My mom and dad want to have a baby but i totaly dont want them to! I am 12 going to be 13 I have a nine year old sister and i already fell like I am getting left out! I already tried talking to them about the subject but my mom says it is what me and your dad want not you!
(I am sorry but i cant see my mom and dad having sex together!)
please help i dont know how to tell them that i fell left out now and if they have i baby that i am going to fell even more left out if they have a baby.(I will probably be used as i babysitter 24/7.)
please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-01 12:10:32 · 6 answers · asked by krazykrause987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a brother 2 yrs. my junior and a sister 12 yrs. my junior..
We both love our sister...
Not a bit of jealousy...
2006-12-01 12:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop them from having a baby, and being a middle child myself, I do know how you feel about being left out. You can refuse to babysit, though. If they insist, tell them you will call child protective services and report them for abandonment. The truth is though, if they really want this baby, they're not going to dump it on you. I'm still working through feeling abandoned though, and I'm 50, so for once I truly don't have any advice. This might be a good time to develop a network of friends. Good luck.
2006-12-01 20:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your mum and dad who need help I'm sorry to say its you .you obviously have issues in you mind which need sorting out and i think you should talk to an independent adult, school teacher ,priest ,councilor, aunt any one who you can trust before you go much further .as for the issue of the fact that you cant imagine them having sex well how do you think you were born for goodness sake,a loving relationship that lead to your birth .plus think about 9 year old sister she will be the middle child a common problem is called middle child syndrome the older one can cope for herself the adults are busy with new child where does that leave her .you could be of a great help to your sister by helping her and you both working together to accept new child that's coming into your home.
2006-12-01 20:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by leonard24seven 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well what you can do is keep trying see if you can get you mom to herself and tell what you want her to know. or you can ask her if you two can have a girls day out and then talk to her that way. it work for me....so just one of these a try.
2006-12-01 20:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell them the truth and if they dont listen well keep trying!!
2006-12-01 20:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Kat222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your parents, they will respect you for it.
2006-12-01 22:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by NandA91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋