my sister is 14 years old. She seems to be depressed a lot more than usual. Well yesterday she went into the bathroom with needles and locked me out. IDK what she was doing but it was scaring me. A LOT. Well i just looked at her myspace and it has pictures of like people cutting their arms. needles in their lips, and someone dieing from being stabbed. Im soo scared. I love my sister, i cant lose her. Shes my best friend. What do i do?? Please help me.
2007-12-01 23:46:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You tell your parents just what you have told us. You tell a teacher. You tell a guidance counselor. You tell a clergy person. You keep telling adults, until one of them gets your sister the help she needs.
Good luck to you, hon.
2007-12-01 23:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Suz123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are sure that you sister is not scaring you
So you have to find some trusted person and have wisdom
Then talk to that one tell him you worried I think that will help
Above of that try to keep your sister away as you can of the freaky
Good luck
2007-12-02 00:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a trust adult, preferably your parents. Just tell them that you have to talk to them, and that you are worried about your sister. She may not appreciate that you have done it, and may even be angry at you, but you can't let that stop you from helping her. Loosing her friendship for a bit, is better then loosing her completely. Show your parents her MySpace, so that they can see what is going on as well, don't let this go unattended.
2007-12-01 23:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, if she denies or gets mad or whatever (don;t be surprised of the kind of reactions you could get, from rage to break down to laughing and denieing) then talk to your parents. she'll not be happy with you for a while but you should not let that stop you, that would be selfish. you'll get that bond back, if you don't make sure she gets help now (by telling your parents) she'll sink further and you might loose her for ever. remember that when you're afraid of loosing her friendship as you call it, or even her love.
however, it could also be that she trusts you so much that she decides to talk to you, to let you in. gain her trust, cherish it, let her know you'll keep that trust and help her. you can tell your parents but be careful about it, she trusted YOU, not your parents and you don;t wanna make her feel like you betrayed her because she might not open up any more. i know its hard, it always is, but talk to her and from her reaction, judge what to do next.... you'll do fine.
good luck
2007-12-02 00:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely need to tell a trusted adult. If your parents are the type to freak out over something like this, maybe they aren't the right ones to tell yet. Tell someone who could be calm and collective about it and that could help your sister.
She's your best friend as you say, so you should talk to her about it too. If she pushes you away, then you need to tell someone and get help.
2007-12-02 02:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by EzGoing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG. TELL SOME OONE RIGHT AWAY. cause if she tries to cut herself or even commit suicide (not meaning to scare you) you might regret never telling anyone. i have a sister 13 years older than me and i have a GREAT relationship with her. if she did what your sister did, i would definetly tell my parents. dont be scared that she will be mad at you. cause when shes out of depression and stuff, she will love you sooo much cause you would have saved her life.
good luck
2007-12-02 00:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you are the younger sister or the eldest but, I believe the best thing to do is to go to your parents with this so that they may be able to get her help.
2007-12-01 23:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by mom23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so need to try to talk to her but if that doesnt work then tell your parents or a close family friend. But do not leave it too long.
2007-12-01 23:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by knight32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her? She might be suffering from bullying or other form of something she might not want to tell anyone or she just in a shock.Or ask her best friend or someone that close to her. (not that you aren't close) to find out?
2007-12-02 00:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her. if that doesnt help talk to your parents. when you do try to talk to her promise her you wont tell if she will just trust you. make sure to keep your promise or she wont trust you again. offer her any kind of help and love you can give her.
2007-12-01 23:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋