I went to go visit my parents today and walked in my sisters room where I heard the tv and came across her having sex with 2 guys, she was being double penetrated and she is only 14, any advice on how I should talk to her concerning this
2007-02-10 07:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by bree7775 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If it were my sister, I would take her out of the house one day and have a heart to heart talk with her. I would tell her that I think she is engaging in some very dangerous activities. She shouldn't be having sex so young, she is still a child. She needs to understand that sex is not a game. I would list the dangers: AIDs, pregnancy, rape, etc. that she will be running by associating herself with boys like that. I'd talk to her about what it will mean for her reputation (you know boys like that are going to talk). Finally, I would make her tell your parents. Say if she doesn't tell them, you will. Give her a chance to confess it herself. Your parents definitely have a right to know because she is underage and doing these things in their house. This is going to be rough, but I would tell her that if she thinks she's adult enough to have sex, she's adult enough to admit to it.
2007-02-10 07:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by claire5star 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wow. i honestly don't know what to say.
if i came across anything like that i would most definitely tell the parents, she is underage and she needs to be advised about birth control and std's. also the parents of the boy's need to be informed.
good luck.
2007-02-10 07:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
for a start your little sis cant have much respect for herself if she lets guys do that to her. im all for people doing what they want but at 14 its rediculous, you should kick her ***! ask her what the hell she is playing at? try to resolve it on your own before involving parents ask her if she was pissed, or on anything that made her act in this way, why would she want to do this??
if she is having typical teenage attitude probs play her at her own game and threaten to tell your parents.
2007-02-10 08:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off make sure you know information about those two guys in case she gets pregnant, she might be desperate for attention, tell her that this immature behavior will affect her life and ruin her.
2007-02-10 10:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Adawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You should tell your parents!!! Did you kick the boys as*es?? I would have.. What did you do??
I think this something that your parents need to know about it is not like they were kissing and you could have a talk with her about condoms if things go further.. I am in shock.. TELL YOUR PARENTS!!
2007-02-10 07:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
It's probably best that you tell your parents about it. Just curious, what happened when you walked in?
2007-02-10 07:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would sent out the 2 boys and start taliking with little sis. and tell her she is to young to do that kind of game ask ur sis if she get pregnant what she will do. if she dont listen to you then tell it to ur parents
2007-02-10 09:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Scary, hope she doesn't turn into a whore, keep an eye on her. who's raising her? her parents? they need to talk to her.
2007-02-10 09:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she'll have a good future in the porn movies.
2007-02-10 07:36:26 · answer #9 · answered by seahorse 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
WOW!
Tell her she's too young and that there is too many diseases out there she can catch. Let her know before itz too late.
2007-02-10 07:22:36 · answer #10 · answered by tRaCi3 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋