2006-07-21 02:57:58 · 21 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You would probably be the best person to answer that! You know her better then anyone so sit down and think about the things that really make her happy! Once you determine what makes her happy and what she likes to do to have fun then focus on that and come up with a great idea to surprise her with!
2006-07-21 02:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by ~*Pamcake*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers never hurt.. I prefer mixed bouquets as they have so many flowers one is likely to be her favorite. You can get brownie points for washing dishes or laundry or even just tidying up before she gets home. A bubble bath while you keep the kids away from the bathroom may be a good idea too. And last but not least a surprise date night is always a big hit. Best wishes
2006-07-21 10:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very nice person. Here are some things that will hopefully help you:
1) Tell her you love her a lot
2) give her back and foot massages
3) Cook her diner or a dessert
4) Take care of her when she's sick
5) Do something that's nice and spontaneous for her
6) Go out of your way to please her when you make love
5) Buy her flowers and present them in a unique way the she would no one else have ever thought of
6) Be firm but loving
7) put love notes around the house in places she will come across later
8) come up with mental notes of what's important to her and what she likes, then surprise her with them.
9) Find out times of her life that were special to her and make notes of when they were. When these dates come, surprise her with some sort of small celebration.
10) pay attention to common things that men do that women dislike and don't do them; be the special different guy and let her know your doing them. Don't make her feel your expecting something in return though.
I hope this helps!
2006-07-21 10:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that involves cleaning! I know it sounds simple - but one of the most romantic things my husband does is to tackle a chore I normally do if he gets home from work before me. There is nothing like coming home to having the kitchen all cleaned and polished after working a 10 hour day. It shows he was thinking about me and trying to make me happy much more than any store bought gift. Plus - I get to brag on him to my friends. I love him for these little unexpected things. Try it - it works!
2006-07-21 10:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a diary, write down important dates, and remember them, if you say you'll do something, do it. If you start something, finish it. Put yourself in her shoes, how might she be feeling about something that is happening in her life at the moment. Bring her flowers for no reason at all, just because you can, not because you should. Tell her you love her more often. Show her you appreciate her and all she does.
This goes both ways both wife and husband should appreciate each other.
2006-07-21 10:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does your head turn when you see a a female? Because you are attracted to her feminity. So, Why does a female like a man? Because she is attracted to his masculinity
So if you want to score, be a man and not a mouse. Take charge!
Be firm, considerate and loving. And dont hesitate to scold your wife if she steps out of line. Believe me, she will love you for that.
2006-07-21 10:05:21 · answer #6 · answered by namaste_achha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice a few people said to do spontaneous things, like send flowers to her work. That is nice...but if it is something you never do it might scare her more then anything. She might worry about what you're trying to make up for.
Just listen to her when she talks, enjoy dinners together, ask questions about her job and her life, watch great movies together and laugh a lot, be affectionate with her, do creative things for her birthdays and on holidays, and plan small getaway weekends to bed and breakfasts. Tease her about things and be willing to do anything she asks you -- that's my husband to a T and I am so grateful for him!!
2006-07-21 10:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something completely spontaneous! Bring/Send her flowers. Cook dinner! Dont leave the seat up! You know easy stuff and even some thing dont cost a thing, but they really can mean something to your wife! Believe me! We notice SMALL things!
2006-07-21 10:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by Juicy-J8785 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do nice things for her once in a while without her asking. For example, go by and pick her up some fresh flowers. Little things go a long way!
2006-07-21 10:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vacuum
2006-07-21 10:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋