Why my sorrow is so great?

Question

The road of our destiny leads us to the death of our parents. This moment is so close now. Cancer. Than, tell me, if it is common, why my sorrow is so great?

Answer 1

Because we are human, we have feelings, we love, we cherish, we fight, we are passionate. Sooo, just because we know our parents are going to die (and all of us for that matter) doesn't take any of the hurt and pain away. I know this, because my Dad had terminal cancer, and it was one of the saddest times in my life, and he died two years ago and I still miss him, EVERY DAY......it just is that way, and you pick up yourself and you carry on the best you can, and you find the moments of joy stuck in between all the crap. That's life, make the best of it you can!

Answer 2

I am so sorry you are experiencing great sorrow over the impending death of a parent. Grief is an emotion none of us can escape in this lifetime. It is normal and to be embraced because it eventually brings healing. It's good to know you love someone enough to feel such an overwhelming sorrow. I hope you have told them how much you love them and how important they've been in your life. A wise man once told me, "you can contain no more joy than you've known sorrow." Some day you will be able to think back over sweet memories and smile. But for now, you're in the deepest midnight. Remember: "JOY COMES IN THE MORNING."

Answer 3

Because someone you love is going dying. That's what you're trying to say, right?

That is why your sorrow is so great. It's someone you love, and letting go can be hard. Sorrow in situations like so come naturally, don't fight it back.

Charles Dickens once said, "No one is useless in the world who lightens the burden of it for everyone else."

Try being the role model. You can still hold on to your sadness in a healthy way, but look positively- there are those who model themselves after you.
(I hope I'm not answering the wrong thing)

Answer 4

Because they are a foundation in your life, and ou will not meet with them again on this plane. It is traumatic. They raised you. They cared for you. That is why your sorrow is so great. In time, your wounds will be less - but they will still be there. The mourning time has no limit. Life is a continuing circle.

Answer 5

Its normal. ive lost my mother to cancer,brain tumour, so i know exactly how you feel. it takes a while to be just ok again, but you will, if the end is nigh would you not rather that they were at peace or suffering? thats what i kept thinking and it made it easier, i know they go on to a much better place. i was15 when she died and im now21 but i still think and miss her everyday but i know that shes happier. try not to lower yourself into that depression pit, keep thinking of all the things your parents want for you and strive to keep making them happy. everything will be cool... :-)