My dad is being a pain. he is saying bad words to my mom and i, all this drama he is saying, he said he's moving into the moderhome, he dosent want to spend Christmas with us, and he is telling me to move in with my 25 year old sister who just had a baby girl. please tell me some advice for what i can do for him to stop and just chill. and also..... I didnt do anything.
2007-12-16 16:25:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Has he had a lot of pressure at his job?
Is he on some sort of drugs or alcohol?
Has he been to a doctor lately?
Either he has an addiction or he has an undiagnosed health problem that is making him wonky... diabetes will do that. Try to find out who his doctor is and call their office... explain what is going on and ask them to call your dad in for a "routine physical"... and they can ask some extra questions, run some extra bloodwork, and refer him to a specialist.
Everyone needs to stand pat there at the house and let him come to his senses.
2007-12-16 16:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad is verbally abusive and that sounds all to familar to me. this is going to sound horrible but hes set in his ways and theres nothing you can do. but you can make your self feel safer. if you move in with your sister for a while he might come to some sense. you can help with the baby thats what i did with my brother and his wife. they took care of me and still do. my dad is changeing but its VERY gradual. just do it you will feel better and if your not there then he will miss you. it may not seem that way but it will make a difference. call your sister when hes not home.tell her the situation and talk to her about situation and ask to stay with her to take care of the baby and on a trial basis as well. i really hope it helps
2007-12-17 00:36:22 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad has issues and hon, they are not your fault...
Sometimes people have anger issues and they do not have good, healthy outlets to get rid of it, so they treat people they are supposed to love like crap.. its NOT your fault! Please remember this.
Your parents probably have a problem marriage, too. This is not something you can resolve... it's an adult problem.
But you can talk with your school counselor for help and advice... that's what they are trained to do -- help kids with their issues... and i hope you will talk to your counselor.
In the meantime, if there is an adult in your life who you trust and respect, maybe you could go to them and ask them if they'd please take the time to listen because you have this problem... maybe that would help too?
i sure hope you will have a nice christmas, despite it all. hugs
2007-12-17 01:03:03 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like my husband just before he was getting ready to divorce me after 23 yrs of marriage. Nothing was right, yelling at the kids, not wanting to spend anytime with us at all. You haven't done anything wrong and its not your fault. He is not sure about how to proceed it sounds like and hes taking out on all of you he percieves as his problem. I feel for you.
2007-12-17 01:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋