Family - December 2006

I'm 18 years old and I just had twins in July it's an amazing experience but sometimes it can be extremely overwhelming, my fiance is 22 years old and works a full time job to support us. But he doesn't seem to be able to step up to the plate when I absolutely need him to. When the babies cry and won't stop he gets so frustrated and just sometimes leaves the room and lets me deal with it on my own. I do it all day and night and all I ask is that he help me for a few hours after work. For some reason he makes me feel guilty for asking him. Also all we do is fight anymore, constantly arguing over nothing. I sometimes think that we'd be better off if we went our seperate ways. I love him, but I just can't take him helping me when the mood strikes him. I'm young and there are plenty of guys out there who would love to spend every waking second with me and 2 beautiful babies. I'm almost at my breaking point, I know it's my decision in the end I would just appreciate some feedback.

2006-12-10 10:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 10:50:53 · 20 answers · asked by keisha c 1

brother and I call my sister in another state to tell her. She listen but it was as if i was atomatically wrong, n/way she has not call me since and i don't call either. i see my brother but we don't speak. i am the eldest and expecting my third child. Their is an 8 year difference between us. My sister send an russian toy thing that gets smaller as you pull them apart, n/way i was surprise that she remembered my b'day . Not to sound ungrateful but it was stupid and an home made card that said Happy B'day in case you thought no one cared. My brother call me and said Happy b'day . I don't know but i don't know if i should buy something for them? What do you think? advise please The two of them are real close and are 1 year apart

2006-12-10 10:48:45 · 31 answers · asked by christine 2

It would be private... But I don't want her butting in really...

2006-12-10 10:46:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm really confused. *cry* idk what to do. Lately he has been going of to different places without telling my mom or me. And when we ask where he's been he won't really answer. He'll say like nothing or nowhere. I don't know how I feel. I'm mad at him and I'm sad... I can't trust him anymore. When he comes back then he's all buddy/daddy, then when he leaves I'm sad again. He isn't home right now either -only way I would have the guts to ask this- and I didn't see him this morning too! Nobody has seen him all day, this is really depressing. What should I do?!

2006-12-10 10:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by Angela Rose 1

Im 13, and shes 11 and she sucks! i go over and playfully give her a wet willy, and she slaps me twice (they are now getting bruises), and just demolishes my entire room, and now my parent sare making me clean up my FUBARed room, saying its MY fault!

2006-12-10 10:42:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend of mine is always looking at me. We ride the same bus and I'm friends with his sisters. He always saying he loves me and everything. Is he kidding or not?? Also I was having a very difficult day, Friday and I was sitting with my best friend (he is a guy) and I started crying & I gave my best friend a hug and everytime I talked, that boy kept looking at me. He kept looking worried. Plus, he always waits for me to walk w/ him to my locker. He has a gf, I just don't know what he is feeling or doing. When he is with his gf he won't even look at her or talk or show any feeling/emotions to her. He just keeps staring at me. I don't know if he likes me. I need your help. I don't have any feelings except friendship with him. He always insist to be by me or talk to me. Also, he kept saying he thinks his gf is annoying. I told him then you should break up. IDK if he is going out with her just to "make" me jealous. You tell me. Please help me. Thanks!! :) NO RUDE COMMENTS

2006-12-10 10:26:57 · 3 answers · asked by Michelle 5

Last year my girlfriend left me and took our daughter out of state without my permission and out of our childs home state.I filed for custody. She did not show up for court. I was awarded Primary residential parent.She gets every other holiday and summers.The papers also state the our daughter goes to school where ever the father is zoned.Now I'm planning on to move.Do I need to file anything at the court?

2006-12-10 10:18:06 · 9 answers · asked by jpb 1

this is for an assignment for tomorrow december 11!!! i reeeeeeaaaaallly need some answers!!

2006-12-10 10:12:49 · 9 answers · asked by wilmarisol 2

my hubby wants me hairy down there. So i remain like that.

2006-12-10 10:12:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married , 45, no kids with aging parents. My father has always been and emotionaly and psychically abusive to myself, my siblings and my mother. I avoid him 90% of the time, but I want a relationship with my mom and he wants at all cost to control that also. He will always try to answer the phone when I call, Yesterday Mom and I had plans to go shopping and when I arrived to pick Mom up he announced he was going and he would drive. I said no, if he insisted on coming then he would take his own car and follow us. I have been in his car with him before and his attitude is it is my car and we will do what I say or their is hell to pay. I promised myself that I would not allow myself to be in this situation ever again.............I was trying to establish Boundaries, I could not stop him from coming, but I would not be subjected to his tirades again.
Well he cursed me out and caused quite a scene, how should I handle this.............it has happened to me again. Thank you

2006-12-10 10:11:39 · 9 answers · asked by howey 1

every time my youngest gets her self caught in a lie or when she let her kids go it is all my fault. I did the best I could raising her taught her right from wrong yet she just told her oldest sister it was my fualt she let her kids go with her ex in laws. If i wouldnt have let them take them she would still have them. I begged cried and even got her a lawyer but its all my fault. I cant keep taking the blame for something i didnt have control over. the stress is going to kill me. my left arm starts to hurt and my jaw. I know its stress and just want to know how to tell her i am not at fault.

2006-12-10 10:00:27 · 10 answers · asked by furby_lost 5

ok so i wanna go to this concert and my parants are saying no. i took my dads credit card (and i have it in my sleeve) and i dont know if i should buy the tickets or not(only 2). tell me yes or no.

2006-12-10 10:00:13 · 36 answers · asked by suppppppppppp♥ 3

but am now a respectable person. My ex just was ordered custody of our daughter yet again because my past came into play. He can be abusive, he is non affectionate, he lies about everything, I am definetly not happy with him but I am desperate to be with my daughter. What should I do?

2006-12-10 09:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by DanceAsIf.... 1

My mom died of breast cancer back in 2000 0r 2001.My maternal family does nothing 4 me or my sister.They don't call or send us anything 4 our birthdays. This was like the summer after my mom died.We were staying with her. I didn't want 2 wear an undershirt.She told me your mother would want u 2.I knew u can't say what the dead want.I know my dead mother would not be pleased.Any suggestions are great .I would like 2 have a better relationship with my maternal family?

2006-12-10 09:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney P 1

Ok so here is the scenario! My parents have a certain way they want me to LIVE my own life. But there are a couple of things that I just want to know if it is normal or not.

1. I recently informed my mom that I had experienced sexual abuse as a child by a member of our church and her response at first was that she was shocked. But when she got home and talked to my father, I overheard their conversation and heard her say " I dont feel like we should accuse (him) or even ask about it, because you know how girls lie about things like that" and my father's response was to ask me to stay away from my lab top b/c radiation can cause insanity. And we havent brought it up since...

#2. I just got into an arguement with them and I was telling them my point of view on the situation and they completely started talking about where they are going out to dinner for tonight. Like switched the convo completely...

2006-12-10 09:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Lovely*~*Layla 2

should i tell her how i feel
move away
or live with it

2006-12-10 09:33:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do? I really want to have a party. I am turning 11. How can I soften my parents up or something? Thank you. Oh and HELP!!!!!!! Please.

2006-12-10 09:24:02 · 6 answers · asked by Holly 2

i want to leave because of problems where i live i live with my dad and step mom, all they do is drink and they never talk, all they do is put me down 24/7 and say stuff about my boyfriend ( my dad is raciest) and my step mom controls me to much. they want me out so bad, and im about to just leave walkout. but if i do that, that might be bad.. or should i just get them started and leave for a reason, because if i get them started someone will end up hitting me and that would be a reason to leave... their is so many problems i can explain but i cant fit it in this space.. I need Advice! someone please tell me! what i think i might do is get them started.. i need help!

2006-12-10 09:22:21 · 6 answers · asked by *Baby Number 2 On The Way* 2

Will your children disrespect you too?

2006-12-10 09:15:07 · 13 answers · asked by jj 1

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2006-12-10 09:14:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has a degree in psychology, but because she is terrified of the "job interview process", she has settled for driving a taxi to make money. There is nothing wrong with driving a taxi, but when you have a recognized degree that could bring you good potential earning power, there is no reason to be driving a taxi to be making a living. The reason she went for the Taxi job is because there was no interview.

My sister has a 9 year old daughter, and I am seriously worried about her future. My sister is a single mother as well, so there is no father figure for my niece, no one else to turn to when in need, except perhaps myself.

I would talk to my sister about it, but she is notoriously stubborn. She resists good advice... always. She resents anyone telling her what's best for her, and usually will just run away from her problems and ignore them.

Anyone out there with a similar experience. What worked for you? What didn't work. Any advice on the issue would be great.

2006-12-10 09:13:12 · 1 answers · asked by whoholdsthepower 1

No, I won't try just one to see if I like it.

2006-12-10 09:11:21 · 11 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5

Ok, my sister and her husband got this keyboard/piano (whatever) for free and they dont know where to put it since they know they won't use it. They know I LOVE music and know how to read it, so they suggested to my parents to keep it for me. They said there's no space in my house to put it. But there is plenty. They're just not supportive of constructive activities.lol. ireally want it and it's better because it's free. my sister told them that it didn't take up much space but they didn't say anything.
how can i convince them??? I really want it!

2006-12-10 09:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cant think of a damn thing to get my sister for xmas. shes 16, and LIVES for track & cross country & running in general. shes a bit of a nerd. im a teen & in college so im pretty much broke i can only afford to spend the MOST at 50 bucks on her even though id like to spend more.

please give me any ideas as a gift for her!

2006-12-10 09:07:05 · 10 answers · asked by sh8dybrady120 2

i recently found out my sibling was removed from my birth mothers care(whom abandoned 3 kids 24 years ago) . i would like to adopt/care for my sibling raise him with my kids.but i have no idea where to start. i sure can use some advice

2006-12-10 09:06:48 · 5 answers · asked by heavenyvette 1

she dont like playing with toys no more.so its kind of hard to find stuff that she would like.i asked her what she wants and she said "nothing mom,i only want you and dad"

2006-12-10 09:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by jm m 1

I live in Florida and am looking into moving to georgia, My ex is trying to make it leaglly impossible for me to leave. I thought the age was 12, does anyone know for sure??

2006-12-10 08:59:03 · 8 answers · asked by momof3boys 1

I know, gift questions are annoying.... but.... my nephew's parents are going through a nasty divorce. My library had a used book sale and I got him 40 books on all different topics. I thought I'd clean them up and add stickers "from the library of Danny"... is that a good Christmas gift? Since the books only cost $8 should I give them "just because" instead?

2006-12-10 08:53:39 · 3 answers · asked by Sabine É 6

2006-12-10 08:39:28 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous