Tell me what you think?

Question

My husband is acting real weird, he is out of town working, last night I hung up on him cause all he was doing was B**ching, and he still hasn't emailed me or called me back. Our dog chewed up a paint tube on his new rug. I washed it best I could, it's barely noticable, but he caled me white trash and said I couldn't take care of anything. Which by the way, my 16 yr old is a 4.8 GPA 10th grader, mu 10 yr old is doing quit good and my 20 month old is above and beyond in his age group. Plus I do everything at home and work a 40 hour + job every week.

Answer 1

welll if you think your perfect alrealdy then there was no point in you asking this question

Answer 2

You really need to have a good communication with your husband. Obviously you are not sharing with each other the things that you both did. Sharing really means getting each other involve so that one can appreciate what the other party has gone through. For e.g taking care of kids seem trivial to alot of husband and they take things for granted. They need to be in your shoe to feel what you have gone through.
Same like wise that you need to be in his shoe, always thinking of how to bring the bread home for now and future..

ALL in all you need to communicate with your husband..do it for the kids sake..

take care.

Answer 3

He called you white trash? That's abusive! Tell him you could have turned out a lot better if you hadn't married him. He needs to straighten out his act! I'm glad your kids aren't the problem; he can be replaced; they can't!

Answer 4

It's hard to appreciate real talent when you don't have any yourself isn't it?

Unless & until your husband has actually walked a mile in your shoes, he will never really appreciate what you go through every day, so until that happens you can't really expect him to appreciate you.