in love with family members
2007-12-16 20:40:37 · 11 answers · asked by ndr_meriweather 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes. she needs to understand the rest of the families feelings
2007-12-16 20:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
upset......yes..... but mad.....no because there are circumstances involved in such a relationship. I would like to hear her side of the story first before taking any decision...... after all she is my mom.
Yes, I would feel sorry for my father and pity for family members till I know the complete truth.
WELL... sorry to read that because you are the one living with the problem of dealing with the stigma.
May GOD give you strength and patience to deal with it.
2007-12-17 05:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be upset,disappointed and mortified that she choose to do this to our family,and its not just her, its also the other person fault. it takes two to have a relationship,so its not all on the mom. personally,my mom has passed away years ago,but we had such a close bond and we had unconditional love,you have to be able to forgive before you can move on in your life. you need to be there for her,when everything falls apart,cuz it will... and she will need someone to hold on too. hope it is you and your a bigger person. you know,your mom would be there for you,if you needed it... the same goes here... May God Bless you and your family.....
2007-12-17 07:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by oldiesbutgoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset, not mad. I would confront her and tell her she needs to tell my Dad and if she didn't, I would. She is ultimately betraying your father and everybody else in the family and it needs to stop or she needs to divorce your father. But, what she is doing now is morally wrong.
Please take action with her. It is in your entire family's best interest. Don't try to protect her. She already made her bed and now has to lie in it.
2007-12-17 08:07:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not be mad. I would be disappointed in my mom and slightly embarrassed by her actions, but I would not be mad.
Never internalize someone else's b.s. It's very unhealthy and can prove itself to be a hinderance to your life. Instead, look at what she's doing and remind yourself of what not to do. How not to carry yourself.
Now that you've established that you know better, you can do better!
2007-12-17 04:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does strange things to people....Its their souls that have connected....and they may feel this strong urge to be connected......they are two adults....they know from right to wrong....they know the concequences.....just be there for her when she made need you most...its called unconditional love....and goes a long way.....and there are things we all learn from relationships....wether it makes us a stronger person.....a kinder person...or even to learn from our mistakes....just go on with your life.....and enjoy what you are doing now......for now is the only time you need to worry about.....take care
2007-12-17 04:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by ReturN tO SenDer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell your father its a bad thing to do i have been through the same thing and it hurts i would give her the chance to tell your dad if she dont you be strong and you do it for the sake of the rest of the familey my heart gos out to you good luck
2007-12-17 05:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by horn3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm probably not, because it's not my love affair.. even if she was my mother, i'd have to realize it's HER life she's affecting and messing up.
of course i'd be affected or upset, but i'd get over it.
it would be on her "record" forever tho.
2007-12-17 04:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would because its not fair on the rest of the family.
2007-12-17 04:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Suzie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-12-17 04:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by iloveyou :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋