What would u think of a 25 years old and dvorsed lady who still loves his husband but has an affair with a 16 years old boy, and treat this boy very sweet, and with a deep passion.
this boy is not a virgen but learns all the beauty of love from her.
althou when she start tryng to stop. pretending being her sister in public places, she realized that she's not only hurting herself but the boy too.
then she takes the decition to quit this affair.,but does it geantly.
some times when the boy insist to go out with him she wiil take him in her W V beetle and crying but with calm talks to the boy to make him understand that it is not right to continue this relatioship.
and also she takes all the blames.
Would u think she is a bich,or some one who found shelter on this boy?
2006-07-21 03:13:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This happens to me over 20 years ago.
don't take me wrong if I tell you remenbering this experience.helps me to take a very complicated situation.,in my today's life
2006-07-21 03:38:37 · update #1
I'd think she was a sad little person, but made the right decision in the end. What she was doing was definitely WRONG-O, but she realized that. It never should have happened and I would think she is clearly very unhappy in life.
Can you say Desperate Housewives?
2006-07-21 03:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd think that she has some serious emotional issues that she needs to work through. She's not in a healthy state right now. If she's divorced and hasn't gotten over her ex, then how could she have a healthy relationship with another man? She'd need to put her ex behind her in order to move on with her life. That could be the reason she chose a 'boy' (as you wrote). She could be feeling that she is not worthy enough for a man and uses the boy to give her a feeling of worthiness.
When she realizes that her motives are all selfish and unhealthy ("she realized that she's not only hurting herself but the boy too"), she made a good healthy move to stop the relationship with the boy. However, the next step is crucial, because if she doesn't get help and move in a positive direction emotionally and learn to value herself, even though something tragic had happened in her life, then there is no guarantee that she will not fall into the same mistake time and time again, as she did with the boy you mentioned.
If you have a strong relationship with either of the two people you mentioned, I would strongly suggest that the woman be encouraged to get emotional help to work through her issues.
Good Luck!
2006-07-21 10:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by victorygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not give the obvious answer that everyone else has already said. We all know she is a criminal and very sick to think of a 16 year old boy in that way.
In reality this woman used the 16 yr old to make her feel loved - but in control. She probably felt undesirable when she and her husband divorced and sought the attention from someone she knew could not hurt her. This was so unfair!! A 16 yr old should learn about life and love from someone his own age. He was used, and may carry the scars from this for life.
Big deal - she takes all the blame for it. She deserves all the blame for it. Do I think she is a *****? Not really. I think she is sick and confused. I thinks she needs serious counseling. I think she needs to stay away from any situation that puts here in contact with young men.
I think the boy needs counseling. He needs to understand that he was used for someone's selfish reasons. He was not to blame, and he needs to learn to be able to go on with his life.
2006-07-21 10:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not 25 yet, but this woman had/has no right to be with this boy. what would you think of a 25 year old guy with a 16 year old girl?the principality of statutory rape is not gender sensitive...
2006-07-21 10:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sick is a better word for it. What is your end-stste for this question? Is it to judge? Is it to poison pen this sick woman? Well you have accomplished both. If the 16 Y/O is your son have her arrested. If it's you ex- then forget about her. She's sick ....you need to move on...find a new love hopefully one that's a little more stable then this one.
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2006-07-21 10:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really cared for you but the whole age factor got in the way she was afraid of getting into trouble. She sounds like a nice lady
2006-07-21 10:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was wrong and has scarred you emotionally. Find a nice 16 year old girl and leave that woman alone. She's being so nice b/c she's afraid you will tell on her. She's too old.
2006-07-21 10:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're the boy and you need to get over it. She shouldn't have done it to begin with
2006-07-21 10:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll ask this boy to learn to spell.
2006-07-21 10:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by daisy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id view her as a pedofile.. plain and simple..
2006-07-21 10:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋