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First off, this isn't necessarily my experience. Please don't give me any advice or anything, I just want to know whether this is emotional abuse or not.

-Father tells child she is useless and will probably end up working at mcdonalds for the rest of her life.
-Father gets drunk and constantly scolds child for little things in brutal ways. Example: "You never f(bleep)ing do anything you useless piece of sh(bleep)t!"
-Father gets angry at night and threatens to slit daughter's throat
-Father uses comments such as, "Might as well kill you all!"
-Father criticizes daughter's appearance. Example: Insulting her hair, calling her fat, etc.

2007-02-10 07:46:10 · 24 answers · asked by Misswhatever 2 in Family & Relationships Family

24 answers

My mother used to do that sort of thing constantly to me and my siblings, and worse. Yes, it's emotional and mental abuse.

You being gender specific concerning the abuser shows you to be a sexist, by the way, since this is supposed to be a hypothetical situation.

2007-02-10 07:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1 0

Yes ! That is definately emotional and verbal abuse !If the child dept. where aware of it she'd be taken away from him ! That kind of abuse can do SEVERE PERMANENT damage to a child ! At the least she will need years of therapy when she becomes a mother because it will bring up memories of the abuse and to keep her from repeating it ! That kind of abuse is passed down threw the family generation after generation until someone breaks the chain.Only threw hard, hard, work and determination can the chain be broken. There is nothing more fragile than the mind of a child !
"Child abuse casts a shodow the length of a lifetime."

2007-02-10 08:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Clover 3 · 1 0

Yes this is emotional abuse.
-Father has issues that can only be worked out by seeking help.
-Don't internalize these words. This is not your problem. It is your father's problem.
-Father may have been verbally abused as a child also. It does not excuse the behavior but may help you in understand why it occurs.
Dear, you do not need an answer to this question. You are smart, and already know the answer. Trust what your heart tells you is right and what your heart tells you is wrong. Your heart does not lie!

2007-02-10 07:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Vicki C 1 · 1 1

Yes

2007-02-10 09:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Steiner 7 · 0 0

such countless have it incorrect... Sandra J... how solid of you to be able to describe all that in such element. Did that in basic terms spoil your day? up to now, Sandra is the purely i have considered that were given it acceptable, and such countless after her have nevertheless reported they are an same. they don't seem. Verbal abuse, like she reported, is obtrusive. He reported: you're a worthless piece of crap, and a waste of air. <<< that's obtrusive verbal abuse. although, there are those who may have a communication with you and not in any respect say something that at a seem looks too rather hurtful. from time to time it quite is the hardest area. you commence a communicate feeling indignant and damage because of what someone did or reported. you end the communication feeling responsible for the way you felt to commence. you sense worthless, and poor for the way you felt. The strangest element is, although, that the abuser not in any respect surely reported that. they in basic terms administration what you're saying to propose something else, and they quite administration the way your innovations thinks. that is what makes it so perplexing to perceive and wrestle adversarial to. that's not till a lot later once you seem back and comprehend that you've allowed your self to be taken on a rollercoaster experience of your own innovations, managed by technique of a few different person. as well, to confess to being emotionally abused looks that you're giving something up. It sounds like you're telling the international that you're susceptible sufficient to allow someone to damage you devoid of ever holding or doing something to reason direct discomfort. then you genuinely sense that it is your fault. it quite is their objective. To make you sense so worthless and so susceptible that there is not something you are able to do to flee their carry close.

2016-11-26 21:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

All of that is emotional abuse. There is no law against being a jerk but there certainly are laws against threats. Take them seriously. Talk to your teacher, school counselor, clergy, or any adult figure in your life. Doing so can save your life. Do it sooner than later.
Even if he says he's sorry and he loves you blah, blah, blah... no one has the right to make you feel endangered.

2007-02-10 08:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0 0

Father tells child she is useless
thats enough right there, yes it's abuse

2007-02-10 07:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by edoubleyou 4 · 0 0

Yes.

2007-02-10 08:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by whiskey_november23 1 · 0 0

Yes, it most certainly is. It is verbal abuse and child protective services should be called.

2007-02-10 07:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1 0

yes this is definately emotional and verbal abuse. Also the threatening part is not just abuse it's verbal assault and harrassment.

2007-02-10 07:49:43 · answer #10 · answered by jen 4 · 0 0

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