Family - February 2007

You see, my mom let one of her old "friend" move into our house because he got kicked out of his current one.I guess he's trying to get back together with my mom or whatever.The thing is i don't like him.He lied on me and my brother in the past,he drinks alot,he even has the nerve to accuse me and my younger sibs of stealing his clothes.come he's a guy.what do i want with his clothes.these accusations usally leads to late night arguments with my mom.and everytime i think he's about get kicked out of our home he finds some way to convince my mom to let him stay because he has no place eles to go.ever heard of a hotel.Anyway he makes my home for me very uncomfortable.i don't like him around.He's a walking drama queen.he's also sneaky.i've talked to my mom about this but she says he's not leaving which bites.Now he's trying to convince my mom to move out of the home we have lived in for three years.i ain't having it.Anyway how do i deal with this living arrangement because it seems wrong?

2007-02-10 09:40:04 · 6 answers · asked by Kashmoney 1

(hypothetically), and the poilce have to go through your things to try and connect something to your death (why and how you died).

Is there anything in your journal/email inbox, house, work drawers etc. that you are afraid that family members or friends will see? If so, what is it?

For example...if I died today, I would not want anyone to see:

-how messy my room is (dirty laundry and such everywhere)..embarassing!
-my online journal
-my paper journal (i have question in there about God and my eating disorder)
-things that I search online
-cash in my drawers


Your turn.

2007-02-10 09:37:22 · 4 answers · asked by bones_to_heaven 2

My sister is getting married and asked me to be her Matron of Honour. I gladly said yes, but when I arrived at my parents house (where she is staying) she has been acting like she was "forced" to ask me to be her MOH or even to be in her wedding. She will never discuss anything about her wedding with me, informed me the other night that her friend (one of the other bridesmaids) is throwing her a bridal shower and a bachlorette party, many other things.
So today she and I got into an argument, every time that we get into an argument she tends to bring up her wedding and how her friend (the other bridesmaid) is more of her maid of honour than I am, and I told her that I am not going to be in her wedding. Am I wrong for doing that? When I told her she seemed happy about that. Right now I am not even speaking to her. I have held my tongue since I got here in November about her not letting me know anything about the wedding until now.

2007-02-10 09:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by j_kuemmel02 4

If your cousin hatd you, and deleted you from his myspace friends? What would you do if this happened to you like it's happening to me?

2007-02-10 09:28:42 · 9 answers · asked by hmw95 3

Its weird how so many kids get hold of alcohol these days, and after my son had to be taken home from bluewater yesterday, I want to know how they get hold of it, as I always make sure he cant get any of mine, and I know that the Off-licences around here are quite strict, especially as he doesnt look anywhere near 18.

2007-02-10 09:28:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is really getting on my nerves! She is causing my whole family to hate each other and she doesn't realize it. She MADE my mom take her to get her birthday present today (which is in 10 days) and now my mom is mad at my dad because she thinks he stays home all day and sits on the couch and smokes, but he doesn't! She is saying stuff like, "Well you can stay home and smoke your dam.n cigarettes you ugly ba.stard!" I can't take it anymore! All they do is fight and argue. We don't have much money right now, and my sister doesn't understand that. She is 11 years old and still screams and cries in the middle of a store when she doesn't get what she wants, and my mom will get it for her even though we don't have the money just so she will shut up! My dad is the one that works all week, and my mom gets mad at him when he has to go into work on Saturday or Sunday. I don't know what to do! I want to go live with my older sister...I really do...but I don't want her to think that she has

2007-02-10 08:54:29 · 7 answers · asked by Yahoo! Administrator 1

Last night I really beat my brother in law up bad. Knocked out one of his front teeth. He had to go to the hospital with a concussion. He was bleeding pretty bad too. He is a smart ***, and always talking trash. Well, last night I had had enough. My wife took him to the emergency room and has not come home yet. What can I get her for Valentines day to make her forget what I did to her brother?

2007-02-10 08:47:23 · 28 answers · asked by mycatsdead 2

2007-02-10 08:46:07 · 2 answers · asked by Michelle B 1

I have no job, My life is screwed. My mom is making me pay 2500 dollars for a car they did not buy. It was a gift from my grandparents. And I am in debt up to my ears with nothing to do about it. What should I do short of something illegal.

2007-02-10 08:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by slasher42424 2

For my sisters birthday, which is February 2, she got a Nintendo DS. For my birthday, I got a 70 dollar bike. Here, a Nintendo DS costs 130 dollars. My sister said, "That isn't fair that Erika got her birthday present before her birthday!" First of all, it was the night before my birthday. Second of all, my dad wouldn't be here the next day because he was taking a trip up to Delaware. And just a few days ago, she got mad at me because I wouldn't let her ride my bike so she threw it down on the ground and the pedal broke off. Is that fair of my parents to do that?

2007-02-10 08:34:07 · 22 answers · asked by Yahoo! Administrator 1

My three month old little cousin just died and her funeral was yesterday and I wasn't able to go because I'm overseas right now but I want to send a card but I don't know exactly what to write in it other than I'm sorry for their loss. I was wondering if anybody can maybe give me some beautiful inspirational comforting words or ideas to write to her parents? Anybody have experience with writing sympathy cards for an infants death?

2007-02-10 08:31:58 · 19 answers · asked by LKJ 2

I have a brother and sister that I have never meet. I know there names and I have tried to contact them before. My sister's name is Linda Jefferson and I know her mother lives in the lakeside area here in shreveport. I have meet her kids a while back and havent heard anything else since then I think that was back in 1992 when i meet her kids. I want to see them also and reunite with them. So they can meet their cousins I now have 5 kids. Also my brother Jamiel Jefferson I have tried to contact him before back in maybe 1991. His mother lived about 5 or 6 blocks down from where me and my dad lived. and i went by and i found out later that it was my brother who had told me not to come back there because there was no jamiel who lived there. He dont want to have anything to do with my dad, but I dont thinkhe should hold that against me. I love family and I am a big family person fust want to get to knwo them. I just want jamiel to know that I love him no matter how he feels about my dad and

2007-02-10 08:12:23 · 6 answers · asked by nobody 1

is my babys father and she told me that he is not going to b giving me any money for my baby bec he does not want anythign to do with this baby but my soon to b born son is his baby and yes i know that he is my babys father he is the only man that i ahve ever been with how do i get child support from him when my son is born in june he told her one of his family member that he is not giving me anymoey for this child but he has to dont he ??????? can i get money now from him or do i have to wait intell my son is born ?

2007-02-10 07:58:34 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2

First off, this isn't necessarily my experience. Please don't give me any advice or anything, I just want to know whether this is emotional abuse or not.

-Father tells child she is useless and will probably end up working at mcdonalds for the rest of her life.
-Father gets drunk and constantly scolds child for little things in brutal ways. Example: "You never f(bleep)ing do anything you useless piece of sh(bleep)t!"
-Father gets angry at night and threatens to slit daughter's throat
-Father uses comments such as, "Might as well kill you all!"
-Father criticizes daughter's appearance. Example: Insulting her hair, calling her fat, etc.

2007-02-10 07:46:10 · 24 answers · asked by Misswhatever 2

Do I call her my cousin, aunt, what?

2007-02-10 07:39:01 · 17 answers · asked by K;Chau 1

I have searched the internet but with no luck. Its really important to know if this place exsists. Please help.

2007-02-10 07:33:06 · 5 answers · asked by rainwoman 1

a size 8 and 5ft 7. Whenever there are family fuctions and parties I don't feel like going as all I see is her sitting with her size 8 mates giggling and watching me in disgust. My weight is never steady I often go from a size 14/16 and 5ft 3.

Yesterday it was my mums 45th birthday and I now a size 12 after eating properly and exercising. Finally I feel good about myself I am now healthy with so much energy. So I treated myself to a nice dress and accessories. Big mistake. I walked into my mums party feeling healthy and trim just for my cousin to come over to me with her boyfriend. He said to me you'll never look this hot darling (pointing at her) why keep trying. I just ran out drove home crying.

I miss when my cousin used to be close with me and hate the way she treats me. At the moment I feel depressed as I have no one to talk to and I feel like I cant take it no more. I ain't jelious of her I just want us to be close again.

What can I do?

2007-02-10 07:21:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to go visit my parents today and walked in my sisters room where I heard the tv and came across her having sex with 2 guys, she was being double penetrated and she is only 14, any advice on how I should talk to her concerning this

2007-02-10 07:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by bree7775 2

The road of our destiny leads us to the death of our parents. This moment is so close now. Cancer. Than, tell me, if it is common, why my sorrow is so great?

2007-02-10 07:07:49 · 5 answers · asked by IMMORTAL GOD 2

this poor woman had problems all her life being raised poor in the first place in a very small town and to reach a point in her life where she was rich and could enjoy and give back to some poor girl/children just like she had been but instead she chose to think about anna and anna's look's i say what a waste of life i feel she had a mental problem and needed help with that but she never seek help for herself her life was a mess and it is sad no one was there to advise her no one with her interest at heart how sad

2007-02-10 06:48:56 · 16 answers · asked by mishoney 4

Hi Ya"ll,
I am a homemaker with one kid,i take good care of her and love her more than anything else in this world,but my problem is i had some dreams in my heart and i am not doing anything to fulfill those dreams,i feel guilty for not fulfilling my dreams.I have lost interest in doing anything.I sacrificed my career for my family, i dont feel bad abt that,but the only thing that keeps disturbing me is why am i not planning things and following it.I always keep thinking abt my mother-in-law who keeps on saying idiotic things abt me and teaches my kid that whatever toys she has got ,she got his from his dad and not from me.and she keeps on bringing expensive toys for my kid and i think my kid is turning against me.
last night when i asked my kid whom do u love ur granny or me ?she said she loves her granny ,i know she is small doesn't understand somethings but i cried a lot last night,i cudn't sleep well.I really get frustrated and feel that i m good for nothing.

2007-02-10 06:35:19 · 10 answers · asked by lostmyway 1

Would you be able to forgive that family member? If you would why? Because if that situation happened to me then that person would be dead to me in my eyes. However I think deep down my family would forgive that family member. If they did, how would you feel about the rest of the family, forgiving the family member who betrayed you? If they did that then I’m sure I would feel abandoned by them, and feel like running away from everyone I ever knew. How would you deal with a situation like this if it happened to you?

2007-02-10 06:34:53 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1

Hi Ya"ll,
I am a homemaker with one kid,i take good care of her and love her more than anything else in this world,but my problem is i had some dreams in my heart and i am not doing anything to fulfill those dreams,i feel guilty for not fulfilling my dreams.I have lost interest in doing anything.I sacrificed my career for my family, i dont feel bad abt that,but the only thing that keeps disturbing me is why am i not planning things and following it.I always keep thinking abt my mother-in-law who keeps on saying idiotic things abt me and teaches my kid that whatever toys she has got ,she got his from his dad and not from me.and she keeps on bringing expensive toys for my kid and i think my kid is turning against me.
last night when i asked my kid whom do u love ur granny or me ?she said she loves her granny ,i know she is small doesn't understand somethings but i cried a lot last night,i cudn't sleep well.I really get frustrated and feel that i m good for nothing.I get mad at myself

2007-02-10 06:32:34 · 6 answers · asked by lostmyway 1

my brother is the most annoying person in the world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
he a loser! what should i do? oh yea....dont tell me 2 ignore him, because i ALWAYS do that!
help quick...............

2007-02-10 06:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm curious why so many of us (woman & man) don't get along with our Mother-in-law's. Most of my friends complain about their Mother-in-law. That includes me too. Even man friends complain. Do you all think maybe its us and not them. If so tell me why or why not. I don't want foolish answers please, only helpful answers. Good & helpful answers can improve our relationships with our M-I-L. I feel I am a good wife, mother, and a very respectful D-I-L so there should be no cause to dislike me. How does one get on a good side with their M-I-L?

2007-02-10 06:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by Debs 5

2007-02-10 05:52:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents treat me like a kid even though I'm 15. Granted, I have a lot of screw-ups, but how can I convince them that I still deserve fair treatment? Ugh...I don't mean to sound like a whiner, but they just don't understand me and I don't know what to do. Help!

2007-02-10 05:49:10 · 6 answers · asked by madgirl 1

I walk around everything I touch I get shocked.(static)

2007-02-10 05:36:04 · 5 answers · asked by only me 3

is it right to tell a child you dont love her?
Even if you said it because you mad?

2007-02-10 05:21:49 · 39 answers · asked by ken 1

i found out when i was 7weeks pregnant and he kick me out of his house when i was 11 weeks we were together for 10 months we were getting married he called it off me bec of my anger problems that i now have fix just in order to go back with him he was my first and i love him and he did love me he told my friend that he did love me but he just cd not take my anger problems anymore i cant get over him we have not been together seance thanksgiving and im still having a hard time with this i still cry i cant sleep i think abut him and us all the time i just wish i got help with my anger befoure he broke up with me but i dident and now i have i got meds from my ob to help u know and it has help and i have told him that im better but i made said somthing about him on my space.com and he got mad and he told me why wd i wanted him back when i say stuff about him what shuld i do i love him what wd u do and plaese dont be mean about my spelling or my grammer i know i dont

2007-02-10 05:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2