Marriage & Divorce - 21 July 2006

LIKE I SAID I'V BEEN MARIIED FOR 3 YEARS NOW AND I FEEL LOST. LIKE EVERY COUPLE WE FIGHT BUT LATELY WHEN WE FIGHT I FEEL LESS! OF A PERSON HE CALLS ME NAMES AS WELL AS I DO TO HIM BUT. I NOTICED THAT WE NEVR SAID SERTIAN THINGS . BUT NOW HE IS ? I HAVE A CHILD 2 YEARS OLD AND HE HAS SAID THAT HE WILL TAKE HIM FROM ME AND I GUESS IM SCARED CAUSE I DONT WORK AND DONT HAVE MONEY. HE HAS CONTROL OF THE MONEY AND ONLY GIVES ME WHAT ILL WHOULD NEED FOR THE HOUSE. HOW CAN I GET OUT OF THIS MARRIAGE ? IF THATS WHAT YOU WHOULD CALL IT.

HE PUTS ME DOWN SO MUCH BUT I DONT KNOW IF ITS BECAUSE OF ANGER . WHEN WE FIGHT. HES NOT INTO TALKING.

THSI ISNT THE LIFE I WANTED FOR ME OR MY SON I WANT THE SOME WHAT NORMAL FAMILY.

IS THERE ANY HELP I CAN GET ?
HE HAS FRIENDS IN THE GOV THAT HE SAY WILL HELP HIM WIN !!!!

2006-07-21 14:08:36 · 19 answers · asked by gabrielsmama22904 2

When it is too early or too late to get married?

2006-07-21 13:51:43 · 15 answers · asked by Krstov 3

Why would happily married people be on this site talking dirty to each other? Is it wrong?

2006-07-21 13:50:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

why? how would you feel if your spouse let go and you didnt? would you cheat? and for the special people I mean, eating whatever you want and not exercising so that you dont look as strikingly beautiful

2006-07-21 13:34:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When dad3 is looking for the scissors, he wanders round the house making scissor signs with his fingers and it's starting to grate. Are we on a downward slope?

2006-07-21 13:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by Harriet 5

And, under what conditions, and how would you judge whether they were adhering to them or not?

2006-07-21 13:28:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is spanish fly safe to use...its supposidly a male and female aprodisiac Sorry ic an't spell it. HAS anyone heard of it and is it good to use and safe to get ur partner and ur self in the mood for sex? Let me know thanks.

2006-07-21 13:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by Confused4life 2

Alittle stressed about this, her enjoyment is what is most important to me....

2006-07-21 13:11:56 · 38 answers · asked by WhiteHat 6

I love spending time with my BF, but things haven't been great lately. He's been talking about "when we get married". But I'm not ready to make such a big commitment. I just don't know whether he's the ONE I want to spend the rest of my life with....what should I do? wait and see where this leads to, break up, or tie the knott????

2006-07-21 13:11:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

first of all i didn't physically cheat on my wife. we haven't had sex in about 4 months so i turned to phone sex. well i've actually always had phone sex with strangers and i've never met any of them. is this cheating?
secondly, my wife is very depressed and she has this friend at work that she confides in. he got divorced about 6 months ago and they have become good friends. she has to work this weekend far from home and offered to split a hotel with him. also they went to san francisco with two of my kids to take her mind off of things. do you think they are romantically involved? she swears that he's like family, (shes only known him 6months). they are both professionals in the computer field, and work long hours together. won't two people with so much in common eventually become attracted to each other even though she says that he is interested in a different woman. i don't want a divorce, she is puching the issue though.

2006-07-21 13:03:13 · 16 answers · asked by sotomann 1

I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years. We have a house and a car together. Both our names are on it.
I know in my heart that there is no one else I want to be with. I love her with all my heart. I feel like she feels the same way too.
My question is , how should I go about making it official.
I haven't really asked her but we present ourselves as such.

2006-07-21 12:56:01 · 10 answers · asked by klr1369 2

He didn't used to be gross. Now I can't stand for him to touch me. I'm to old to get another divorce. I am not attracted to him at all. I am 46 years old. Been divorced once already.

2006-07-21 12:32:13 · 28 answers · asked by Patty 4

My marriage seems like a quagmire.

2006-07-21 12:27:14 · 9 answers · asked by Gardenfoot 4

Since my wife got pregnant with our child she has ballooned out of control. She is 5'5" and has broke 120 lbs. I now find her disgusting. I can barely stand to look at the blob of blubber and have taken to spending as much time away from her as possibe, including sleeping on the couch downstairs. Most of the time im away at work or out with a girlfriend. She cries when I do but its just for sympathy, she isnt fooling anyone. Is it time for a divorce?

2006-07-21 12:16:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with my BF for 6yrs now everyone always asks us when r we getting married i usually laugh it off then change the subject. truth is i'm so paranoid about my credit. when i was younger i totally destroid it. i spent years trying to fix it. now its up to the 700 and i worked hard for that. but my boyfriend has bad credit...very bad. He has school loans he hasnt paid off, credit cards, phone, pg&e and hospital bills, all totalling over 10,000. now i know if we get married his credit becomes mine and my score will go back down. i wanna buy a house before i turn 30...im 27 now it will take years for him to fix his credit and mine..if we get married. now what i'm thinking is we have a wedding, reception and honeymoon and all that, we just wont be legally married. my friends and family all say no, but truthfully i'm so worried about my credit. advise please....

2006-07-21 11:58:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

get a divorce or she has to wait for the baby to be born???
I have a friend she has 1 boy & she is pregnant (3 moths), but someone told her that she can not get divorce until the baby is born. I remember when I was pregnant( 4 months) I was separated, but I 'm not sure if I was told to wait until the baby was born, I got a divorce after a year,but because my EX didn't want to sing... But it is this true?? What about child support, can she go to the office & open a case for her boy or she has to wait to get a final divorce paper???? any advices !!!!


Helping my friend!!!! :)

2006-07-21 11:38:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've lived with him for 4 years!!!
He's 35 and I've asked him many times
and he can't answer me. I am attractive and young. When I want to leave... he tells me he loves me and he wants to get married and he cant picture his life with out me!!! He's a very nice person, but no SEX!!! Is driving me crazy. The worst part I dont know what it could be?

2006-07-21 11:37:41 · 30 answers · asked by valenz146 1

2006-07-21 11:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by Slik 1

Once during sex, my husband asked if I would consider having sex with a female. My answer was NO WAY. I told him that I would participate in TALKING out his sexual fantasy during sex but would never actually do it. How would you respond if your husband asked you this? Should I have been offended?

2006-07-21 11:22:51 · 28 answers · asked by Melm 2

2006-07-21 11:19:25 · 1 answers · asked by ladyblujay06 1

I'm 31, 2 kids, been married 12 years. Around 29 it hit me that I wasnt happy with my life and no one was going to change it but me. I have an awesome job, two really great kids, and a shitty marriage. I have no problems with the way I look; I get complimented frequently; but I still cant put my finger on whats missing. I want my 30's to be great but feel like I have to do a lot of soul searching, and be brutally honest with myself and others to figure things out. I guess my point is I should be happy but I'm not. I dont want to look back on life at 40 or 50 and think, damn I wasted alot of time. Is it just my age? Does anyone else feel like the lightbulb has just came on and you have to figure yourself out?

2006-07-21 11:18:39 · 18 answers · asked by jenecho 1

My husband tells me I can talk to him but when I tell him what's on my mind he rolls his eyes and ignores me... what's up w/ that

2006-07-21 10:59:11 · 25 answers · asked by PRINCEZZ 4

Im tired of all the young kids questions and the guys masturbating questions. Anybody out there who has real issues (not perverts!)

2006-07-21 10:52:19 · 21 answers · asked by jenecho 1

he comes back every december through middle of march then goes back to boston. due to money and insurance. we moved here right after we married. i have never cheated on him and would never, we were talking about me going back there and i would love too, but my daughter has since moved here got married and is now expecting our first grandson anytime now. my daughter will be moving to georgia at end of month, and if i move i may never see them. i am torn, can this marriage last this way?
we have been together for 10 years married for 3.

2006-07-21 10:44:52 · 9 answers · asked by kag6667 2

2006-07-21 10:41:48 · 31 answers · asked by Morpheus 2

I love sex but he always find something else to do. What does it means? Should I cheat?

2006-07-21 10:35:31 · 33 answers · asked by ciccina_5 1

just curious because my husband uses this site- can he be doing anything he shouldnt be on yahoo? i am pretty behind the times when it comes to computers.. any guidance would be appreciated.

2006-07-21 10:34:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

A couple of yeats ago my husband and I had some issues with money. He never wanted to have joint bank accounts, or even want me knowing anything he did with his money. It's changed a alot between us (or so I think) but I recently quit my job, and the reason I never would stop working before is because I was afraid to depend on my husband, but he encouraged me for good reasons, and now I am going back to school full time, but then he pulls this shopping card s h i t and it pissed me off. When I asked him why he said he didn't think about it and since he was putting gas in both our cars he just put all the money on a walmart gift card.
PLEASE TELL ME HOW YOU WOULD HAVE REACTED AND WHAT YOU THINK

2006-07-21 10:32:22 · 22 answers · asked by Val 1

I have lived w/my bf for 2 years. I dont feel old enough to be married, but alot of people in my replies keep saying "marriage marriage marriage".

I am only 20... he is 25 but hes not grown up enough to get married. And if we were to get married theres alot of things that need to change.

Isn't 20 too early? Or just for marriage and not for engagement. His mother WANTS US to get married. Shes said it repeatedly but I never though of it as an option.

Whats the earliest age to get engaged. Don't give me the typical "when you think you're ready"

Because we aren't. But if we were to be... if he decided he was...

Does it really make men more commited? People have said that too. How many years is too long to be engaged? If we got engaged (it would be a group decision) we still wouldn't get married for about 3 years... when we have money.

Ughs, replies would be appreciated :0

What about promise rings? Shouldn't men do this and not the womyn say HEY blah blah...

2006-07-21 10:25:00 · 16 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

We have grown apart (as she says). I have chosen to dedicate my life to God and because of this my life has drastically changed for the better. My wife feels that she is not able to do this right now. She wants to spend time with her friends and waste time going to bars and drinking. She has parenting issues also, (we have a 4yr old daughter). I am not going to name everything that i have suggested for us to do in ordeer to fix our marriage. She wants to fix it on her own. I feel that the only way for us to reconcile is to put God to help us become complete people and then repair our marriage. I have every reason to divorce her, but i chose to stay to work on it and all she is concerned about is how she feels about things. A very selfish and mean spirited women. I continue to pray for her and love her unconditionally. Any advice would be appreciated. Sorry for not being original with my question.

2006-07-21 10:14:50 · 22 answers · asked by Esoteric 3