Family - April 2007

well today he came in my room and in the ear he told me i likes u as a gf and i don`t really agree with that well i do like him but i don`t want to be his gf what do i do now plz help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-28 14:08:39 · 12 answers · asked by margaret b 1

I am a 39 year old mother. I have raised two 17 year old daughters and I have an 8 year old son. But due to family arguments someone keeps calling DFCS on us this has happened twice and it is tearing my family apart. I want to start a support group for families that are in the similar situation and maybe get the laws changed because they wont tell you who does it. But if I was raped, you can bet your *** the person I accuse would know my name. Would any one be interested in talking and seeing is we can get the laws changed. By the way I have submitted to both drug test and they were negative. Dont send get an attorney, that cost way to much and they protect the person accusing you would be wasting your time trying to get one. Please let me know if there are more of you out there that is tired of the system.

2007-04-28 13:56:59 · 6 answers · asked by slyle13 2

im pregnant and the guy told every one and their mothers that it wasnt his and now im 4 mo. and he and his gf say they want joint custody am i wrong to tell the jerk no?

2007-04-28 13:49:34 · 10 answers · asked by irulemarys 1

When i go to bed at night or whenever i have some free time i go to my bedroom and lock the door. Sometimes my parents will barge in when i am least expecting it. Or they will call up to me and ask me what i am doing. This is so annoying! Please i am out of ideas on explaining to my parents that sometimes i just need to be alone! Help!

2007-04-28 13:36:49 · 7 answers · asked by hardyfansrock 2

I went to Texas and bought him to stay with me just to help get him on his feet but all he does is sleep on my couch and he constatnly curses at me and is totally rude and disrespectful, he's 18 yrs old. I am trying to convince him to go back to school or go to job corps....and I'm about to deploy to Iraq should I let him stay at my house with my mom and my baby while I'm gone or should I kick him out.

2007-04-28 13:27:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

She isn't dead yet, but she is going to die pretty soon; should I go? Will I regret it if I don't? My mother is going... I'm not sure whether or not I want to go.

2007-04-28 12:56:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

they moved in and it was jsut suppose to be temporaray, it'll be a year now in june! they havent saved any money(it is now clear to us they spend all their money at the casino) and only pay $200 a month for rent and watch the kids for free, but only part time. The MIL works full time and FIL gets disability and is home all day. They have quit buying groceries and I say "we gave them a year and now they can start paying part of the mortgage and utilites and we will pay them for daycare and take it off the rent. My husband agrees but wont talk to them about it. he feels bad. I want to know where all their money is and my husband says it's none of our buisness. I say my house my rules, when they start contributing their fair share what money they have left over is not our concern. shouLd I just start dealing with them or still leave it to my husband and how much longer can we let them stay.
Ps. they have an unlawful detainer on their renters record and filed banruptcy. HELP

2007-04-28 12:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by Kelsey r 1

I've been with my partner for over 2 years now, and she's been with his brother for 3 or 4 years. They are engaged and an engagement is on the cards for us too (I hope!). She's so nasty to me, and it's not subtle, it's out in the open. She always finds a way to put me down and is always making nasty comments towards me. I've tried talking to her, and she said that she doesn't like my personality and that I have taken my partner away from her, which i don't understand because judging from what she said I haven't done anything to hurt her, she just doesn't like me for no reason. Also, she is really nasty to my partner and they were never close before I came along either. I think she doesn't like me cause i'm a smaller dress size than her but it's just a suspicion. I really don't know. How do I handle this? What can I do?

2007-04-28 12:22:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 13, almost going to high school. i have hairy legs. Im sick of them, and every1 else, even 5th graders shave and not me. My mom says im ''not ready''. I need a convincing way to let her let me shave. I already shave my pits and now i think thats 1 of the reasons y she wont let me do my legs. she still calls me her baby, and i want her to just let me shave. can u tell me how you got started, or any tips or anything. please im desperate. Sorry this is so long. thanx!!

2007-04-28 12:14:30 · 5 answers · asked by shalalalala 2

well he is 5 years old and i don`t feel like at my age i should be playing with him and now he wants me to go in the pool we him i said yes but i don`t want to go in what shoul i do i need help plz girl or boys i need it fast

2007-04-28 11:57:02 · 14 answers · asked by margaret b 1

2007-04-28 11:51:32 · 6 answers · asked by tes 2

I KNOW HE IS STILL ACTIVE IN THE NAVY, SS#, DOB, AND FULL NAME. WHERE SHOULD I GO OR CALL?

2007-04-28 11:41:55 · 6 answers · asked by Candi G 1

my bff got a bf that she is happy with but we just found out that her bf's cousin is in my class so i'm kinda like the info person for all of them anyways his cousin likes my bff. And he says he will kill himself if he she isn't is his.and we belive him because i went out with him once and i broke up with him and he cut himslef really bad. We really don't want him 2 kill himself me and my bff were wondering do u think she should brake up with her bf just so he doesn't kill himself...we haven't told her bf yet.. and her bf can't talk 2 his cousin casue they hate each other

2007-04-28 11:21:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my step dad dont get along, hes alway callin me a B***h and should i go live with my grandparents or stick it out?He has made it to where i hate life and i want to hurry up and go with Jesus!I HATE HIM!

2007-04-28 11:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by Kelsey C 1

How can I tell my dad that i don't want to visit or talk to him again without him flipping out becasue he has a quick temper.

I don't want to visit him but he wants me 2

2007-04-28 11:05:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-28 11:01:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you couldn't cry? No matter how hard you tried. You can feel the tears in your eyes but they just won't come out.

2007-04-28 10:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was adopted and found my birth mother we got along at first and then things just went real bad she burned my birth certificate and my file and i cant get them again.she will not tell me the name of my father and i was wondering if its still possible to find him ,i dont know my heritage i have health issues and id like to know.any advice would be very helpful,and i could have brothers or sisters out there..thanks ..

2007-04-28 10:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Clea B 1

Okay, my boyfriend used to deal and 'do' cocaine. He quit about a year and a half ago. We now have a daughter who is one, and he recently did it again, then sold the rest for a 'buddy'. When he uses he is very mean, and violent...He will not talk to me or tell me why he decided to do it again, especially while he is on it.. When I lecture about our daughter, how he can have her taken...he doesn't really say much. He does cry when he knows that he has upset eveyone in his family! I want to help him, but when his friends are pushing it, and it is at his work its kinda hard. Any advice or tips??

2007-04-28 10:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by Traci 1

I know kids say this about living with their parents all the time, but I'm seriously going to kill myself if I have to wait 2 more years to move out of this house. I don't live with my father but he still calls me everyone once and a while, but I don't think it'd be a great idea to live with him since he's a drug addict. My mother is unlike any other mother. She's controlling, semi-abusive (verbally & kind of physically if you consider slapping, throwing objects, & hitting physical abuse), she has a short-temper which leads to this abuse, and I don't think we could go a day without arguing ONCE. She's a single mother and collects child support from my sister's dad. She's suppose to be using that money for my sister's daycare, but instead she doesn't take her to her day care and she expects me to be watching her from 10am-5pm during the week. Is there anywhere I can go to live? Is there someone I could talk 2 about my living arrangments and maybe I could move out now?

2007-04-28 10:04:30 · 4 answers · asked by kjhk 1

i reily want my tounge peired and my dad wont let me n i am only 14 and he is reily strict being nice to him dnt work and buying him pressant's dont and when eva i bring it up he get's in a stress plz answer me ! i nead help i want this done badely !

2007-04-28 09:53:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my finace's sister for the first time, she lives out of state and came to visit. When I was talking to her, I told her about myself and how I am quick to judge other people. She looked me right in the eye and told me the first time I ever judge her, she will judge me back. After that she gave me the cold shoulder and hardly spoke to me. I talked to my finace about this and he basically said I has no right to tell her that and she's not lying, he knows his sister and that she will do as she says. What should I say to make her accept and like me? I feel terrible for telling her that.

2007-04-28 09:50:48 · 6 answers · asked by lighting_the_way 1

in short my Bro in law insulted me , and i got too sad and reacted .. but after the reaction .. (just a sentence) i feel better . maybe it was the first time i dint finish a fight even though he tried it ..( on the surface level though) and for the first time i aint feeling weepy .. sad..about it.
Whats up with me?

2007-04-28 09:48:51 · 3 answers · asked by barley 2

I just welcomed these people to the neighborhood and they have a daughter who's nine years old and i have a sister who is nine years old. i was babysitting my little sister because our parents were out of town and after an hour of their daughter and my sister playing they asked if i could babysit. i said yes because i didn't know what to do. i hardly know these people. would they just leave their daughter with anyone? They aren't even paying me for this.

2007-04-28 09:34:05 · 12 answers · asked by victorianlady92 1

Finally, I said to my good friend that I want a break bcoz I have a few things in my mind and that I have to clear up and she did let me go!
When I was friends with her, I used to feel like a burden on her, bcoz she used to made an effort to be in touch with me despite being very busy and I felt like I am becoming a burden on her so I told her to contact me only when she is free and when she started contacting me when she was free, I felt as she was using me bcoz she used to contact me only when she was free and I used to feel like a door mat!

But still I was confused, I didnt know if she is using me or is it a fault of mind so I thought of maintainig some distance.
I had a breif conversation with her and I told her one problem that I had with her, she gave me a geunine explanation which is accepted as true.
But I am missing her terribly, did I make a mistake asking for some space, she is emotional and I feel I have hurt her.
I feel I have lost something very precious!

2007-04-28 09:24:48 · 17 answers · asked by smile always 2

2007-04-28 08:14:40 · 9 answers · asked by martinlh 4

I've learned recently that my grandmother is having a hard time living. She has always been really healthy, but now she and everyone else in my family seems to think that her time is comming soon. She's comming to live close to her family so that she can get the care she needs. I don't know how to act around her. She is the first person in my family that has ever had serious life threating health problems. How do I act around her? How do you act around someone that is dying?

2007-04-28 08:12:07 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Lilly♥ 2

My 20-yr-old daughter is totally self absorbed and is snappy, rude, abrupt, and most of the time, barely tolerant of me. She works full time and has started paying $100 per month rent for the last 3 months. Living with her is like walking on eggshells. Unfortunately, everytime I confront her on her behaviour or ask her not to speak to me like that, the situation deteriorates into a confrontation with her swearing and saying I'M annoying and rude and she doesn't want to talk to me. We've had a couple of nasty blowouts in the last year where I've ended up telling her to move out but it all blows over and she's nice for a day or two. She says I always throw "move out" at her, but I don't know how else to get through to her. She's basically an adult. I treat her and talk to her with respect and expect the same back. Any advice appreciated.

2007-04-28 07:12:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont like doing things behind my moms back so I dont want to lie about anything. My boyfriend and his family invited me to go to his motocross race next weekend and they are leaving at like 4 or 5 in the morning...earlier than my parents would want to take me to his house. His parents suggested that I just stay the night and sleep on the couch downstairs. I told my mom and she completely flipped out I know she thinks we are going to have sex or whatever but we really arent! Seriously the only reason I want to stay with him is so it wont be as much trouble to leave in the morning. I really will sleep on the couch with him in a different room. I have a week to convince my mom of this and I really want her to trust me what should I say to prove to her that Im responsible enough?

2007-04-28 05:57:04 · 20 answers · asked by ---- 2

2007-04-28 03:13:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous