If a person is a nymphomaniac who needs treatment for this illness should not their spouse forgive them as they vowed to stay together in SICKNESS and in health? I am not a nymphomaniac.q
2006-08-03 10:49:51 · 6 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely. Don't forget to hand out the condoms on her way out.
2006-08-03 10:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she needs help...according to medical professionals then GET HER HELP. Either way, cheating is wrong. There are medical solutions for things like this that can help the two of you find a happy medium...TOGETHER. Hats off to you for wanting to be loyal but loyalty will not solve the issue or make YOU feel better OR keep your marriage together. Do what needs doing to find a solution you BOTH can live with and works.
On the legal note, I am aware that it is ILLEGAL to cheat in some states regardless of the situation and punishable by jail. Not sure if your state is one of them but it's possible. Consult a lawyer. It is also possible to have her institutionalized so that she can be treated in a constant medical environment until they figure out something that works. You have choices, just gotta know who to talk to. Doctors, councellors, lawyers, her, etc.! Good luck!
Adultry IS grounds for divorce. I was advised of such by my OWN lawyer when I got divorced from my first husband. Adultry, sexual abandonment, emotional abandonment, etc. All grounds for divorce. If this is really hurting you so much then maybe you need to move on...unless you feel she is worth trying to help for the sake of the marriage. Obviously you love her or you would have left by now. It sems simple though, really, stay if she gets help, leave if she won't. God Bless and good luck with this. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-08-03 18:20:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It absolutely should be grounds for divorce because that person should have been taking their medication and getting help to control themselves. Its the same as saying a drunk or drug addict should be forgiven, but if they aren't trying to get any help for their problem its on them. Besides who diagnosed her as a nymphomaniac? A professional or is that just the excuse she gives to excuse her fooling around on you? I mean really its not that hard, all you have to do is keep your darn pants on! This person claims thats a challenge for them?
2006-08-03 18:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is this...did you know she was a nympho before you married her? If so, then that's the price you pay.
If not, then get out now. Be honest with her, tell her that her sickness isn't an excuse anymore. If she's not actively trying to control it, or supress it, then she's not worth having around.
2006-08-03 18:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you have a sickness, you should seek help. Yes, adultery is always grounds for divorce.
2006-08-03 17:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adultry is adultry no matter what the reason . . . doesn't require forgiveness unless the person wants to live that way . . .
2006-08-03 17:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by wfgrg15001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋