I love this kid, would step in front of a train for him, just dont want him to feel like im trying to replace his "natural" father, just show him I truly care and as he grows I am here for him.
2007-12-16 19:01:51 · 7 answers · asked by RLP 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
just be your self..
express your self....
tell him/her that you love him/her..
thats it.
2007-12-16 19:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just love him, be there for him, and never no matter what, ever speak a negative word about his father. It will take time , but I will never forget when my daughter came to me and ask me if she could call me dad. My reply was I would be proud to have her call me dad. It has been 10 years and I don't see her as anyone but mine, and though her father is a deadbeat...she has never and will hear from me.
2007-12-17 03:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by chicagovillarosa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u should just keep on doing what your doing. he'll know how you feel. congrats to his mom for choosing a guy like you!
I want to second what chicago said.....never speak ill of that "natural" father. if he is a loser that child will know when he grows up who his father really is...u
2007-12-17 03:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there....for him not only when he needs to u. Try spending more and more time with him. Look after his smallest needs. moreover, true love does not need any showoff...he is too young as of now...will understand u and ur feeling as n with time. Take care :)
2007-12-17 03:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by Maya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat him with respect and tell him that you love him. Treat him like he deserves to be treated and he will know that he has an extra dad in you.
2007-12-17 03:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by PontificalPape 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a good role model, encourage him, and give him support.. when he does well, praise him... be firm but kind and fair.
And let him know that if he ever needs to talk you will listen... he will remember.
take care.
2007-12-17 05:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can give him is your time and attention. Spend time listening to his stories, jokes and questions. He's fortunate to have you in his life.
2007-12-17 03:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by searcher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋