Marriage & Divorce - 21 July 2006

I'm 31, he's 37....He's got a million and one excuses not to be intimate. He's tired, the kids are home, I said something to upset him, just not today, a headache.....the list goes on,like, FOREVER! I'm not ready to be a nun! He's straight, definitely not cheating, says he's totally in love with me, just that sex isn't a priority for him. What does he mean? How can I get him to understand I need this intimacy, without threatening to cheat on him, which, honestly, I've thought about!

2006-07-21 04:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by sunny1 1

that slick stuff that you find on composite basketballs, these were real leather. We were about to start another league game, but all I kept thinking was how mad my wife gets about me playing basketball on weekdays. Do you think she's going to leave me?

2006-07-21 04:06:34 · 20 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

steaks, as I end up picking the brats and she buys the steaks. Maybe we should switch up who buys, huh? Do you think she's going to divorce me over these petty fights?

2006-07-21 04:00:55 · 30 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My ex-grlfriend wants me back.... but she's married and pregnant... her husband is in iraq...all three of us are in the military..and im leaving again to go to iraq the second time around in mid august...
she's been goin to my place.. and hanging out..and more... She tells me that she loves me and all I can do is look at her innocent eyes... and she's so sorry that she made the mistake of marrying him..when she knows im her soulmate... he got her pregnant before leaving for iraq..and i feel as though he has been abusing her..verbally and threatning her all he time... But her husband now...is the guy that she cheated on me with... and that was made us break up... she says she's wants to move away with me when i come back from iraq in feb.. but he comes back in november..when his baby boy is born... i hate this and it's killing me.. i don'tknow what to do...i mean I love her...and will always will. that's just the kind of person that i am... please help me..

2006-07-21 04:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by richard b 1

Im not really good with words and expressing my thoughts. Today I will be having lunch with my ex girlfriend and im still in love with. Any advice or tips on how to tell her that im still crazy for her and she's all I think about? Also I get emotional around her sometimes, is this bad too?

2006-07-21 03:59:00 · 8 answers · asked by Acknutz 2

I was wrong when I went outside of my marriage. I've been going to counseling to address my issues and things are getting better. But here is the problem. My wife doesn't want to go to counseling and we haven't had sex in over a year. Has she not forgiven me? How long does a person hold out on sex after a situation like this? I understand she needs time, but isn't it time for us to address our marriage? I'm getting help, why doesn't she want to?

2006-07-21 03:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by TexasBoy 3

Why do people think that having more money will automatically make them happier with their lives? I'm not talking about people who have nothing at all. I mean people who think that they will be 50% happier if they make $300,000 a year instead of $200,000. I have never seen it work that way.

I notice lately that my wealthiest friends are the most miserable, in fact. And I mean wealthy--over a million in assets, and no longer working cos they can live on their investments. These people are all married to spouses they don't enjoy being with, but they won't divorce because they don't want to split up their assets. So, instead they sit around and complain about how nothing makes them happy anymore. This applies to male and female friends equally. When I say, "Have you thought about leaving?" the answer is identical--"And let HIM (or HER) get my stuff?? Hell, no!" What do you say to people who can't see that their obsession with their stuff is chaining them to an unhappy life?

2006-07-21 03:58:39 · 10 answers · asked by homebuyer 3

she hot and another culture and race

2006-07-21 03:57:25 · 13 answers · asked by fumifada 1

He is largely supported by the family. But also has a small business that is largely run by his father. The father may not be there forver. On the medical front he takes medicine and is normal otherwise.

He is partially dependent for finances.

he is very complaint to medicine. Takes it regulraly.

another point... This is India.... where marraiges have to be arranged... one has to find a bride...but at the same time he is keen on this as he feels he needs a companion and deserves to get married like others!!!

2006-07-21 03:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Monsh 2

2006-07-21 03:54:52 · 3 answers · asked by pup_needs_love 1

... since nobody can be perfect.

2006-07-21 03:53:56 · 33 answers · asked by Belindita 5

2006-07-21 03:53:15 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister-in-law is married to a jerk. She knew this BEFORE she married him but she settled and is miserable. They have a big house and 2 kids but he is mean to her and not that nice to the girls. I want to say something but my father-in-law says good Christians turn the other cheek. He doesn't even protect his own daughter! You can be a good Christian and stand up for yourself and those around you can't you?

2006-07-21 03:49:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

her and the electrician didn't ask for my help to take down the ceiling fan during the remodel? I am very tall and could have helped out.

2006-07-21 03:48:49 · 52 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

smooth. You have an amazing everything, then that person starts to change, and says they don't even know why they are acting a certain way. I keep having thoughts of just throwing in the towel. But then I remember love is a choice not a feeling. What else is there to do?

2006-07-21 03:43:12 · 9 answers · asked by thisisme 3

2006-07-21 03:36:29 · 17 answers · asked by sanam 2

2006-07-21 03:28:24 · 13 answers · asked by tim_s9999 1

I am really struggling with this. I found out 2 1/2 years ago and today is no better than the day I found out.

2006-07-21 03:25:36 · 29 answers · asked by sad lady 1

My sister does not believe that her husband is probably mentally sick. His mom thinks he's a drug user, but she hasn't done anything. How do I convince my sister? When I told her about it, she dismissed it by saying that she does not want to raise their child fatherless!!!
The babysitters are too ashamed to talk about it with her so I really can not substantiate my claim. But they all testified (to my mom) that they were "attacked". Meanwhile, my mom is too afraid that she might never see her grandchild again IF she tells my sister about it!

2006-07-21 03:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by Bu Ang 3

my boyfriend was supposed to move away in march but he said he couldnt leave because he didnt want to leave me so he asked me to marry him then he decided he still wanted to move and i didnt want to move so he took back the proposal and is moving anyway! we were looking at apartments together...the whole 9 yards...he convinced me that him staying was a good idea even though i told him he shouldnt stay just for me. he did anyway. how messed up is that?

2006-07-21 03:17:27 · 19 answers · asked by B 2

What would u think of a 25 years old and dvorsed lady who still loves his husband but has an affair with a 16 years old boy, and treat this boy very sweet, and with a deep passion.
this boy is not a virgen but learns all the beauty of love from her.
althou when she start tryng to stop. pretending being her sister in public places, she realized that she's not only hurting herself but the boy too.
then she takes the decition to quit this affair.,but does it geantly.
some times when the boy insist to go out with him she wiil take him in her W V beetle and crying but with calm talks to the boy to make him understand that it is not right to continue this relatioship.
and also she takes all the blames.
Would u think she is a bich,or some one who found shelter on this boy?

2006-07-21 03:13:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do all men look at porn? Is a man looking at Porn the same as a woman haveing a vibrator? Just a tool for self pleasure nothing more?

2006-07-21 03:10:03 · 8 answers · asked by clair 4

men and women are too money hungry today and want everything given to them,if that's the case what's the point of living.you have to earn it ,that's what makes life worth living.if you don't struggle you might as well be dead already!!!!!!!

2006-07-21 03:08:05 · 7 answers · asked by tim p 2

Have you ever cheated on your husband or boy friend on a girls night out? If you have, tell us your story!!!

2006-07-21 03:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Married Male 2

I have just come home unexpectedly to find my husband wearing my lingerie and a dress.
Whats worse is he had an erection.

What should I do? I do love him very much - help he just looked embarrassed took off the clothes put his own back on and left the house.

2006-07-21 03:03:49 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-21 02:58:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-21 02:57:58 · 21 answers · asked by Mark 1

help - need an unusual wedding gift for the couple who has everything. 2nd marriage for both of them.

2006-07-21 02:57:27 · 11 answers · asked by Gyp77 4

2006-07-21 02:44:39 · 13 answers · asked by abdullah_wan 1

my husband and i was married 11years, we had an agreement to split for the 1st time and see what happens, we r friends and we still sleep 2getther and he cry i cry, he still tells me he loves me and he still comes over and we have sex and everything else. i ask'd him 2 com bk, he sasy he's not sure, he mov'd in w/a female that he sayz was a friend, now 2mths lat'r they r sleep'n 2get'r , now he says he loves me we spent r anniv 2gtrand he is on vacation and we still sleepn. I told him she is interferen w/us get'n bk 2get'r he say no he wldn't have come bak. i say itz a lie, he don't want 2 admitt, he no, that she is interfering with any chnc of us get'n bk 2 get'r. What do u think, we still sleep 2get'r we r hav'n some of the best sex and he still payz my bills and give me money, he helps me gave me everything, wouldn't take no'thing from me. Don't want me 2 have a hard time. He cryz w/me I no he luvz me, what do I do now shez help'n him get over me. u agree. Men plz tell me femalz 2

2006-07-21 02:38:36 · 15 answers · asked by ziyyarichmond43 1