mum has kicked me out of the family home, is there any where i can go? Im 19 yrs old and have been kicked of the family home and i need a permenant place to stay, i have a good job so i need to stay in the hertfordshire area. please help me
2007-03-06 23:44:43 · 16 answers · asked by stacey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you have a good job, so why don't you rent a place?
2007-03-07 02:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why has she removed u and you can go to your local council and ask to be put on emergency homless list for a flat in the area you live this is really good as it only takes weeks if you got no fix abode but it does have a lot of forms and you will need to get your mum to write letter saying she no longer wants you in her home dont worry it wont get your mother in to trouble it is just proof that you homeless ask to speak to homeless team imediatley while this is taking place i do hope that you got some were to sleep for the time being and you not on the street also it would be a good idea to speak to your boss and just explain that your homeless and its not going to affect your job in any way they may be able to help you so this also might get you a bit of leway when you have to go for property viewing good luck and keep your chin up and show the family you are big enought to do this on your own ok good luck
2007-03-07 08:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There must be flats which you could rent,and as you have a job paying the rent shouldn't be a problem.Try the council to see if you are eligible for a council flat,otherwise you will have to look in the local paper or even advertise yourself for a house share or something .
2007-03-11 07:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what happened, but can you talk to your mum. maybe she was angry and didn't mean it? i was kicked out by my step mother when I was 18, has no choice!!! i had done nothing wrong and it was awful. the good thing is, you have a good job, so you have money to pay rent. Go to your local CAB who can put you in touch with local housing agents etc... i started in shared accommodation but slowly worked up to my own home.
I hope you find somewhere, good luck.
2007-03-07 07:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best advice i can give you is go to the council and ask about places that can help you, ie a homeless project they will give you quality advice,help you with froms etc and most places have phones and internet you can use. the council can also help you as you havent made yourself homeless you were kicked out, but sa word of advice they will and have the right to ring your mum to see if she threw you out for a reason if she did they may not be as helpfull as maybe a homeless project.
2007-03-07 07:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by lydia w 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh its horrible i feel for you. Go to the housing department, phone social services and they may get you in touch iwiith a young persons department. save money each week for a deposit on a flat cos you will get one easy if you are working. citizens advice, find the local hostels addressess although they can be rough and expensive sometimes and their is the salvation army the ymca do rooms for young people in most town, dont, give up ask alot see people dont, settle for the first address God bless you and i pray that you find somewhere chin up you will
2007-03-07 09:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by denny 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I am sorry to here that can you join service or something. It is nice to see that some ladies are trying to help you in this fourm I think that is real sweet. Perhaps, some friends can help or one of the nice ladies answering your question. Sorry, to hear you are having a rough time, it will pass though most young people go through something like this.
2007-03-07 07:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by 5-Stars 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hotel, B&B, flat share, rent own flat, hostel, YMCA, sleep on friends floor, grandparents, other relatives etc
The list is endless and as you have a good job it should not be a problem.
2007-03-07 07:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mark J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the council and tell them u have been made homeless and they should put u in a hostel or amienity house until they find u ur own flat in the area to stay in, good luck xx
2007-03-07 08:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to your local council office and they should be able to point you in the right direction. It may be that they advise a hostel type accommodation for temporary measures but they should put you on their housing list.
2007-03-07 07:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Princesspoison 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
rent a room hostel try and get back to your mums when things settle down
2007-03-07 11:08:48 · answer #11 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋