What a girl should do when she falls in love with her husband and after some time (years) she came to know that her hus. is a gay and cheated her?
2006-07-21 00:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are so many issues here. There is a level of dishonesty here that can't be ignored. The wife needs to accept the husband's life choice and let him go. She will not be fulfilled as a women, a wife, in this type of a relationship.
2006-07-21 00:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by viclyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must feel hurt and betrayed. First off you are both obviously living a lie. My first reaction would be to throw him to the wolves. But you did say that you had fallen in love with him. Definitely separate, and get tested. But don't through away a friend that you can still share your time with.
2006-07-21 00:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up and dust off the dirt. Then file for divorce and start a new hobby, change your hairstyle and wardrobe and become a fun-loving teen-ager again. Best of luck amigo
2006-07-21 00:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested for disease and go shopping with your gay husband for outfits to go to court in, so you both can look good during the divorce.
2006-07-21 00:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him set him free he has needs that you can't meet. I'm not saying what he did was right but this may have been something he tried to fight but the real us always comes out in the end.
2006-07-21 01:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by d0ve67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, This sure is a hard queston to answer. I think the two of you need to talk this out. I guess you are going to have to lisson to your heart. It is only a desion that you can make. I wish you luck....
2006-07-21 01:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop on your knee's and pray for guidance.
If you love this man, talk to him. Is this his life style or a one time mistake.
I am sorry you are going through something like that. It isn't your fault.
2006-07-21 00:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by cocoflorida2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... so you made him gay. Either he was already gay, or you're a really terrible wife to turn him to men..
2006-07-21 00:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack up and leave. Then go get tested for STD's especially HIV in case he wasn't practicing safe sex.
2006-07-21 00:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Quickly. Today.
2006-07-21 00:45:37 · answer #10 · answered by KL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋