Family - March 2007

my mum and dad died in a car crash when i was 15 and my sister was 12, and last year my aunty died from cancer, and i said my sister could live with me and my bf! now im 18 and she 15 and shes gone and gotten herself pregnant, and i said that if she wanted to keep the baby id say it was mine cos shes not showing yet and i had a baby at 15 and i no how hard it is, so all i want to no is am i donig the wright thing by saying that ill bring up her baby? cos i no i can clothe it and feed it with my design work and my bfs lawyer wadges!

2007-03-07 01:05:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-07 00:50:42 · 8 answers · asked by Son of the bunboy 1

my boyfriend does absolutley nothing around the house. yeah he works all day and i stay home and mind our daughter. he gives me £30 a week to live in my house.
every month when the phone/tv/internet bill comes (its just a 1 off bill, the only bill he pays because i pay the rest) he doesn't want to pay it or all of it because i use the phone/internet/tv aswell he thinks that i should pay some!
he doesnt drive
he has a bank account in his mums name
and he never has money left come monday and is scavving from me!!
am i wrong to nag at him??
i am at my whits end with him completely!!
i want us to be a family but he doesn't think that he is wrong.
please help!!!

2007-03-07 00:47:55 · 26 answers · asked by xloux 3

he has low self-esteem, what can i do to help

2007-03-07 00:43:10 · 11 answers · asked by coneyislandkid 1

A year ago I went through a bas phase. I was jealous of my lil sister, felt I wan't loved, eneded up being mean to her and doing some bad stuff. I apologized my parents were kinda harsh, I got a extremely harsh punishment fo3 3 months and for 2 months more they still acted like they didn't like and trust me. That broke my spirit, I got in a deep depression, but my parents were harsh again, told me I had got what I deserved, depression would solve nothing and I had to cary on w/ my life. I even thought about suicide, but my grandma who loves me sugested I spend some time with her, far from my parents. I've ben living w/ her for a years and my life changed, now I'm a kid my parents are proud of. But I don't want to see them again, they didn't act like parents, proved they don't love me. They want me to get back home but I can't see them withouth getting disturbed by those memories. I don't deserve such punishment. I want to stay w/ my grandma and write them off my life. She stands by me

2007-03-07 00:42:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it wrong for parent(s) to pick their childs future career, because they are paying for the education. If the child does not want to be what the parent says because the parents think the child cant be anything else. And how would you get out of that with your parents being not really understanding and easily angered.

2007-03-07 00:27:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

your spouses aunt or uncle knowing that a long time ago, this person molested his/her sibling and cousins? I don't think so, but this for some unknown reason to me, has become a bone of contention between me and my spouse.

2007-03-07 00:17:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am in college and have just been kicked out of both my parents houses. i am now living with my boyfriend college is paying for my travel for now but are soon going to stop and i dont know what to do HELP

2007-03-07 00:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He retired at the young age of 60 without a plan for his time and is now drinking very heavily and calling at *all* hours every day for 3 months now. I am pregnant and have a 4-year-old, I need my rest! I have family member in the hospital and elderly parents so shutting the phone off is not an option. Being compassionate towards him has not worked, it made things worse, and husband refuses to change phone number. I am angry and I know that will get us nowhere ...any suggestions out there?

2007-03-07 00:10:08 · 6 answers · asked by JenJen 6

my mother is always in my business. i am 23 years old, and with all due respect my mother is making me cuckoo. she butts in, she tells me how to raise my son, she makes rude comments, she tries to tell everyone in MY home what to do, overall i am goin nuts. what can i do? i think i am gonna need a shrink soon at the rate she is going.

2007-03-07 00:07:53 · 9 answers · asked by hunterzmomma2006 1

Can anyone recommend a child friendly pub in the west sussex area? Good food, non-smoking, somewhere for the kiddies to play?

2007-03-06 23:52:03 · 2 answers · asked by FingerNails 1

2007-03-06 23:50:50 · 4 answers · asked by AmandaNikolah 3

mum has kicked me out of the family home, is there any where i can go? Im 19 yrs old and have been kicked of the family home and i need a permenant place to stay, i have a good job so i need to stay in the hertfordshire area. please help me

2007-03-06 23:44:43 · 16 answers · asked by stacey 1

who refuses to talk to you

2007-03-06 23:21:19 · 14 answers · asked by Antares 6

2007-03-06 22:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by candie 4

i've been living with my boyfriend for 2 years, he is such a sweet man and i feel very happy with him, we are both 28 years old, he is very helpful and very supportive of everything i do, i find we are 2 peas in a pot - very identical! HOWEVER, i am so happy to just live with him, i never want to marry him or anybody, i think co-hibiting is the way for me, i am committed to him, i do not cheat, bugt i want to stay unmarried for the rest of my life, i also do not want children. I love my career, love travelling with my boyfriend, some peole said if you love someone you will marry them, but i don't feel like that at all, is it still love?

2007-03-06 22:15:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 7 yr old who lost his bottom front teeth few months back,one tooth is coming in fine the other is like a point? (imagine an upside down cone) he has the dentist in a few weeks for a check up, and i,ll ask then ,just wondered if anyone knew if this is normal?it looks weird.

2007-03-06 21:55:00 · 4 answers · asked by smiler 4

Now my family members are searching a guy for me. How can I tell them that I luv the one who is younger to me. We luv each other very truly. What to do I m scared, if they make as separate, I really cant live without him. Is it ok if I get register marriage? Is it possible to get Register Marriage! Since he is 3 year younger is it possible. We both r working. N I don’t like to go against my parents. I like to marry him in register office n want to stay with my parents. So that they will not force me to marriage someone. Am I correct or anything wrong in it… will this society will accept us? pls frnds help me….

2007-03-06 21:52:37 · 21 answers · asked by Janu 2

...what on earth is she on about? I've never been fishing in my life. Sometimes I think my Mum doesn't know me at all!!!

2007-03-06 21:43:25 · 24 answers · asked by G P 2

TEN POINTS for the best answer!
- innocent hell
-avenger
-lady of the beginning
-flower of the wind

2007-03-06 21:01:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am in my late 20's and so is my boyfriend, we've been living together for 2 years, when i first met him he was very healthy and outgoing, but 5 months ago he was diagonised with cancer, our carefree life was replace with constant hospital visit, pain from chemo and constant fear of cancer getting worse. Now i am not trying to be selfish here, but logically its affecting my life, my realithy and my feelings every second! should i stay with him because 'love' and 'its the right thing to do', or should i leave because i don't want to live in fear anymore? i fear his death, fear my own motality, fear future, is it a way of living?

2007-03-06 20:58:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother in law is always arguing with me about whether I'm having a girl or not ..based on her "feelings"...She feels it inside that we're having a girl.....She also keepsasking to be in the room while I'm delivering the baby.......Is your mother inlaw this way??

2007-03-06 20:27:58 · 4 answers · asked by Direktor 5

Who loves the tv show Brother and Sister on ABC?

2007-03-06 20:19:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Were you born into money? or were you poor growing up? Did you have a privileged childhood or was it a struggle?
and would you change it if you could?

2007-03-06 19:36:52 · 27 answers · asked by kirsty m 3

What concerns do you have about these games? There are plenty of criticisms about these games affecting the health and concentration of young people. Are there any positive aspects to this type of leisure activity?
Thank you for answeriing and helping with my research. Would you please include details of your age and the ages of your child/ children.

2007-03-06 18:45:13 · 10 answers · asked by lizzie 5

Who are you closer to? I was closer to my grandmother. I miss her so much. I miss my mother to. I feel bad that I miss my grandmother more. Is that bad?

2007-03-06 18:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by Teslajuliet 4

2007-03-06 17:21:57 · 4 answers · asked by watshznam 1

iam a 2 yr recovering addict.and my 12 yr old boy treats me worse than he has ever,and ive used his whole 12 yrs.iam in counsiling,and in parenting classes,and ive used all there advises and his attitude seems to get worse towards me. i feel like he should have treated me this way when i was doing my thing and not trying than now when iam trying for us.it almost seems he treated me better when i was using than now,what am i to do?any suggestions?

2007-03-06 17:15:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

when I asked my brother for getting a girlfriend (he has a girlfriend), and here's is what I wrote in the email, I paraphrased it to condense it.

"Are there any pointers on to getting a girlfriend? I never had an intimate relationship nor have a big amount of female friends. Just because a female is your friend, that doesn't mean that she will become your girlfriend. I know that 1st appearance matter so I will stop biting my nails permanently."

He is in college while I am at home. I emailed that email since Feb 10, 2007 and he didn't reply. When he got home, I asked about him about it and he said he didn't replied to it since he didn't know what to say (aka, he thinks it was wierd). In my opinion, he's the wierd one. The relationship between my brother and I is that I never talk to him (online or phone). AKA, our communication is dead.

2007-03-06 17:13:17 · 6 answers · asked by KHCOM 1

My sweetheart and I just found out we are having a baby. After manny intense discussions we have decided to keep the baby, neither of us could live with ourselves if we chose to terminate it.( I already am a single mom going to school full time plus working nd he has no kids) But how do i get him to be as excited about it as I am? Obviously it will hit him when i am showing, but for now??????
he has always been extremly caring and generous, like rubbing my back and cooking diner before i us, so his actions as taking care of me were always there, and i know he will make a wonderful dad, he already steps up to when my kids' dad fails, and fails often. what should i look for as sighns so i have a wee bit more sucurity about the whole situation. I am all pumped on what we need to do, and he is over being scared, we discussed it, but i don't see any real excitment unless i ask directly about it, and to me that doesn't count if i have to bring it up!

2007-03-06 17:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by mtnightskies 1