it seems like lately i've had a really bad attitude like since my mom won't let me date even though i have proved my responsibility then i get mad and scream and throw a fit. Is there anyway that can help me learn to bite my tongue and shut my mouth?? (with out counting to ten or 100 or whatever cause that don't work)
2006-12-10 05:28:22 · 10 answers · asked by Lovin life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont know exactly what to tell you, but when i was a teenager i had a really bad temper. sometimes it was more like i had bursts of niceness. And all i can say is i regret everything i did as a teen. i cant believe some of the things i did, the little things i got mad at. its a very childish and immature way to act. Just tell yourself your more mature then that, that you can handle anything like an adult. that is how to prove yourself and show your responsible to your mother, throwing a fit and screaming when you dont get what you want shows her that you are the complete opposite of being responsible. Just take a DEEP breath and tell yourself you can take anything the world is gonna throw at you. (or at least your mom for right now) Just please realize that its not worth it to get all worked up about every little thing, and you dont want to ruin your relationship with your mom. One day you will be in the same position as her, she doesnt want to let her little girl grow up. Believe me I know, i have a daughter now too, and im not gonna wanna let her grow up either.
2006-12-10 07:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you want to throw a fit, tell your mother you feel very angry and that you are going to yourt room until you can calm down. When you are in your room, take several deep breaths, then find something to do that will take your mind off of the problem. Keep in mind that your mother is looking after your best interests and is doing the best she can. Some day you will appreciate her efforts and respect what she is going through. That may not happen until you have your own teenager!
2006-12-10 13:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean i understand where you are coming from but at the same time mother knows best and all that getting mad and stuff like that in a way it want work at all and the way you can stop all of this is just by walking away from the situation and counting to 1-100 want work it would work for some people and get a diary and you know just write in it that's all express yourself and write it down while listening to some soft music while you are at home by yourself
2006-12-10 13:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by cherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your outbursts will make your mom think you are immature and not ready to date. Ask her when you can date and then try reasoning with her. Like maybe she will let you go on group dates if she meets the guy first. Or ask if you can go if she provides the transportation. I know it sucks but your mom is doing you a favor by protecting you. It will be awhile before you see that but you will eventually.
2006-12-10 13:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by not*a*placebo*81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goosfaba. Ha. just go in your room and play some music or somethin. Calm yourself down. Think of something funny or someething that your always happy bout. Your mind doesn't want you to so you gotta really try. Your minds going to keep reminding you that your mad and everytime you do think of that happy thing or that funny thing. Believe me im just like you and those things work great. The counting thing, not so great
2006-12-10 13:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Atrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can remember she is your mom , so if you can walk away , better yet if you think you are going to have it out dont bring things up to make this happen , but do have respect for your mom . Sometimes us moms worry to much but its only because we love you guys , ok? take a long breath and just calm down ,dont bite your tounge that hurts .
2006-12-10 13:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with getting angry. How you express it is what it's all about.
Difficulty: Hard
Time Required: 30 minutes
Here's How:
If you're too angry to think rationally, remove yourself from the situation.
Give yourself a few quiet minutes alone to cool down. Think of something relaxing.
When you feel your body relax, take a few deep breaths.
Return to the original situation and try a different approach.
2006-12-10 13:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have trouble about keeping my mouth shut . just let her finish her long stupid reasoning then calmly go to ur room and have a fit there just don't let them here u u only have to keep biting ur tongue until u get to ur room and u can say whatever u want or write it in a diary
2006-12-10 13:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by buzzzbeeea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now I'm asking more or less the same question, if u want check my answers, I would advice u to speak to her quietly and that way show her you can be trusted even more
2006-12-10 13:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by south e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a journal book.....
when ur mad..... cool it.... go to ur room or somewhere where you will have ur privacy and write whatever in your journal book n vent.
treat ur mom w/ respect.
2006-12-10 13:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋