Family - December 2007

Okay we have two pastors at our church and one of them is an associate meaning hes like a step down but still a pastor, this leaves him as our youth pastor also. He had a lockin on friday night to saturday morning in witch no one is aloud to sleep because it is always Co-ed. Anyway, we went bowling till midnight and then came back. we did things and had one kid that hadnt been on his medicine so he was very bad and wouldnt listen to anyone, three girls were sleeping and others doing other things, while the group I was in was playing games like spoons and silent football. At eight o'clock the next morning we all went home.
so my mom goes to church today and comes home and tells me some things....
let me explain somthing before I go on: there is a family who ( both kids came to the lockin) who are very needy and the one girl always talks up a story and things.... and the boy didnt have his medicine before hand and all was bad..
anyway, they came into church today telling us that they were taking a kid to court that THEY BROUGHT to the lockin for touching a girl inapropriatly (this is the girl that always talks herself and things up)..... *and she also says she broke her finger at bowling* now I dont know what to do, because I KNEW the kid that they brought and he was kicked out of my school (I live in a different town then they do) because of inapropriatly touching girls.....


the ** mean this.... This girl is ALWAYS "hurt" she always has somthing wrong with her and now my pastor is probably going to get into a ton of trrouble and they have cancelled all future lockins.... not fair because of one family they ruined everything. we could loose our pastor over one persons exagerations, and her brothers behavior, while all we did was silent football! and spoons....

2007-12-02 08:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by Secret 3

My parents have been talking about having more kids, but my dad can't anymore, so I don't know if they are joking or what, but anyway I was thinking of maybe them getting a sperm doner or something because I also want a new baby brother or sister, what do you think my parents will say. (It's just me and my little brother). And adoption takes a long time with all the steps.
Ps: I know it's my parent's choice, i'm just asking.

2007-12-02 08:08:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother lost her job a few years ago. Since then, I have been helping pay her bills. I recently purchased my own home so I am not able to do all the things I use to do. Her washing machine went out, so I bought her a new one. Her phone was turned off, so I paid to get it turned back on and gave her some extra money to catch up. She was working 2 part-time jobs, but quit 1 just because she didn't like it. I told her that sometimes we have to do what we don't want to because we have things that need to be taken care of. I work 2 jobs and sure don't want to. All of this took place within the last couple of months. Now it's Christmas time and she wants a new TV for her living room. I told her that I was not getting it because I'm trying to re-do some rooms in my new home. Well, she just ignored what I said and has constantly brought up the TV. Mind you, she has a TV in her bedroom and in other rooms. I'm getting new furniture,giving her my old and paying shipping cost. Am i wron

2007-12-02 08:06:54 · 10 answers · asked by Hotgirl 2

If you were a parent, which path would you take?
to work away in another country for a better job opportunity to provide a more secure financial state for your children and family, at the same time being physically away from your children and missing out in their growing years?
---OR---

to try to make ends meet with what you can while together not have to be away and stay with your children and family all throughout?

2007-12-02 08:02:48 · 22 answers · asked by ks 1

Her dad is dying and I feel really uncomfortable around her when she is crying that much. When I was little I used to hand out paper towels when people were crying, but I think I should do more than that at a time like this. What do I do?

2007-12-02 07:52:08 · 12 answers · asked by Eziah 1

k...my mom and dad first started dating when my mom was 15 and my dad was like 26... I dont need any bs on that. but my dad says its not ok for a 14 year old to go out with a 17year old. please explain. i dont really care that im his only daughter and junk, but its a little idk like hypocrasy...rite?

2007-12-02 07:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 07:39:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 07:26:24 · 17 answers · asked by kkachi1 1

She is 52. How can I get power of attorney and put her in a nursing home?

2007-12-02 07:17:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my dad used to be really close, but ever since a year ago when I started growing up and going out with guys, I feel like he really hates me. He always finds ways to make it sound like I was being a "smart-mouth." He's always grounding me. He's always yelling at me for really unreasonable stuff. But I swear to you, I know when I'm being a smartass, and I am never one to him. I only become smart with him when he's yelling at me so much and I try to defend myself. It's like he's pushing me to argue back. I secretly wish him and my mom would get a divorce, isn't that horrible? It's because he was sick and in the hospital once for about 3 days... and to be completely honest... those were the most peaceful and head-clearing 3 days of my life. Today while my mom was teaching sunday school, he was telling me chores to do, and I did them all. Then my mom came home, and he told my mom that HE did them. So then a little later, he gave me some more chores to do and I guess I didn't look

2007-12-02 07:13:31 · 5 answers · asked by lia 1

when my kids are together they argue, pick, tease, tell each other to shut up, yell one act like he have anger issues he get mad quick and think that some one is picking on him (like he takes us the wrong way or something) and the girl acts like she is jealous of the brother. and i try to resolve the issue and it just frustrates me and i tell them to "just stop with all of that and if they do it again they have to go to their rooms and come out when i say so" and that happens and its the same thing over again!! what should i do iam so tired of it

2007-12-02 06:41:05 · 4 answers · asked by ms nikki 1

before i get into my question i am using my older sister's id. i'm 15 and my sister wont stop bugging me about guys. i got my guy friends and i am happy about it. i have a kool boyfriend too. my parents stopped caring pretty much about what i do. i think my boyfriend wants to do more then making out. if i do anything with him i dont want my sister asking me these questions. i like my life the way it is.

2007-12-02 06:39:38 · 4 answers · asked by Angie 1

AS SHE WAS DRIVING SHE PLOWED INTO SOME GUYS GARAGE AND DESTROYED THE SIDE OF IT, SHE TOOK OFF AND PARK HER BIG BLACK SUV IN THE BACKYARD,I WASNT WITH HER, THIS MORNING I DROVE BY THE HOUSE AND ITS PRETTY BAD, THIS IS A FELONY IN OUR STATE, MY WIFE IS FREAKED OUT, YES THERE IS DAMAGE TO THE VEHICLE, BUT SHE PULLED ALL THE WOOD AND STUCCO OUT OF IT

2007-12-02 05:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3

i honestly HATE mine.
the have just plain ruined my life.
if i say hi to then . somehow i am offending.
anything i do, like walk into a room, i am doing itthe wrong way.
it is a constant battle.
and i am always crying.
weve tryed family counciling and all that. noting works.
tis has gone on for 7 years.
when i move out of the house i am loosing contact with her. no joke.

2007-12-02 05:34:59 · 37 answers · asked by french fry 2

ok so my mom has breast cancer and im only 13 so im kind aconfused not really but whatever but so now that she has cancer i cant do anything like rec basketball and i cant have any of my friends over so im pissed but im mad at my mom but i shouldnt cause she as breast cancer right. i think of that but i still get mad cause i cant do anything untill she gets better and so i dont know if i should be mad at her cause shes going through everything but i dont know so im kinda asking u guys to tell me if its ok that im mad at her or im selfesh and shouldnt be mad at her but i dont know so help m eout guys please cause i dont know what to do if its ok or not so please answer me please

2007-12-02 05:11:06 · 2 answers · asked by Andria 2

Here's the situation, my husband works for his father. The summer of '06 we lived in Maine so my husband could work and we'd still be together as a family unit. Before we left we were told by his parents to give up our apartment and when we got back they'd arrange for a place for us to live. The place they "found" for us was their old house that had been on the market for 3 years and not sold. The house for all intense purposes was left abandoned during that time and in various stages of disrepair.

We've now been here for over a year, we're expecting our third child and they've decided they're going to put the house back on the market again. They drop by unannounced all the time just to complain about the state the house is in. My children are 6 and 2, they can't honestly expect the house to be spotless can they?! I've been biting my tongue in regards to them for the last 4 years and I feel I'm about to burst. Is there a "nice" way to tell them off with out being evicted?

2007-12-02 04:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Gryph 2

my parents took away everything except my computer. i had a trip planned to go to florida to see my best friend, and now they wont let me go and im grounded from everything except my computer indefinetely. i cant leave my room except to eat and use the bathroom. how do i get myselfout o f this mess? please help.

2007-12-02 04:18:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 02:45:35 · 6 answers · asked by rockchick 22007 1

my mum doesn't believe me that i'm not dieting even though i have come right out and told her to her face that i'm not dieting. she keeps getting lots of sweets, chocolate and crisps for me and when i dont eat them she says that i'm dieting. im feed up with having to false feed myself just so she believes me. she keeps coming out with really hurtful things like why do people even bother to diet when they are skinny because all it will do is kill them so they loss out on watching their family grow up. what can i do to prove to her that i'm not dieting without hurting her?

2007-12-02 02:21:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't answer saying your weird or your a loser or anything insulting you will be reported.

If you HAD TO be a Drug Dealer, Prostitute, or a Stripper which one would you be and why.

2007-12-02 02:14:57 · 49 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2

we hanven't seen each other since i was 2 months old

2007-12-02 01:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 00:58:51 · 7 answers · asked by oreid69 1

my sister is 14 years old. She seems to be depressed a lot more than usual. Well yesterday she went into the bathroom with needles and locked me out. IDK what she was doing but it was scaring me. A LOT. Well i just looked at her myspace and it has pictures of like people cutting their arms. needles in their lips, and someone dieing from being stabbed. Im soo scared. I love my sister, i cant lose her. Shes my best friend. What do i do?? Please help me.

2007-12-01 23:46:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My inlaws are nasty people. My husband has finally started sticking up for us and now they have disowed us. My father inlaw rang up and very rude so my husband rang him back and said that he needs to appogise to me. He told another family member that he will never appolgise to me his pride is worth more. He told me to stay away from their family functions cause i said for him to reconsider coming to my husband and daughters and my birthdays cause he has a problem with my family and i am sick and tired of having parties and being uncomfortable cause of them. My mother inlaw came he twice when my husband was here and didn't say a word. When she finally got me alone she was very nasty. She said she can't stand my family, that the way their son behaves towards them is because of me. That i'm behind the way he feels. that where all jealous of the her other son and daughter. Another family member kept telling us that they where jealous of us. We are the victims of her son & his girfriend visous behaviour. HIs girlfriend would say nasty things to our two year old daughter (psycho) say shes doing things when shes not. having parties and inviting the whole family and leaving me out. Telling me that there is not enough food for us when at the inlaws. A cousin tells us everthing that she says about us; that she is jealous etc.I know that the cousin really plays us agaist eachother and lies. i told my mother inlaw when she was fighting with me about that and she said that i lesson to to much gossip. i also caught them out in lies and she was denying evrything i was saying. how can you do that? She was calling me a lier but i had to refrain from calling them a lair even though i had proof. I said to my mother inlaw that i am sick of her always snapping at me. she said that she snapps at me because she works not like me who sits at home with my legs up in the air. hows that? we are not dependent on them at all. where as her son and his girl friend are.

2007-12-01 23:41:34 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie 2

yesterday was my mothers birthday and i went all out for her baked her a cake card dinner and all she showed no appreciation at all if anything she was rather cold might i add this is not the first cold shoulder all i do for her is not right in her eyes when all i have ever done is good.i am at my wits end what should i do?

2007-12-01 21:44:05 · 1 answers · asked by ................ 7

over twenty three years. I used to date this guy and his brother just passed away this past week. and i was wanting to send him a sympothy card cause his brother was a really great person. do you thinks it's appropriate or not. we are both married and i don't want to step over any boundries. please help

2007-12-01 19:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by livedinthe80s 5

well...i have problem regarding relationship between me and parents. i always recieve advices and suggestions from parents all the time but sometimes i feel they aren't necessary. i wanna live my life my way and not by compromising. i want to enjoy life. i sometimes get frustrated when my parents interfere in my courses of action.

plz....help...

2007-12-01 18:51:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It will be my first one alone

2007-12-01 18:43:44 · 14 answers · asked by Julie 5

if my first cousin has a baby, is the baby my nephew or my second cousin. i think his my nephew but my freind says his my second cousin. whos right

2007-12-01 18:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by huh?? 3

can someone help me figure out why im so straight up gangstar and ballin? why does everyone like me so much???

2007-12-01 17:36:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous