2007-03-06 22:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by candie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As for myself, I do not believe that there are any bad people out there accept for those with violent tendencies...I believe that there are people who do not know any better and make the wrong choices, this does not make a person bad..
Life is for making mistakes and to learn and grow with those mistakes..I am sure that you do not wish them bad, but life it to short to worry about other people welfare... If we are too busy worrying about our friends welfare all the time then we will not have time to advance in our own life...
That's my opinion, this does not make you a bad person.. In reality, it makes you a wise person..There are people that we worry about and help in whatever way we can, but that is totally up to us. Not because we feel that we have to or pressured, but because we really do want to..
One of the best part of life for me is the freedom of choice concerning my own welfare..
If I were you, I would stop right now with the worrying about if you are bad or not, you are taking care of yourself...What's so bad about that???
I also want you to keep something in mind, it is always a good thing to have @ least one good friend to confide in during the times of need, this means that it should also be a two way street with the one special friend...Someone in which you truly trust with everything...Maybe someone that you are most comfortable with and that confides in you...I would assess my situation in that catergory..And again, it is always up to you to choose what is roght for you..
2007-03-06 23:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say you don't care about others' welfare? Do you mean you don't have natural empathy for people? Some people just don't but you have other qualities that other people don't have. Every person is unique and should be appreciated as such. I'm not talking about goodness here because it is a moral issue and my explanation has a lot to do with my belief in Chirst. Why do people hurt you, though? Can you give some more details?
2007-03-07 06:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by petyado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it turely is up to you no one can answer that question but if you wear your heart on your sleeve then yeah you will get hurt but the other thing you can try is dont put yourself out there so fast get to know the person first that way you might not get hurt so much
2007-03-07 06:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by hakaes24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not that people hurt u they simply expect much from u coz u showed how very important they r to u n u can do nething 4 them.....chill...happens......u dont always have to b extreme.....u can show people u care but only to an extent......u should always consider urself n ur feelings much important than ne1 else....so take care.......
2007-03-07 07:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AMEN! girl i have been there. but you know i love the saying what goes around comes around. just smile and hold your head high when you see them. don't put yourself to there level. i have always heard keep your friends close and your enemies closer. don't let them get you down. it is there lost not yours. you can do better without them.
2007-03-07 06:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound just like me...
Only you can decide if you are good person..
2007-03-07 06:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋