a lot of weight? Is he drinking? Is he involved with someone else? Is a two-week celibacy period really that long? Are you turning him off? Did your dog die? It could be anything or everything. Without an open discussion, you won't find out what the problem is. Counseling is always an option.
2006-08-03 18:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by larry r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does seem a bit weird. I could understand him being tired a time or two but for a whole week is kind of strange. Maybe you nee to send him to the doctor for a checkup. Of course if he isn't up to it you can always take things into your own hands.
2006-08-03 17:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be wondering if my husband was having an affair if the sex life just weirded out. However he could honestly be overly tired especially if his work schedule has changed or something. You should be asking him what the problem is try to get him talking and work it out.
2006-08-03 17:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by snail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off! it sounds like he caught you now he doesnt have to do his manly dutie! Get dressed in sexy clothes .He will notice and know he better do it or someone will!!!!!!!!! I mean go out lookin sexy in public!
2006-08-03 17:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lemme know when you find out.
2006-08-03 17:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋