My sister is really getting on my nerves! She is causing my whole family to hate each other and she doesn't realize it. She MADE my mom take her to get her birthday present today (which is in 10 days) and now my mom is mad at my dad because she thinks he stays home all day and sits on the couch and smokes, but he doesn't! She is saying stuff like, "Well you can stay home and smoke your dam.n cigarettes you ugly ba.stard!" I can't take it anymore! All they do is fight and argue. We don't have much money right now, and my sister doesn't understand that. She is 11 years old and still screams and cries in the middle of a store when she doesn't get what she wants, and my mom will get it for her even though we don't have the money just so she will shut up! My dad is the one that works all week, and my mom gets mad at him when he has to go into work on Saturday or Sunday. I don't know what to do! I want to go live with my older sister...I really do...but I don't want her to think that she has
2007-02-10 08:54:29 · 7 answers · asked by Yahoo! Administrator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
to let me live with her and her boyfriend. But I want to get away from all of this mess. What do I do to get my family to just work together? It sometimes feels as if though it is all of my fault, even though it isn't. How do I get them to just cooperate.
2007-02-10 08:55:40 · update #1
have a problem kind of like that. I am getting emancipated as soon as i have enough money i going to go live with my friend who's 18 and got her own place. You could try talking to your mom but i doubt it will help didn't help me any.
Sorry to discourage you but sometimes that's just the way things are and you cant change them.
2007-02-10 09:08:45 · answer #1 · answered by ~*AMANDA*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. The issues between your parents can only be resolved by them. Sounds like your mother is feeling a great deal of frustration right now, and your sister is just plain spoiled. Your mother is avoiding dealing with your sister's behavior, probably because of the issues between your parents. Try not to rock the boat, and do what you can to help your parents. As you get older, things will get better. You're not alone in what you're feeling, many kids go through the same thing you are, especially the situation with your younger sister.
2007-02-10 09:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to let your parents know how much this hurting you.If you can't do it in person then write them a letter.If you have to just show them what you wrote on the Internet.Parents sometimes forget how much they are hurting their kids and they the child to be the adult.Good Luck to you.But remember honesty is the best policy.Tell them how you feel right away.
2007-02-10 09:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's really bad. Maybe if you sister gets a bad grade or something, you should tell her that you'll tell your parents if she doesn't stop this arguement. Or you should just catch her in something wrong she does and tell her that she'll tell your parents. Hope that helped...it's not much because I'm 11 to... :)
2007-02-10 09:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is the fault of your mother.. u have to talk with ur mother about your sister.your mom spoil her at all.. tell your mom.. what she would do if ur sis want something and she cant buy for sis just dont give all what she wanted she wont die for crying.
2007-02-10 09:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there someone you and your family can talk to ? in the chuch. could you talk to a teacher? you need to talk to someone, anyone that can help. how about your older sister. could she help? ask for her help. let your parents know that this is hurting you and the family. best of luck.
2007-02-10 09:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a gargoyle and open the windows
2007-02-10 08:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by MamaJupe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋