2007-02-10 05:52:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What a fantastic day to ask this question
Once again my hubby and I had a huge bust up over her interfering she does my brain in, I can't stand her and I don't hate anyone in my life but she is coming bloody close..............
Does that answer you question lol.............thanks I feel better now lol
Sorry I had to add this quote (They are her grandchildren and she has a right to say what goes on in there lives) mmmmmm
what do think of that huh
2007-02-10 05:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OH HELP!!! Could I be the mother-in-law from Hell??? YES I'm a mother-in-law from Scotland, seem to have a great relationship with my son-in-laws but now after reading all your comments I will need to take a close look at myself and hopefully take your comments on board. As is norm with a mother of daughters they are with me quite a lot. Laugh is when they go on about their mother-in-laws I always try to let them see the good points. I also encourage them to ensure their son visits his mum, phones, invites them to their home and involve them in plans going on within the family etc. Maybe I am just an interfereing old bag. Thanks again I will analyse all you have said and if I recognise myself I will try to be better. Understand this is not exactly answering your question but if other mother-in-laws start questioning themselves as I have done it might make life easier for you out there with problemmother-in-laws!!!
2007-02-10 11:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes she interferes all the time and i am certainly not happy when she does all she does is cause problems for me and husband sometimes it cause some real bad arguments between us. Best thing to do is be straight and tell her to back off nicely if that doesnt work do what i do just dont have anything to do with her i told mine about 2 week ago what i thought of her & she is still waiting for an apology i can tell you shes got a long wait the only one that should be apologising is her
2007-02-10 08:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 06:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ma in law lives in Oz and still manages to cause problems - it's the age old thing of no-one being good enough for her boy (and in my hubbys' case I don't know why, cos she was not a great mum to him anyway!!). It comes across as jealousy...? Weird. But if you have a great relationship with your other half (and I reckon I have) you can overcome this - obviously it helps her being on the other side of the world!
2007-02-10 06:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by sue w 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, where do I start! She rings up every saturday and even came round on our 1st anniversary and sat there with us for hours....after my husband told her not too! she conveniently said she'd forgot to post our card and brought it round! Also she came round one valentines day and sat there watching us open our valentines gifts. She makes comments about housework being a labour of love etc even though we share it cos we both work, then offered to do my husband's ironing. When I was out of work for a while and did the housework she implied I was lazy! So I can't win basically! Good luck with yours......
2007-02-10 06:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...all da time. She hasn't been a very good parent to my partner like 4ever!! But yet insists in sticking her nose in and pretendidng shes interested in his life. she makes up lies about me n reports stuff back to him. she thinks i'm not good enough for her boy!! i think she thinks shes worthy of pretecting her son when i think she should leave us alone. Mothers are only on loan until they get a wife-my aunt told me, (in my case)so not long!!! x
2007-02-10 06:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I used to have to go through that with both mother and father-in-law, what I did was I talked to my husband after I prayed about it, he didn't quite see it at first but as it kept happening, he saw and let his mother and father know where he stood, and let them know that I am doing my part as a wife and for them to stay out of our marriage, he listens to me now because God allowed for things to be evident to him because of my prayers and now my mother and father-in-law stay out of our marriage, because he let them know how he felt after realizing what they were doing, your spouse must realize that marriage is sacred and should be treated as such, "families"can tare your marriage apart if you let it, communication is the key and a soft answer turns away wrath/anger, the subject could be quite critical when parents are too close to their son/daughter but he/she shouldn't want to be treated like a baby who doesn't know what's good for themselves, let your spouse know how you feel in a gentle way, use wisdom and pray before you talk, God can only open the eyes of ones heart to allow them to see what's really going on, pray for them to bud out and for God to bud in, good luck and God bless
2007-02-10 06:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The nosy biatch does it all of the time, shes not happy unless she has me and my husband fighting then i see a smurk on her drawed up little peahead face, one triflin old bag. No it doesnt make me happy.
2007-02-10 05:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
my partners mother is a great person but my ex mother in law was the one from hell. i was seven years into my marriage when she told me that she finally accepted her son didnt belong to her anymore. made me feel like i'd been playing second fiddle all those years, but she has him back now and she's welcome to him.
2007-02-10 06:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by pamela g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋