I'm really confused. *cry* idk what to do. Lately he has been going of to different places without telling my mom or me. And when we ask where he's been he won't really answer. He'll say like nothing or nowhere. I don't know how I feel. I'm mad at him and I'm sad... I can't trust him anymore. When he comes back then he's all buddy/daddy, then when he leaves I'm sad again. He isn't home right now either -only way I would have the guts to ask this- and I didn't see him this morning too! Nobody has seen him all day, this is really depressing. What should I do?!
2006-12-10 10:45:52 · 6 answers · asked by Angela Rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to talk to your mom about it first, if you haven't already. A few years ago, a close friend of mine had a very similar situation. He eventually told his mom and she found out that he actually was cheating. This is a situation that your parents need to sort out. You can't exactly be the one to sort through everything and make it all better. After your mom knows, she needs to be the one to confront him. I don't think you should confront your dad. I believe that your parents should try to talk this out together. If you would like, you could also become a part of this confronting stage, but just don't do it alone. Good luck and remember: no matter what happens, things will eventually be OK. I promise. :)
2006-12-10 11:26:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Mom and tell her how you feel. See if your Mom feels the same way. If she does, then both of you should talk to your Dad and tell him how y'all feel. Don't allow him to leave until he gives you an honest answer.
Or, you could look for clues. Maybe he's depressed and is taking trips out to the country or somewhere to relax. Maybe he is Christmas shopping. Don't jump to conclusions unless you REALLY feel as if he is cheating.
Keep your head up..You'll be okay! Good luck!
2006-12-10 10:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your dad is being shady or dismissive, I would certainly suspect something is going on as well. I would go right out and ask him. If you ask him, and he truly is not having an affair, than this could be an opportunity for open discussion and for him wanting to address why you may be feeling like this.
Blessings.
2006-12-10 10:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rodlie O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone you can trust. Does your mother talk to you about this? what does she think about the situation? If she's thinking the same thing as you, maybe you can talk to her about it. Alot of times people think that their children (no matter what age they are) are completely oblivious to whats going on around them. Let your parents know that isnt the case. If you can talk to your father, tell him his behavior is really affecting you. Ask him , if he isnt doing anything wrong, then why cant he just tell you where he's going? Maybe he does need to get away for a while. Tell him that you guys understand and will let him have his alone time, but you just need to know, for your sakes as well as his.
2006-12-10 10:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mum should just come straight out and ask him if he is having an affair if he says yes then ask him if he wants out of this relationship because he cant have both.Sorry but your mum shouldnt have to live like that
2006-12-10 12:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to an adult you do trust. A school councillor, a friends parent or even your own parents if you can.
Peace and happiness to you and yours
2006-12-10 10:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋