Family - December 2007

I just thought it'd be nice putting something different in her card...
Oh, and where are you from?
Thanks.

2007-12-16 23:49:27 · 17 answers · asked by MikeD2 4

My son's dad is from overseas. He left me while I was pregnant, son now 12 year old. Never got support, but he went to court when son was 2, dragged me thru mud, and got extensive visitation. I never asked for support b/c i was advised he would still harass me. they have gone on vacations before and not taken him, the excuse? "He dosent have a passport".
He fights me on everything. He was abusive verbally so I asked him to communicate by email, then he wouldnt respond to any emails (ie school lunch questions, ect). then if I called after that, he would say, email ONLY, CLICK. Recently when he called, I did the same back at him (he had been doing this for months...EMAIL ONLY, CLICK. Now, the night before he leaves, at 11:30 pm (and I could NEVER call HIM at these hours) he wants to drop something off for son, as he is leaving. He dropped off a Christmas card and $80. the Xmas card was like, "Our family wishes you a Merry christmas, son", signed dad and family.
I called him after that

2007-12-16 22:40:19 · 3 answers · asked by me 2

she treated me like a boy as i was blind she has never, put her hands in her pocket very rear . she has a teenage daughter which is v spoilt has her own way and she told her mum that she hates me cause she did not want her mum to be happy that caused to help us split should i try and move on and forget her

2007-12-16 20:46:54 · 4 answers · asked by fireman 1

in love with family members

2007-12-16 20:40:37 · 11 answers · asked by ndr_meriweather 1

and could you please also tell me why? thanks.

2007-12-16 20:34:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my step father is real funny when his is sleep beacuse he gets up and starts to scream,runs around and starts to fight the air. At the same time im also kinda scared because he might hurt me or my mom one day. Plz tell me what a can do

2007-12-16 20:28:12 · 4 answers · asked by dre 1

My mother would always complain that I don't help out much. Today, just hoping to please her, I did help out. But I had no idea that there was wine in the plastic bag I was carrying. I was about to place it on the counter but since the plastic bag came from the floor of the car, I figured it must be dirty so I placed it on the chair. It rolled and it fell and I broked the wine.

My mother was so mad she cursed me. I was hurt. On top of that, she said I was being irresponsible and stupid when I explained that I expected wine bottles in a box. Not in a plastic bag!

Was I wrong. I'm really hurt. I want to cry. All I wanted to do was please her.

2007-12-16 20:17:11 · 6 answers · asked by Pmel 2

I'm 25 weeks pregnat now but I broke up with the father of the baby because he wanted to sleep with other people but still wanted to see me.. Well I called my mom and she helped me pack up and move in with my family.. Well a few days later I went over to talk to him and we desided we wanted to work on thing because 3.5yrs together was hard for either of us to throw away...
Well I got pregnat the doc said was a week after I left him... We have been working on things and I found out alot of stuff I didn't want to know about with him... He says his changing thing for me and he has changed something but I still don't trust him...
But right now his my only option to move out of my parents and quit smoking and so my babies not around 2nd hand smoke..
My 16yrs sister told me she doesn't care about the baby and wants nothing to do with it and my parents don't want to be at the hospital that day because his parents are there.. All because they treat him like trash even before this all happened.

2007-12-16 20:00:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

A while back I was talking to my GF and she mentioned offhand that years back she was doing something on her step-fathers computer she found BDSM/bondage stories he had written.. and then later pieced together that her mother (whos dead now) and this guy were doing that kind of stuff together. Am I wrong to be a little weirded out by this?

First off no, i'm not a prude and I realize this isnt so uncommon these days..but come on, the guy is in his 50's, thats just a little ****** up. He lives a normal life, works for a local supermarket, no one knows about that side of things.. if me and her had kids one day I don't think i'd want them going near him just on general principle.

Now i'm not saying that people who have unorthodox sexual practices are by nature prone to bad behavior but I just don't trust the guy at all after finding that out.. its like, if someone can have that whole secret life going on, what else are people hiding these days?

2007-12-16 19:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by Concerned 1

2007-12-16 19:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by shankargal r 1

Before I left home at the end of the summer, I promised my parents that I will AT LEAST get a 3.5 GPA and only use my credit card at the school bookstore to buy school supplies, books, etc. The only reason why they sent me back to college in the fall is because I promised them the above. Well I was good for the first few weeks but...I had a $1,500 phone bill sent to my parents then lost my phone so I stopped calling home after I got a new number and phone. I'm going to be on academic probation because I failed two classes and I've spent over $3,000 since school started in the fall. My last credit card bill was $1,800 but my parents haven't said anything about it. The next bill is coming in the mail while I'm home for the two weeks and I know it's going to be about $2,400....Nonetheless, my dad sent me an e-mail making sure everything is okay and that they are excited to see me tomorrow...I just want to hide and not see them but I know I can't! Help!!!

2007-12-16 19:24:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love this kid, would step in front of a train for him, just dont want him to feel like im trying to replace his "natural" father, just show him I truly care and as he grows I am here for him.

2007-12-16 19:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by RLP 3

Currenly we aren't speaking (thank god). But eventually I am sure I will have to mend the relationship. She is bossy, pushy, alcoholic, and rude. What to do?

2007-12-16 17:21:37 · 12 answers · asked by gonecrazybacksooninky 4

2007-12-16 17:17:09 · 23 answers · asked by angie babe 2

make a long story short we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.She lives with me in ny.She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother that she considers her mother and fam.The house is over crowded.Here's the list of people who live there,godmothr,3 sisters age 20,18 and 15 all got kids.one of the sister's babyfather lives there,a recovering crackhead who is the mother cousin
they live in nj.
she once stayed there for 2 weeks cuz we broke up and they was just using her 2 babysit,send her to the store every 10 mins and clean up the whole house everyday.even 1 of her sisters said that she was being treated like a slave.Its like my girl dont see it,she's blind as a bat.I told her it would be better if she got cool with her father side of the fam.her mom fam is messed up(long story) but her and her father talk sumtime..She said if she lose her godmother fam then she wont have anybody.What should I do

2007-12-16 17:06:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad hates them and i LOVE THEM same with my Mum she a breeder for Labs and we have not had a kitty since i was 5 and i really want one is there a way I can Make my daddy get one He hates them because They pea ON EVERY THING!

2007-12-16 16:56:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

make a long story short we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.She lives with me in ny.She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother that she considers her mother and fam.The house is over crowded.Here's the list of people who live there,godmothr,3 sisters age 20,18 and 15 all got kids.one of the sister's babyfather lives there,a recovering crackhead who is the mother cousin
they live in nj.
she once stayed there for 2 weeks cuz we broke up and they was just using her 2 babysit,send her to the store every 10 mins and clean up the whole house everyday.even 1 of her sisters said that she was being treated like a slave.Its like my girl dont see it,she's blind as a bat.I told her it would be better if she got cool with her father side of the fam.her mom fam is messed up(long story) but her and her father talk sumtime..She said if she lose her godmother fam then she wont have anybody.What should I do

2007-12-16 16:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by ratchet 1

My dad is being a pain. he is saying bad words to my mom and i, all this drama he is saying, he said he's moving into the moderhome, he dosent want to spend Christmas with us, and he is telling me to move in with my 25 year old sister who just had a baby girl. please tell me some advice for what i can do for him to stop and just chill. and also..... I didnt do anything.

2007-12-16 16:25:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She died tragically...and he remarried soon thereafter.

2007-12-16 16:01:32 · 5 answers · asked by Guthrie 28 1

my boyfriend and i haven't seen each other much this past semester. he was just here for the weekend and we hadn't seen each other for two weeks prior to it. he's 22 and i feel this constitutes him as being an adult, though he still lives at home (when not at college). what bothers me is HOW MUCH his parents call him when they know he is with me. they know we dont see each other much, but yet this weekend i think one member of his immediate family called every hour, for completely random reasons. it was really annoying because i just wanted to have SOME time with him uninterrupted.

so am i overreacting by getting so upset? i just feel that his family needs to start viewing him as an adult and just learn to let go (especially when he has younger siblings) and let him spend quality time with me. please help, i'm going insane!

2007-12-16 16:00:24 · 10 answers · asked by niugirl1114 3

My husband is acting real weird, he is out of town working, last night I hung up on him cause all he was doing was B**ching, and he still hasn't emailed me or called me back. Our dog chewed up a paint tube on his new rug. I washed it best I could, it's barely noticable, but he caled me white trash and said I couldn't take care of anything. Which by the way, my 16 yr old is a 4.8 GPA 10th grader, mu 10 yr old is doing quit good and my 20 month old is above and beyond in his age group. Plus I do everything at home and work a 40 hour + job every week.

2007-12-16 15:57:59 · 4 answers · asked by sweetpeasmum 4

We have only been together 2 months and have been to his house a few times. I was invited to his family's Christmas and he said his mom got me something.

Should I bring her a gift also or something for the family?
and what? The extended family will be there also.

2007-12-16 15:54:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

The father of my baby wants him to come over for a few days alone so he can watch him on his own. My mom said i better not do that or i might as well pack my stuff and leave her house. I usually go over there every weekend but didnt feel like it, he is his son but i dont want my mom mad at me. i admit he isnt all the knowledgeable, he can change the diaper and feed him and such but he cant calm him down. His mom is there and she is really good with my baby, and im so confused on what to do. Jamie wanted to get the baby tonight at 10pm but it was to late and he had a co its my son i can see him when i want. and we dont have papers or nething on when he can see him, and he is the blood father and i dont know what to do i cant stop him can i from seeing him he hasnt done nething to him or nething. i just know my mother will get mad if she comes home and he isnt here. Mama said if he comes and get him for me to pack my stuff... im so confused but he isnt getting him he got mad cuz i said n

2007-12-16 15:53:48 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 2

ok. so im wondering. are my parents strict?
1. they ground me for giving a "sigh" when they tell me to do a chore.
2. they ground me for giving a "sigh" when they wont let me have a friend over.
3. whenever i have a sleepover, they set an 11 o clock bedtime.
4. i get grounded if i roughhouse even a little bit with my brother/friend.
5. they ground me if i get anything less than an A at school, yet my brother is getting straight C's.
6. they even admitted that they go easy on punishments for my brother.

2007-12-16 15:50:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't want to go in to details, but what I found out has really upset me. I'm trying very hard not to be mad about this because he's not here anymore. How do I put this out of my mind? I love my father very much and it hurts that I've found this out. I wish I'd never discovered this. I know what he did was a mistake, that's why I want to forget what I know.

2007-12-16 15:35:45 · 24 answers · asked by JustMyOpinion 5

My dad always yells at me and can never control himself. one minute he loves me the next minute he hates me. He always says I never respect him but I can't even remember the last time he showed me respect. He just had surgery and I know he is in pain but he was like this before surgery. He tells me and my mom are stupid and that we have no common sense. He yells at me because my showers are too long or I use too much electricity but he has 6 motorcycles and a new truck and he says I can't even have a cell phone. I am 13 and my mom is never this harsh. All the other guts my age dont have parents this cruel. I will lie awake in my bed for hours crying and I keep thinking that I should just kill myself because my parents treat me like ****. My mom will always tell me that I dont do certain things right and in my parents eyes nothing I do is right. I always try tohold back my anger but sometimes i just can't help my self bcau I feel so unloved and horrible.

PLEASE HELP ME !!!!!!!!!

2007-12-16 15:30:25 · 9 answers · asked by tstud925 3

My dad i a drug addict. He lives with me, my husband, and my step-daugther. Also I'm taking care of my brother. Recently I suspect he's fallen of the wagon cause he should have enough money to move out but he said he doesn't have any money. He went to the hospital 2 days ago, he said he was going to kill himself, and he won't call me back. I'm unsure of what to do. I can't take the stress of him living with us anymore, but I don't want him to go off the deep end if I tell him he needs to get out of the house and it's CHRISTMAS! I want to ask him to to an oxford house. I don't want to feel responsisble if he kills himself cause I asked him to move out. Any advice apprecaited

2007-12-16 15:29:33 · 5 answers · asked by msulli2366 1

I feel like I don't fit into the society, enviroment, and people around me. I want to move to another state. My dad says as long as at least one of your brothers (or Both) would like to move, but my brothers don't want to and they like it here. How do I convince my brothers to move?

2007-12-16 15:27:30 · 1 answers · asked by tomsingsdumpweed 1

I have a step-dad that my mom married a couple of years ago. He was really nice until my sister Prudence was born. He is really mean to me and never lets me do anything fun. When he is home he never let's me watch TV or go on the computer on anything. He treats me like an animal. I try to be nice to him but it never works. He has been really nice for the past week and now he is really mean. What should I do to make him be nice? Oh by the way he never yells at my sister just me. Why?

2007-12-16 15:22:48 · 15 answers · asked by ~ Shawn Timothy Gates ~ 1

i mean i know it must hurt but cmon do they really have to double over and roll on the ground?

2007-12-16 14:57:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous