When I ask my husband if I can go out, he almost always says no. So when I try to leave because I just can't stand being around him because he never listens to me, he tells me he will call the cops and tell them that I stole the car. Even though we are married and the car belongs to the both of us. He always says I am cheating on him, even though I never have. He just doesn't trust me and he wont let me go out. Like the other day I wanted to go see my fathers grave and he told me he didn't believe me and said I wasn't going where I said I was going and he said I was going to cheat on him. I don't know why he is always thinking I am cheating on him, because I have never cheated on him. But anyway when I try to leave and he says he will call the cops if I leave, what should I do about that? Should I leave anyway? Can he really call the cops and tell them I stole "our" car? Will I get in trouble? I don't know what to do. I just need some alone time or our marriage is going to end...
2006-08-03 09:58:05 · 29 answers · asked by Bree 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave. If you're on the loan for the car or the title, it's your car too. If for some freak reason you do get stopped, mention that it's your husbands car and it must be a mistake or mention he said that because he was mad. Most cops won't want to get into a domestic dispute mess.
2006-08-03 10:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by bella_4624_19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 21:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell, after reading this, you SHOULD end the marriage...you can't get arrested for stealing the car. Is the car in both your names? Even if he did call the cops, you got in trouble, and then went to court, they would not be happy with HIM. What a wonderful thing to bring into divorce court! IF he ever did this, he would really let his true colors show to the world, and he would look like an @ss. Let him try. He can't control you like that. Consult a lawyer, and then when you divorce him, sue him for the cost of your legal fees!
2006-08-03 10:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. He can sure call the cops. What happens when they see it's YOUR car? Nothing. What do they do when he says his WIFE stole the car? Laugh. He's doing a power trip. Is it working? Don't let it.
He's probably cheating on YOU and you don't know it and so he's jealous, thinking you're doing the same thing... or trying to distract you. He's a control freak and a loser. Sorry, but just get away.
2006-08-03 10:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not get in trouble for taking the car. Community property darling. He is probably just bluffing, so call it. The worse thing that will happen is that you will get pulled over and have to explain the situation. I am not sure but, he could possibly get in trouble for making a false claim.
I am sorry to say this but your husband is full of s h i t! He is just trying to control you and using scare tactics.
Good luck! I hope things get better for you soon.
Oh and your name does not have to be on the title or loan. Because you are married everything is community property.
2006-08-03 10:05:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is a controling person and you need to get out before it really gets bad . If he does call the cops ,you will already be out. you need to go as far away as you can. find a friend or family member you can stay with and will be able protect you, because your husband will come and look for you,he will say what ever it takes to get you back. Only YOU can make the choice to better your life..no one on here can do it for you. Good luck!
2006-08-03 10:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody can say they will do something and carry out the act, no matter how, like in your case, childish and ridiculous it may be. In your case, your husband would probably build a case on false information. The police will enforce and search for you, if pulled over you will then have to deal w/ the officer and basically explain that your husbad is a complete idiot. When you get out of that sticky situation you may want to turn the tables and file charges against your husband, that is if the police doesent file them on his own as in many states filing a false charge is punishable under law. I would also advise you too look into this, as things like this can get WAY OUT OF HAND. Peace.
2006-08-03 10:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh crap....are you with my ex or something???? is the car only in his name? and why on earth are you asking his permission to go out??? if he calls the cops, do you know how hard the cops are gonna laugh at him for taking the car??
omg....i can't believe there are other guys that do that. My ex used to take the car and hide it, or remove a chip from the car so i couldn't use it. Do you know what i did? i bought myself a used cheap car. with only my name on it and i was the only one with the keys.
then one day that idiot took a car that i was driving that had his name on it and tore the cables out so i couldn't use it. He hid the keys to the truck we shared. I called the cops on him. They showed up and told him since my name was on the pink slip, he could not refrain me from using the vehicle. So they made him give me the keys.
He sounds too much like my ex. who, by the way turned out to be abusive and raped me at one point. GET OUT NOW!!!!
2006-08-03 10:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is truly going to destroy your marriage. He doesn't trust you because he doesn't trust himself. Think about it.... I would say, "fine, call the cops, I'm going to my fathers' grave" and then leave. Don't let him control you in this way. If you let him do this, you will totally loose your self esteem, your inner self. Your hubby needs to wake up before you walk out the door and never come back!!
2006-08-03 11:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out way out . Out to see an attorney.
He can't have you arrested for driving a car that is in your name too. Call the police and ask some one. Take the paper work with you when you leave and your drivers license so you'll have identification.
I'd take that car and drive it up his stupid manipulating A$$.
2006-08-03 10:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Wise Old Witch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋