Girlfriend family using her,what should I do?

Question

make a long story short we been 2gether for a year and 3 months.she has my name tatooed on her back.She lives with me in ny.She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother that she considers her mother and fam.The house is over crowded.Here's the list of people who live there,godmothr,3 sisters age 20,18 and 15 all got kids.one of the sister's babyfather lives there,a recovering crackhead who is the mother cousin
they live in nj.
she once stayed there for 2 weeks cuz we broke up and they was just using her 2 babysit,send her to the store every 10 mins and clean up the whole house everyday.even 1 of her sisters said that she was being treated like a slave.Its like my girl dont see it,she's blind as a bat.I told her it would be better if she got cool with her father side of the fam.her mom fam is messed up(long story) but her and her father talk sumtime..She said if she lose her godmother fam then she wont have anybody.What should I do

My girl lives with me.
Also while she's over here at my house her godmother only calls her once every 2 weeks.Her godsisters NEVER call her,only one of them and she moved out the godmother house herself.That right there shows that they use her just to babysit and they dont love her like she(my girl) think

Her fam dont like me(long story)they also try to break us up sometimes by saying to her "you make the same mistakes your real mom made".My girl is sensitive so when they talk about her real mom,she start crying

she goes and see them once a month

Answer 1

Some times, you have to cut certain people from your life. It hurts when you have to make that break from family, but it seems like that's what your girl needs to do.

They treat her that way because she allows it. If she lives with you, there is no reason for her to be heading over to Jersey just to be a slave. She can let them know that she isn't going to be going through this anymore.

Just be supportive of her.

Answer 2

i know how she feels her story is pretty much the same as mine too. if she lives with you and you plan to be together then dont worry about her family. make your own. show her what love is.
just let her be to see what she wants to do.
ps. answered this question before

Answer 3

like i said last time... stop obsessng over situations you can't control and accept your girlfriend and the family at face value...

you're letting her family control your emotions and they don't even know it!