You see, my mom let one of her old "friend" move into our house because he got kicked out of his current one.I guess he's trying to get back together with my mom or whatever.The thing is i don't like him.He lied on me and my brother in the past,he drinks alot,he even has the nerve to accuse me and my younger sibs of stealing his clothes.come he's a guy.what do i want with his clothes.these accusations usally leads to late night arguments with my mom.and everytime i think he's about get kicked out of our home he finds some way to convince my mom to let him stay because he has no place eles to go.ever heard of a hotel.Anyway he makes my home for me very uncomfortable.i don't like him around.He's a walking drama queen.he's also sneaky.i've talked to my mom about this but she says he's not leaving which bites.Now he's trying to convince my mom to move out of the home we have lived in for three years.i ain't having it.Anyway how do i deal with this living arrangement because it seems wrong?
2007-02-10 09:40:04 · 6 answers · asked by Kashmoney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to your mom tell her you don't like it and tell her you are uncomfortable with him there
be honest with her tell her everything
im sure she is a good mom and nice person and she will listen to you
for her to bring someone in who is in need im sure she will listen to you just talk talk talk
good luck
2007-02-10 09:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the other people said, talk to your mom. Be open with her. Don't try to start the convo with being all "I disagree with you letting this pathetic guy move in." Say why you're uncomfortable with him around. Don't make it seem like you're trying to start an argument. Whenever one seem to pop up, push it back down. =P At least you'll know that you tried. She would most probably regret it if she had not listened to you once she realizes she made a bad move of putting a guy over her kids.
2007-02-10 10:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i visit be easy and say whilst i became nineteen, I dated a guy 18 years older than me. He regarded particularly youthful and all, however the age distinction made me comprehend we've been on the comparable financial ruin, yet different pages. i became waiting to envision independence and he, waiting to cool down. The charm to a relative element, i've got faith alongside with the others which you will desire to communicate with a counselor to form those emotions out and why they're there.
2016-12-17 06:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are old enough to leave then get ur own place. if not find a relative that can take you in. the problem is that some women believe they need a man so bad that they will choose him over their kids. it sucks but that's life. i wish i had some better advice but if she sees that this is tearing up her family and is only worrying a/b her self then there's not much you can do. best wishes. take care.
2007-02-10 10:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by freedom fighter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your mom listen to you when you talk this is a serious problem because if she is not thinking about her kids then there is something wrong does he have a job remind her of that if she moves what can he hep her with he ia already a liability
2007-02-10 09:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk with your mother about this problem, try finding some other family member to help you out. If that doesn't do any good ask your school councilor or, welfare officer or church elder.
2007-02-10 09:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋