Family - December 2006

I am 19 years old and i live with my grandma bc my so called mother chose my stepfather over me and my real father is gone. Well I love my grandma but its not her its the man that lives with us, not to mention my aunt and her 2 kids as well. The man that lives with us always calls me names like fat a$$, and stuff like that and he threatens to throw me against the wall, he has been abusive with me in the past but hasnt since i turned 19. I have had burses on me from him but my gramma didnt say anything. Not only this but i get 2 checks every month.(i am deaf) They add up to over 500 and my gramma only gives me 150 of it bc she needs the rest for the bills. I know i prolly cant make it on my own and i cant go to the cops about any of this. When the man living here gets mad at someone he yells at me and takes it out on me. I cant take this much longer. I need a life and privacy. I need freedom, anyone have any advice? I am hoping someone can help. Please dont be rude.

2006-12-01 14:57:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

The only tools that I have to work with are, my father's name and the last city that he was known to reside. Though I have unlimited internet access; I have NO ownership nor access to a credit/debit card. Unforunately, this would have to be either FREE or BILL ME LATER help.

Thank you in advance,
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2006-12-01 14:40:59 · 3 answers · asked by Ladonnia D 1

5 years ago my aunt passed away, and her daughter had just gave birth to a baby boy. I think at the time we wanted to stop being sad and turned all our attention on the baby especially my mom. She keeps him every saturday night, and now that she has had another baby she goes over to there house all the time and I have been in my house for a year and she has been here 4 times. Also I have a step daughter who has lived with us for 4 years and is her grandaughter and just a month ago was the first time she ever spent the night. I understand wanting to help with your sisters kids, but has it went overboard?

2006-12-01 14:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

she seems scared of him but doesnt really say anything to him, and when she does, he doesnt listen to her. Last night we had to go help her after my husband got home from work because my father in law refused to go help her and left her stranded in a parking lot.. how do we confront him about his behavior before my 2 year old picks up on his behavior to much more?

2006-12-01 14:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by shortyonwheelz2005 3

I have another question regarding child support, just so I understand how everything works. I live in Citrus Heights, California and just finished court orders for my son. The father and I are to pay 50% of all necessary medical, dental, or vision expense, etc. I have sole physical and legal custody of my son and father has 0% timeshare. Judge ordered support to be paid by wage assignment and to pay $486 per month commencing on 9/1/06 and arrearage in the sum of $25.00 per month till paid in full commencing on 1/1/07. So I'm confused? Is the $25.00 like interest from the back support he was suppost to start paying 9/1/06? THat's why it's PIF aka pay in full? Just trying to plan for my son's future, because his support will go in a trust fund for him towards high school, college, etc.

2006-12-01 14:22:31 · 5 answers · asked by hollyramage3 1

Im 20 years old and i do not nor have ever had a baby but my stomach is full of stretch marks long red stretch marks.... im 195 lbs but i mean thats nothing to be getting stretch marks like that from.. some have faded to white but alot are very very red.. looks like i had 12 kids lol... will anything help ( tryed coco butter didnt work )

2006-12-01 14:10:41 · 10 answers · asked by a b 1

The oldest sibling insists on taking pix. at every single family function! Example: our nephew was married in Sept.'06,okay thats fine,but the next month,another function and here he is w/ the dam*ed camera again! We have asked him nicely to stop taking pix,but he thinks hes in charge cuz hes the oldest.btw~~I'm the youngest,w/ 3 others in between,I'm also the one thats most confrontational. Any advice besides taking a hammer to the camera?

2006-12-01 14:00:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Too many . Not enough . Not able to put into words.

2006-12-01 14:00:44 · 13 answers · asked by seventhavedreams 1

my husband comes from a family of 4, 2 girls/2 boys, and he would drop everything in a second to help someone especially his mother, however she quite openly favours her daughter and son-in-law to the point where she won't even ring to wish her other children happy birthday, because she was out shopping for something for her daughter or son-in-law it makes me so mad because she(mother-in-law) always talks about when they have kids and what cute grandkids they will be and what great parents they will be but hardly ever makes an attempt to see our daughter (her already now and only grandchild) I know this affects my husband (even though he dosen't talk about), but short of shipping her to some remote island I just don't know what to do. I know it must sound childish but as a mother I just don't see how she can show such blatent and sometimes hurtful favouritism. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-01 13:56:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering what you thought of these sets of names? oh and its two girls and a boy.

Lilith Snow
Peyton Mae
Leo Benjamin

or

Adison Kennedy
Mattie Reese
Jonah David

any other suggestions are welcome

2006-12-01 13:28:48 · 21 answers · asked by Female 3

2006-12-01 13:08:51 · 28 answers · asked by saulsebastianstudio 1

why do they do this? is it because they are on some power trip? do they feel the need to try and get their last control rampage out before we turn 18? do they do this because they know we will turn 18 soon so that is why they do this? because my parents used to be alot more relaxed with me...but ever since i turned 17 they have been on this "there are rules in this house that WILL be enforced" trip. its not like im a bad kid.. i don't drink, i don't party, i don't do drugs and i get pretty good grades.... can anyone tell me why this is?

2006-12-01 13:05:30 · 9 answers · asked by manda 1

She's 82 years old and she asked to eat me out, I told her no but she insisted. I left and had my brother do it. Now she won't talk to me.

2006-12-01 12:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by Welfare Mamma Drama 1

My dad drank to much. He always does. My 16 year old sister left to go to school and left me behind with my 16 month old sister. I always am being stuck with her and i don't want to leave her with my dad. Wheres my mom your probably asking. She works late and even when she is home i still have problems with my dad. He drink a lot and he really is taking out his anger toward me. I do a lot to help round the house but now he has gone way over board with his drinkin problems he starts to grab me and slaps my baby sis i try to take her away from him but he yells at me and says 'shes my daughter this is my house i'll do whatever i want.' I dont want him to die from drinking problems and dont want him to be sent to jail for abousing me. I stay out of his way a lot. I lock myself in my room w/ my sis and stay there the intire night until my mom comes home. I even have an aunt living in my basement that cant get out on her own. I need help badly. Please help with any imformation you can give

2006-12-01 12:51:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do I post a message on the web that when she searches her name or mine, it shows up as a result from her search?

2006-12-01 12:48:49 · 3 answers · asked by amandabeaube 1

About anyone knowing someone named Aziz Ali, from Michigan, might have gone to Wayne State University? Anyone?

2006-12-01 12:45:55 · 7 answers · asked by erica t 2

ok, here is how it went with my parents. But before i say anything, as far as i know, they have told me they love each other very much.

Ok, while my dad was cutting some bamboo trees, my mom came outside to help, but instead of helping she did the wrong thing. When she was suppose to cut off the leaves of the bamboo tree, she cut the whole thing out. (That wasn't the only stupid thing she did). So according to my dad, he called her a "dumbass". According to my mom, he called her a "***** asshole". So now she is acting VERY childish and is throwing tantrums (and she won't eat). Now, they are avoiding each other, well, my mom is mostly avoiding my dad. So my mom comes to my room and usually stays there for a long time. And they are talking about divorce (one of my worst fears).

oh yeah, a situation very similar to this happened a couple years ago

So, what should i do?

2006-12-01 12:33:11 · 6 answers · asked by aflowerystar 1

2006-12-01 12:31:12 · 17 answers · asked by coonfield_adams 1

Home is still being payed for.Disabled sister and her grandchild also lives with me.What's norm?

2006-12-01 12:25:24 · 3 answers · asked by beachbuddy 2

did you talk with him or just say nothing? would you want him to talk with you about guy stuff?

2006-12-01 12:22:49 · 5 answers · asked by paul t 1

Regarding my last post about my mother in law. I think you have misunderstood me. I DO NOT swear in front of my kids , the question was do I tell my kids that she does not get them birthday presents. I buy them so they won't get upset with her. Next time read it properly before replying.

2006-12-01 12:19:00 · 7 answers · asked by evs 3

Ok I'm in big trouble and it's a Friday. My science teacher called my mom's cellphone and told her I was misbehaving and failing class so my mom said she would have a talk with me when she gets home. But now my math teacher is calling the house so I accidently picked up the phone and hanged it up so I know he left a message. My mom doesn't know that my math teacher called! I'm so scared right now, please help. She's going to start cursing and stuff. And on top of that she's in the taxi on her way from work. What should I do? I know the password for the house voicemail but I don't know the number for it. Please help.

2006-12-01 12:16:48 · 26 answers · asked by ? 4

My mom and dad want to have a baby but i totaly dont want them to! I am 12 going to be 13 I have a nine year old sister and i already fell like I am getting left out! I already tried talking to them about the subject but my mom says it is what me and your dad want not you!

(I am sorry but i cant see my mom and dad having sex together!)

please help i dont know how to tell them that i fell left out now and if they have i baby that i am going to fell even more left out if they have a baby.(I will probably be used as i babysitter 24/7.)

please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-01 12:10:32 · 6 answers · asked by krazykrause987 1

2006-12-01 12:08:04 · 1 answers · asked by Love Exists? 6

YAh im 12 and my dad is from india and he always manages to boss me around. If he needs the remote i have to get it and the remote is rite next to him and im in the other room like 10 feet away! anyways hes so acting like a big shot, what do i do???????

2006-12-01 12:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today i went to court with my baby's dad for child support along with having to pay for the son he's never seen he also wanted to have my son's last name changed to his.. so my question is this if he requested no parenting time and has made no attemts to see him why does he want him to have his last name? Any insight would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-01 12:00:23 · 4 answers · asked by ellorra25 2

im sure that anyone who answerd my questions last time about my little brother,, help me again please,,
Well he's being the same devil he usually is and he tries annoying me and i get blamed! talking to my parets dosent work either >.<

2006-12-01 11:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♪Jenni♥♪ 2

Ok, so here's the problem.....she is always asking my mom and I to babysit. I can say no, but my mom can't and I feel she's being taking advantage of. When we do watch my niece, she goes out and drink, smokes and parties and usually comes home as drunk as a skunk. I feel like when we babysit while she goes out that we are supporting this behavior. When I say no to babysitting she makes feel bad like I don't love my niece, but I do! I just want my sister-in-law to grow up. It's fine to go out on occasion and have fun, but this is taking place two to three times a week. My mom comes home exhausted from being there until the wee hour of the morning. How do I convince my mom to say no sometimes and how do I make my Sister-in law understand that I do love my niece.

2006-12-01 11:48:57 · 8 answers · asked by FormatLife 3

2006-12-01 11:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by daygolfer 1

Every time it's my kids birthdays she never gives them anything. I have to go and get them something and make out that she has bought it, not for her benefit but for theirs(even though it does benefit her). She works in Asda so she could get them something even if it is a piece of clothing or something. I don't expect everyone to buy them things but you would have thought that a grandparent would. My partner accepts it and says that's what she's like. I can't let my kids think that Nan won't get them anything for their birthdays as they will get upset, they are only 6 and 3.
Should I carry on buying for her or should I let them find out for themselves what a tight old b***h she is?

2006-12-01 11:24:22 · 31 answers · asked by evs 3