Family - December 2006

Ok me and my bf have been together for 6 years we have one son and one on the way.His parents in my opinion have their prioritys screwd up(been gettin hi with there son's since they have been 14 and says its okay) well any ways they have done so much to me and my son that I shouldnt of let them see him again (called 241kids on me and there son made false statments) thats all done with but they live 10mins away neither come see our son unless we ask when they are goin to come see him.. they never call ,but it upsets me cuz the mother watches her other grandchild (1st gdaughter 3months old) does everything but doesnt even bother to see how our son is and my bf doesnt want to start an argument so he stays quiet.they didnt evn come to his 1st bday.And he was jus sick 2wks ago in the hospital they didnt come up or call.. Instaed when I brought him home they wanted me to bring him 2 their house while it was freezin out and he was still sick.what should I say or do?

2006-12-10 08:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do because my mom lives in a different state and I see her on the weekends but I live with my dad and he isn't a very good adult, he yells at me a lot and always calls me a liar! What should I do?

2006-12-10 08:34:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She never really liked me but since we got married its gotten worse(no he DID NOT leave her for me)She uses thier 7yr old mike like bait to control tom.Here are just SOME examples i am not allowed to watch mike alone,it tom is not there he is to go home to her.She has talked so badly about me to other parents none of mike's friends can come over to play.I can't have any contact with mike's school/teacher i can't even pick him up from school.She always trys to get tom to go to her parties that she is giving for mike even though we have our oun parties for him.i went once and her and her family sat there and glared at me to whole time,not fun.The worst part of this is tom allows this to happen.We fight over this all the time and he always says i can't control what she says.Thats true but he does not have to go along with "her rules" ether.They both have joint custody so doesn't he have a say?how can i handle this,tom will not stand up to her for anything so i'm on my own.

2006-12-10 08:21:22 · 16 answers · asked by kimmywoodward098 1

2006-12-10 08:21:20 · 13 answers · asked by EL GANGSTA. 3

My mom,she thinks her little girl and boy is the family pride!!!!!!Ok,I have this dresser,well first of all,I have an aunt,lets say she's not all upstaires.And she was goign to take my dresser,and my mom says i WORSHIP her,like i think she's my gardian or something,because i wanted to show her my earings cuz i wanted to get them done.And i ended up not doing it,but later got them done,and she was like in a yelling voice"katelyn,you worship her!"But anyways,She was goign to take my old dresser(and did)for her little daughter katelin(yes we have the same name!)And she tore all my stickers off and they were special to me!!And i was just listening to a jewelery box that belonged to my great aunt jill,And she started yelling at me.saying i was going to break it.And i spent money on the stickers!And she said,i'm sorry but the jewelery boxes are special to me.And my sister puls my hair,and it hurts and i kinda sorta yell,not loud just a little yell,cu z it hurts,and she yells at me.

2006-12-10 08:15:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I joined the dance class at our high school this semester, I thought I would be a interesting class. I'm a little suprised when I met my teacher, he is a Mr. I thought a female teacher would fit for dance classes than male. But anyway, he dances very well and we all like him. Last time I was chosen with 4 other girls to perform in a theater. He asked us to wear nude pantyhoses. The day before the performance, he said he want to check my pantyhoses. There were only two of us in the dance room, and he took off my shoes, held my foot for a long time looking around. He said that he loves my pantyhose and also said I have nice feet. Then he put my foot in front of his nose and smelled it. He also kissed my toe with my pantyhoses. I felt that was kind of wired afterward, why he was so excited about my nude pantyhoses? My friend told me his behavior is called teasing, but I'm not sure. What should I do? I need help.

2006-12-10 08:10:19 · 18 answers · asked by Amber 1

Thank you guys u yall are wonderful. Q #2 with answers to #1

Yes I can afford to give my daughter anything I own few big trucks long haulers which leads to next answer because I'm on the road I can't get custody right now. Moms last child is her husband and that father want allow me to spend hard earn money on the boy, example last year I gave the mother $2100 for school cloths but the father refuse the mother to buy his son anything he went to school with nothing new. Thats the crap I deal with so yes I have tried to give to all the children but this causes more issues with other fathers because they suck at life! How do you allow your child to not have when they can have? next example, I gave my daughter cell phone and offered to get the oldest child a phone-teen boy, not the mothers husband child, he refused and went nuts. Last Xmas I gave the mother extra cash for gifts boy did that cause problems. It's crazy and I will tell all in looking for advice. How to deal with hubby?

2006-12-10 07:50:37 · 4 answers · asked by animatelifeforce 2

I have stayed home to help with two family business's that I run from home, at least the business part, they handle the labor. Its two very successful restaurants, and even when I go visit I provide excellent customer service from the minute I walk in to the minute I leave. Not to mention legal issues like workers comp cases and all the vendors. They don't pay me money, but they do provide my room, in the house we all live in that I am expected to maintain and run as well. Paying bills, cleaning, cooking, laundry, and all the while I have to care for my adult disabled sister. My car was trashed by my little brother becouse he was mad. And they don't feel like they should fix it. They tell me to buy a new one. Yeah hello you don't pay me. Now all of a sudden they want me to pay rent, or leave. I would love to but they have handicapped me I feel, by not allowing me to leave when i wanted to. I had a good job and a good positive future. Did I ruin my life by listening to them????

2006-12-10 07:36:35 · 6 answers · asked by MoneyMoneyMoney 1

I am a 15 year old guy and I have alot of questions about male development and morning erections. I would like to ask for some advise , and do it over the computer, for it seems easier to ask then in person!, If you are around my moms age can you message me!

2006-12-10 07:35:44 · 5 answers · asked by paul t 1

I've given small gifts in past, ie. candy but don't want to waste money on stuff they don't want. Would rather give them the money I would have spend on a small gift. Would sending a small check be OK or is it too little an amount.

2006-12-10 07:24:15 · 13 answers · asked by eddie girl 2

would you hate him for killing your son even if he had no choice to? or would you eventually get over it because friendship can be so strong that yuo feel like family

2006-12-10 07:21:35 · 22 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7

they have 2 kids together, I hear her name and it makes me soooo angry. I resent his kids coming to stay, I resent looking after them. I wish he didn't have kids with her. or have kids at all. I wish I'd fallen in love with someone with no ties. Apart from finishing with him, how can I overcome this?

2006-12-10 07:17:03 · 23 answers · asked by Nick J 2

I'm going to ask a series of Question based on my child and dealing with her mother which the mother and I aren't together. These are real issue's.

My teenager doesn't respect her mother because the mother has made many poor judgment calls in her life, 'two other children involved, (not mine)', My daughter didn't know I existed which isn't my fault-mother married ran off didn't find them until 12yrs later.

After my daughter was introduced to me I realize that she lived a poor life, 'I hate that, D*mn I hate that', the other two children fathers either chose not to care for their child or can't at the moment. Here's the issue I can offord to give my child what she needs or want and I spoil her to death because of time lost plus she simply never really had nothing but the mother is jealus and the two other children is causing problems because they're not getting what they need or wan't. Should I stop spoiling my little girl because of the many problems it's causing the family?

2006-12-10 07:11:54 · 16 answers · asked by animatelifeforce 2

My mum and dad divorced when I was 2, I saw him about 10 times from then til being 29 and then we briefly got in touch (my effort) for about a year as I was really trying to get to know him. He kind of played along for that period and we'd ring each other etc. I told him about 3 months into this period that my wife was pregnant with his first grandchild (i'm his only child although he's married twice since my mum). We then drifted apart, more that he didnt bother ringing me and I felt he should make an effort. My son was born last December and my dad doesnt know about him nor has ever got in touch. I think he's missing out so much, and my son will eventually ask questions about his grandad ; should I let him know about his grandson or let him continue to miss out?

2006-12-10 06:57:38 · 25 answers · asked by Ethereal 2

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2006-12-10 06:56:46 · 1 answers · asked by Animal_lover 2

They don't care the other son or daughter.They care only about the son or daughter who is doing good in life(wealth) and studies? Am i right?

2006-12-10 06:51:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anna 1

I am 16 and im often left alone at my home to watch my 7 year old brother. He doesnt do anything i say he dumped a can of cream soda on the floor and he wouldnt clean it up when i told him to he said for me to do it i told him to and he picked up a broom and was going to hit me with it he does this a lot even with my parents he says hes going to brake everything and just yells and goes out of control sometimes what can i do to get him to listen to me?

2006-12-10 06:40:01 · 3 answers · asked by help please 2

wot free web site can i goto to find out about my family tree

2006-12-10 06:27:06 · 13 answers · asked by ian c 2

2006-12-10 06:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by cheekyhoney2000 3

go on my page and answer my question please i really need help..thank you!!

2006-12-10 06:24:09 · 5 answers · asked by lola 1

My daughter turned 18 in Oct...i have raised her on my own and have always set an example of charity and that there are others less fortunate...be thankful for what we have, not dwell and complain about what we dont have..lately though she has been acting spoiled and stuck up..her b/f has bought her a beautiful necklace for x-mas and she is going to hate it..she has dropped out of hs(her sr year) to take it at nite cause she "cant handle the pressure"...refuses to seek treatment for her emotional problems and is very hard on me although i try my best (im on disability)...in the past i have turned to the community to help teach her(ie,had her talk to police when she didnt understand that hanging around kids who do drugs she can still get in trouble) and had her volunteer at childrens hospital helping her learn how her good health is a blessing and it has worked...not sure how to teach an 18yo to "be nice" though...any suggestions?? thanks

2006-12-10 06:21:51 · 19 answers · asked by duchess727272 3

How do I get my teen daugther to understand that she isn't a leader but a follower and her friends are leadng her down the wrong road?

I have to add I think she lost her girlhood this year at a boys birthday party which the boys parents think my my little girl is a hoe and that sh** hurts. I spoil her crazy and I do try to be understanding but she rebels against her mother. Moms, whats up tell a concern Father how to handle this issue.

One last thing should I have a doctor check and see if she lost her verginity.

2006-12-10 06:02:14 · 29 answers · asked by animatelifeforce 2

she's almost always late, very slow in everything she does, very inconsiderate of the people around her, unorganized, what do i need to do as a parent? i dont want her to grow up this way, she's 14 now

2006-12-10 05:47:04 · 8 answers · asked by curious/me 2

She have a lot in the bank and she's flexible.
I'm asking for a friend of mine, she wants to get her husband something nice. Although she has a lot, atleast try a little to make it reasonable!
Thanks!
Anyone got any ideas?

2006-12-10 05:40:51 · 2 answers · asked by idonnoimconfused 2

I only ask this because I've only ever heard my mom say those words to me several times in 20+ years (and it was only because of a particular sitution that she thought had me depressed). My father has never said those words to me. And don't get me wrong, I have a wonderful family who is very caring, but I guess we just don't express ourselves in that fashion in respect to each other (I have no problem saying the words to my girlfriend, by the way).

I know that on TV, those words are exchanged between parents and siblings very often, but I just want to know if the household I live in is the norm or are the families I see on TV the norm? Which category do you fall into?

2006-12-10 05:33:42 · 26 answers · asked by I Am Legend 5

I've tried everything for my mother and I to build a better relationship. It's to the point now where I've given up. My mother has said hurtful things to me for years and expects us to be the best of friends now -- some things I just can't forgive or forget. I get along fine with EVERYONE else except her :: I've ran out of things to do :: I could really care less anymore :: But I'd like to know what you all think :: REAL ANSWERS PLEASE~!

Thanks!!

Happy Holidays to Everyone!

2006-12-10 05:32:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 05:29:38 · 10 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1

my ma don't know what to get for her brothers ( my uncles).

2006-12-10 05:29:02 · 6 answers · asked by Erika 1

it seems like lately i've had a really bad attitude like since my mom won't let me date even though i have proved my responsibility then i get mad and scream and throw a fit. Is there anyway that can help me learn to bite my tongue and shut my mouth?? (with out counting to ten or 100 or whatever cause that don't work)

2006-12-10 05:28:22 · 10 answers · asked by Lovin life 2

how can i bridge the gap between me and my grandmother i am 18 and she acts like she hates me, is there anything i can do to get along with her better?

2006-12-10 05:21:59 · 11 answers · asked by pandabear8806 2