I'm 25 weeks pregnat now but I broke up with the father of the baby because he wanted to sleep with other people but still wanted to see me.. Well I called my mom and she helped me pack up and move in with my family.. Well a few days later I went over to talk to him and we desided we wanted to work on thing because 3.5yrs together was hard for either of us to throw away...
Well I got pregnat the doc said was a week after I left him... We have been working on things and I found out alot of stuff I didn't want to know about with him... He says his changing thing for me and he has changed something but I still don't trust him...
But right now his my only option to move out of my parents and quit smoking and so my babies not around 2nd hand smoke..
My 16yrs sister told me she doesn't care about the baby and wants nothing to do with it and my parents don't want to be at the hospital that day because his parents are there.. All because they treat him like trash even before this all happened.
2007-12-16 20:00:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your predicament is unusual. However, giving your child a home is not a very good reason to be back with your baby. But it may be just the thing that might work for you.
So, we all are selfish some time. If you can ignore your husband's behavior and focus on the baby, you can move in with him.
The key is to keep yourself happy... in whichever situation. Choose a situation that gives you less stress.
Don't think too much of your husband's past. Like I said, focus on the baby. May be the sight of the little one will change your man for ever.
Keep heart. I have known babies work miracles... There may be one happening in your home.
2007-12-16 20:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by babasbhakta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy treated you badly before the pregnancy,and cheated, he will probably continue to do the same as long as you stay with him.
Sorry to say, people don't change their stripes overnight...
Just because you love someone, doesn't necessarily mean they are "right" for you... think about it, and decide what is best for YOU and the baby.
About your parents not coming to the hospital when you have the baby --- i'm sure they will change their minds when the time comes.. if not, just remember we all come into this world alone.. the baby won't know the difference... and you will have a doctor and a good hospital staff there to make sure you are alright...
i wish you all the best of life has to give, hon... take care.
2007-12-16 21:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the b/f, stay with your parents, inform the hospital staff who is allowed in your room when you have the baby and who isn't and don't hesitate to call security if someone not allowed shows up, tell your sister to get used to having a baby around and hit the baby's father up for child support.
2007-12-16 20:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋