i found out when i was 7weeks pregnant and he kick me out of his house when i was 11 weeks we were together for 10 months we were getting married he called it off me bec of my anger problems that i now have fix just in order to go back with him he was my first and i love him and he did love me he told my friend that he did love me but he just cd not take my anger problems anymore i cant get over him we have not been together seance thanksgiving and im still having a hard time with this i still cry i cant sleep i think abut him and us all the time i just wish i got help with my anger befoure he broke up with me but i dident and now i have i got meds from my ob to help u know and it has help and i have told him that im better but i made said somthing about him on my space.com and he got mad and he told me why wd i wanted him back when i say stuff about him what shuld i do i love him what wd u do and plaese dont be mean about my spelling or my grammer i know i dont
2007-02-10 05:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
dont worry all it will not hurt my baby my baby doc gave them to me my ob i made sur befour he gave them to me that they were SAVE 4 my unborn son and he said yes there and that he wd not give me anything that wd hurt or harm my unborn son so yes the meds that im takin R find for my unborn son....
2007-02-10 06:05:54 · update #1
If your going to have a baby with him hes going to be in your life somewhat, you should try to get along and do the best thing for the child. mabey he will see that youve changed and want to be together, if not then mabey its for the best.
2007-02-15 14:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by nicole l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you have been anger about something for a long time . You need to find out what it is and deal with it now. If he left because of your anger problems not because he didn't love you why not try consoling together. Meds can help but not solve the problem. Being Pregnant will make you more stressed so please talk with your doctor and ask him or her for someone you could go to for help. Take care of yourself and your baby. Even if you don't get back together you need to know that you can be a great Mom Better to have one good parent than two stressed outs. ones.
2007-02-14 15:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by barb.douglas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of meds are you taking with this pregnancy? it could affect your unborn child, then you'll have serious troubles. If he really loved you he would take you- anger and all, and then try to help you work it out together. Mabey he is just scared of the commitment, after all he isn't perfect. A woman's anger is usually depression turned inward, cuz she feels powerless to do anything about it. I think its really sadness inside of you,so try to be happy and keep busy. There are millions of nice guys in the world. First work on yourself and what makes you happy, see your other friends, go out, even if only for walks. Don't focus on him so much. This may sound silly but buy a puppy, they are great for depression, and please read the Bible or talk to a pastor.
2007-02-10 05:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was exactly like u in my previous relationship with my ex and i had anger problems with him and it takes time to get over it. there was a time where i wanted him back and as time went by i realized that i was so angry because of our relationship(we also have kids together) as i got over him i became a happier person. He might tell u or other people that he loves you but if he does nothing to show it, then why believe it? My ex told me all the time that he loved me, but he never backed it up with actions. It sounds like u would be better off with out him...just my opinon
2007-02-15 10:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think about the baby first..... if he kicked you out while you were pregnant he doesn't care and doesn't want responsiblity for the child..... and the anger thing is probably a good excuse for him.
2007-02-10 05:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on the baby.. and don't stress yourself.
2007-02-10 05:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Delphi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have the baby's priorities in order first. it should all be about the baby.
2007-02-10 05:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by CHRIS S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋