Marriage & Divorce - 21 July 2006

2006-07-21 02:36:23 · 14 answers · asked by TweetyBird 1

He's been married 3 times. He married his first love and it lasted a year, his second marriage lasted about 18 months (they were then separated for 2 years before getting divorced), his third one is in its 16th year. He had an affair recently that lasted over a year. The girl claims he had 2 other affairs, but he hasn't confessed to that.

Overall, he's a decent man. He has provided for me over the years. He supported me and let me stay home to raise our daughter. Then he helped me open a business and then sell it later to stay home. He is good around the house and has turned our home into a beautiful place to live.

What is going on with this man? Why the need to have an affair? Can he ever be trusted?

2006-07-21 02:28:29 · 47 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

2006-07-21 02:21:05 · 19 answers · asked by Vinita Rastogi 1

This is my 2nd marriage. The first one lasted 19 years and produced 3 boys. Now 20, 17 & 13. She cheated and her situation didn't work out.
My wife now, for the past 3 1/2 years, has had enough of my drepression and is ready to walk out the door with our 2 yr. old son.
I work 2 jobs. By day I am the polcie chief of a small town, by night I work at the local airport for Delta. So I work about 60 - 65 hours a week. She had asked me to quit the airport job about a year ago, but I enjoy it and my 1st wife left me with about $30,000 in bills not to mention she gets $200 a week in child support.
My wife is very head strong, she too is a police officer. She has her hobbies, she plays soccer and has horses and within the last year has joined this medivial thing called the SCA. She really enjoys it. She goes away about 4 or 5 weekend a summer.
I know I have a depression problem & I don't talk. I was looking at her e-mails from what happened with wife #1. Boy is she mad. We are in counselin

2006-07-21 02:15:33 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

its her 24th birthday and its rainy overcast looking. What should we do were already going out to dinner at an expensice restaurant and she got...blah blah blah

2006-07-21 02:09:37 · 11 answers · asked by eric_j_hess 2

Do you think it`s better to move in with your partener for a while and see if it works before getting married?

2006-07-21 02:07:18 · 29 answers · asked by Scooby 6

My husband's ex-wife refuses to change her surname. Problem is that she has added his first name and last name as her surname. We live in the UK. Can we take a legal action against her?

2006-07-21 02:01:45 · 13 answers · asked by P P 1

I have seen a lot. did u notice it?

2006-07-21 01:57:50 · 6 answers · asked by AB 1

Does anyone know what website I could go to to find a weather forecast for September? I know there's one out there, I used it last year to find out what the weather usually is in September so I could plan my wedding ( outside or in ) but I dont remember what it was....It's like the Farmers Almanac, but not....Thanks for your help!

2006-07-21 01:53:59 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki B 2

2006-07-21 01:50:41 · 22 answers · asked by razbo_1999 2

2006-07-21 01:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-21 01:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by Angel 2

My wife seems to be stuck in an indecisive mindframe. She says she loves me and I mean the world to her but she says that even if we divorce down the road she'd still feel the same way. We've only been married for three months and since coming back from our honeymoon she's seemed distant. Recently she told me all these things about overcoming our past problems and she doesn't believe things will be consistent and her heart isn't with "us" anymore. One day she'll say she is unsure, the next day she will say things that clearly mean its over, then she'll tell me not to take rejection as if it's always going to be this way and that things could get better. It's very confusing. She expects me to just be myself everyday but that's difficult when we're not making love and we seem more like roommates than we do husband and wife. Is this normal for women to go through when they are having emotional issues? Clearly she isn't happy now but will she ever be happy? What do I do to help?

2006-07-21 01:31:20 · 14 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1

First of all, please don't criticize me. I have heard it all, thought it all and I just need help letting go.

I had been part of love triangle for over a year. I was married when I met my married boyfriend. I divorced and he refused to sign his separation papers. His wife knew about me, and she tried to end things for him and tried to get me to back off.

The man went back and forth between the 2 of us and we both allowed it to happen. Both of us were willing to overlook his faults and cherished every day we had with him.

I do believe I pushed him back to his wife. I wasn't supportive of our relationship and constantly asked if he wanted to go home. I told him that people don't give up. Did I secretly want him to leave?

Well, he left here last week saying he loved me, etc. and we talked about our future. I haven't heard from him in over a week, so I assume he's home now. I won't call him there but I wanted closure. How can I just let go and accept it?

2006-07-21 01:28:31 · 16 answers · asked by torn 3

I would like to know about dark side and light side of divorced men.pls share yr experience with me that would be nice of you.thank you

2006-07-21 01:26:31 · 3 answers · asked by sweetie 1

A little over 4 months ago, I thought my husband was cheating.
Then one day, I discovered panties (not mine) in the bed.
When I confronted him, he clearly stumbled and then said
that they were his.

They don't smell like him. I don't believe it.

Since then, I've been helping him see his "feminine" side.
I started out replacing all of his underwear with panties and
then started making him wear bras, which he does daily.

A couple of weeks ago, I started replacing his outwear - he
is now wearing Victoria Secret's Body for Work - pants,
blazer. He's terrified, going into work though he claims nobody
has noticed.

How much further do you think he'll let me push him before
he confesses, and how much further should I take this.

I've been "re-enforcing" the dressing up by only paying
sexual attention to him when he's wearing what I tell him too.
He's becoming very submissive.

Is this road going where I think its going? Where should I stop?
Its nice to be the one wearing the pants.

2006-07-21 01:21:15 · 22 answers · asked by Elana 7

I don't want t be rude, but it seems inappropriate to allow a male guest in to the house when I am alone. Also, it would really bother my husband.

2006-07-21 01:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by clair 4

I got 3 kids so I stay home. I love being a house wife. My husband's job has its busy time and it's slack time. Even on the slack time I feel like I have to carry up the load for every one. I take care of my homely duties, but then I got take up the what to me should be a mans job; like the cars getting fixed and dumping the trash. Thats all. The other I took the car to get fixed & the mechinic fixed other things and my car has the same issues and I took it back & was talked down by this man. My husband didn't do a thing about it. I would at least like to feel secure in my husband. What else can I do? Yes I have spoken to him about these things.

2006-07-21 01:06:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Once the kids are gone, why should a man stay tied to a woman for the rest of his life?

For years women have prided themselves on being able to work and take care of a home....why not let them.

For the most part all most men have done it all too in the last few generations [except actually give birth]

2006-07-21 00:57:25 · 18 answers · asked by dyno_bot 2

you know what ilove ma wife like a crazy,i have single baby now but still love her some times crying alone because im deeply love so it like pain on me,some when im in office i lose some constretion on work caz of this love,whan can do to decrease thinking and hav god perfomance on work while still loving her more?"

2006-07-21 00:53:06 · 3 answers · asked by FREADNANDY J 1

2006-07-21 00:51:21 · 8 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1

How can I stop complaining, and fussing and ridiculing my husband for every single thing that he does! I'm scared that I'm going to make him hate me. He is out here working 6 days a week for me and our 5 kids, while I stay home all day resting because I am 5 months pregnant with twins. Because I'm not working, money is really tight, which I'm stressed out about. I fuss about his way of paying bills, rent, giving money to the church, and everything that I feel could possibly hinder us in the long run. No matter how much he makes, I still find something wrong, and end up being miserable. He tells me that I am breaking him down, and that I make him feel less than a man. Please help! How can I hide my dissapointment and anger at his decisions? How can I mask my sadness when I feel as though we are going to have to scramble to feed the kids?

2006-07-21 00:50:53 · 29 answers · asked by candy0813 3

2006-07-21 00:48:04 · 2 answers · asked by kidu 2

i've done what the court said to do and it turned out that they had court with out me. being served. i use to have an every weekend visit but one time i picked him up i pulled him out of a bed of garbage and walked in to a drug deal and i told her she better have it cleaned up or i would have our child. the biggest mistake of my life . there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of him i had to take down all his pics cause it was driveing me nuts. sorry i live in the same state but different county and about 45 min away from the court house i work full time does anyone know how or what i can file to make it where i have to be present or there is no court. cvause they keep haveing court with out properly serving me and then its just hear say its bs

2006-07-21 00:47:38 · 6 answers · asked by hthammond 2

What a girl should do when she falls in love with her husband and after some time (years) she came to know that her hus. is a gay and cheated her?

2006-07-21 00:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by beauty 1

2006-07-21 00:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by arif h 1

2006-07-21 00:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by lotus_dost 1

Does circumcised penis give you more pleasure during sex? Which on you prefer? circumcised or uncircumcised?

2006-07-21 00:21:19 · 5 answers · asked by Trying to be spiritual 1