Family - December 2006

they know just what to do and when, and when we go off doing things without their councel we often make miatakes. I'm talking about mums

2006-12-11 00:44:56 · 22 answers · asked by prof 1

im from over seas but am staying in the uk,and im shocked to see how stupid these children are..what i mean is you see 13-16 year olds drinking in the street during the day!like today i walked past a guy and is 12year old brother(the boy couldnt stand up because he was so drunk)but anyway the boy swore at me and i lectured him,and his brother and me almost came to blows!i just wonder why uk teens are so stupid to do things like that..by the way im 19 and in my country we are not like that

2006-12-11 00:33:03 · 18 answers · asked by darren_nnx 2

My son's father has lied to me about his intetions with me and has been messing around with another woman and has decided to be with her. He is an felon, drug addict, alchie and liar. He is with this woman now cuz she's pregnant and now he is her problem cuz I know he hasn't told her the whole truth about himself. Anyway, I am going to go for full custody cuz he never took care of him anyway and has been locked up off and on for over 8 years of my son's life. I want to know if I should tell my son the truth about his dad? I don't want to be nasty but just tell him the truth and give him the facts. What do you think?

2006-12-11 00:28:18 · 12 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6

I keep asking my mother-in-law to NOT send us potted poinsettias anymore. My husband has asked her as well. They are lovely large plants that are very unyielding to carry around to the bathtub to water, I have a terrible green thumb and feel guilty when I can’t keep them alive. Basically, she doesn’t have a clue as to what to send us for the holidays, so, she goes with an old standby. How do I tell her politely that they are more than a nuisance than I care to put up with ? I have told her that I do prefer a bouquet arrangement and I usually send her one with some trinket with it, ie: a candle, teapot or mug. She has told me that she would appreciate it if I were to stop sending the keepsake gift, so I have and only send her the flowers. How can I get her to remember not to send a potted poinsettia ?

2006-12-11 00:18:23 · 12 answers · asked by yodeladyhoo 5

i live with my dad and my step mom. she adopted me at the age of ten or so. i feel put down everytime i talk to my step mom. my real mom left me when i was a child at three, and my step mom took me in. i do appreciate everything she has done for me, but she expects too much.i dont know what to do. i want to move in with my aunt but there are no emancipation laws here in ohio. i honestly need to get out of that house. and no one would understand unless you lived there.im not physically abused now but my emotions are so screwed up because im not aloud to make any decisions for myself. they try to plan my life for me even though i am seventeen. i have never even drove!!! i get yelled at for everything i do. i will admit that i have made mistakes in the past, but my parents especially my step mom thinks that i am always going to screw up.i just want to breathe.i need to know how i can go about getting out, if there is something i can do.any good ideas, that will help better my life?

2006-12-11 00:14:58 · 1 answers · asked by Linds 3

2006-12-10 23:58:42 · 13 answers · asked by baseballdottie 1

i m 15 years old.i have a 23 year old sister,my mum used 2 give me n my sister the same attention n love.but as my sis started getting older,my mum n my sis started getting closer.my mum often scolded me n even told that she didn`t love me as much as she did b4.when my sis went to k.l. to study my mum n i were aloneat home.she started complaining 2 everyone that my sister did not want to come back.so i called and told my sister that my mum was complaining bout her.my sis got very angry n today both of them had abig fight n my sis refuses to come back.now my mum is telling everyone that she was wrong bout me n that she likes me a lot now.m i at fault 4 both of their relationship fight??

2006-12-10 23:54:29 · 5 answers · asked by mouse genius 1

Personal opinions wanted

2006-12-10 23:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by Morningdew 3

My husband and I will be married 6 years this coming April. We have had custody of his 2 sons for 4 years now. The older son who is 15 listen great, is doing good in school and is a pleasure to be around. Satin's seed on the other hand is a nightmare, he lies, he sneaks around the house, he steals from us and from his classmates in school, he has been arrested, and hurts the family pets. He is do to go back in front of a judge the 14th of this month and since he won't listen to us and do what he is told they are going to place him in states custody until he's 18 years old.

2006-12-10 23:40:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey. I just became a dad 4 weeks ago. Me and my now ex fiance were happy all up until a few weeks before he was born. We split and her mum moved back here and got a place with her to help her out (who continually tells her what to do but thats a different story..).
I see my lil boy every day for half hour or so (i go to their place as uncomfortable as it is), but now she's trying to dictate when I can and cannot see him. I was wondering if anyone knew what the next step for me is, to make sure legally I can still see him regularly, how often that may be, and then what I have to do to stop her from legally leaving the state. We're in Tassie. Her mum is from Sydney and the lease on their place runs out in Feb, and I don't want her leaving with my boy!!
Any help or advice greatly appreciated (i realise i need to see a lawyer, but thought someone on here might know before i get a chance to go there).. :)

2006-12-10 23:21:40 · 4 answers · asked by C R 1

when i was 12 my brother put is **** up my bum when he had finished it was wet what was it becouse i did not not what it was as i was to youg to understandwhat it was

2006-12-10 23:20:37 · 21 answers · asked by christopherfarrow3 1

I have a sister in law who the family has not seen or heard from in about 15 years. They know she married and had at least one child, but they don't know how to go about finding her. She is from El Salvador.

2006-12-10 23:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by dawnventura 1

2006-12-10 22:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by qaziahsan417 1

My son was in a tragic motorcycle accident 12/8/06. He suffered a crushed left leg, knee cap, foot, and fractured vertabrae as well as a broken rib in his back. As his MOM i live in illinois he lives in California----I've tried calling him to see how he's doing only to be told he's busy visiting with friends and he hangs up on me.

How can I get through to him that I'm concerned? Why is he being this way?

2006-12-10 22:45:50 · 8 answers · asked by aunt_beeaa 5

2006-12-10 22:38:54 · 6 answers · asked by qaziahsan417 1

2006-12-10 22:35:05 · 21 answers · asked by Kanchan B 2

I have been remarried for six years now and share joint custody of two children (12 and 10) with my ex. We are on good terms and have agreed this coming summer (finally!) that it is alright if I move out of state. My current husband has asked for years to move back to his home state. It will be better financially for us all, not to mention other positive factors associated with the move. I have told the kids that they can pick if they want to come or not, since they are older. My 12 yr old has decided to stay here, and the 10 yr old wants to come with. I have a good relationship with both children. I also have two young children with the new husband. My question is this. When we move in the summer and my 12 yr old stays here, will she feel like I've abandoned her? Should I wait another year? (It's been 3 years already) Her father is good to her and I'm not worried that she won't be taken care of but I will miss her terribly, is it wrong to leave her here if that's what she wants??

2006-12-10 22:18:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

For a few years now i've known my dad was with a woman from Dallas many years ago. And he says she had a daughter. My Dad died 2 years ago without ever telling any of us much about this. In fact I was the only one he told. This girl would be about 21-23 years old. He said the woman he was with was from a wealthy oil family so whebn she was pregnant her parents wanted my dad to have nothing to do with their daughter as money and probably image if its true was an over riding factor. My Dads name was John, he was Irish and he worked in Formula 1, this is what he was doing in Dallas at that time.. How would one go about trying to track this girl down..obviously I ain't paying a private eye.. Besides this girl has probably never been told any of this and I wouldn't want to just find her and come out with it. I would like to know who she is though ????

2006-12-10 22:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by SUFI 2

2006-12-10 22:02:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's ten years old and im her big sis. when i was little i never had this problem but i fink it mite be because hse's so attached to me shes not comfortable in strange envronments, even if it is with her firends. any tips or advice?

2006-12-10 21:56:53 · 4 answers · asked by munchyblonde 1

fake laryngitis

im reaally trying to stay home from school plz help me on what to do to fake it

2006-12-10 21:50:19 · 10 answers · asked by Columbus614Ohio 2

visiting her this week. please be serious.

2006-12-10 20:29:02 · 6 answers · asked by sweet girl 3

my 6 year old daughter wakes in the middle of the night to climb into my bed. i want to stop this before it becomes a habit. i've tried gentle talking, threaten to take her treats away and lectures to no avail. if i insist she does not get in my bed she has a major tantrum waking the 2 year old up then i'm worse off!!
any genuine ideas?

2006-12-10 20:04:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

If they're so busy with all the other parts of their lives that they can't be bothered to raise their children, why don't they just put them up for adoption so that the children might have half a shot of being raised right?

2006-12-10 19:55:42 · 10 answers · asked by AngryAmerican82 3

and how do you say merry christmas everyone when no one is there.

2006-12-10 19:41:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 19:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

live in bad neighbourhood. and in the process of moving. Should I give her the warrant Act? I worry when she walks out in a neighbourhood that has gone tragic.

2006-12-10 19:10:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sometimes I get really great idea's or realise that I'm improving or doing something really well but no-one ever seems to support me or even notice in my family. I try really hard sometimes and get frustrated when one of my sisters accomplish the same thing and get heaps of praise and rewards but when I do something I get ignored. My mum is really stingy with compliments but when its either of my sisters she thinks they can do anything. I know this sounds stupid, coming from the youngest child, but I'm sick of feeling like I'm not getting the attention I deserve, and feeling like I have no-one to fall back on because no-one believes I can do anything. What should I do to get them to care?

2006-12-10 19:04:33 · 3 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3

My fiancee and I share a small 2 bedroom home together with my 6 year old daugther. His mother and her boy friend had their own place until they lost it in a flood and they been renting and rooming with their friends and now that they broke up she has decided that she is moving with us, and I sympathise and I always have liked her , but just dont see how the living situation will work out, I think they should have had flood insurance, she is 63 years old and dont have a car to even get around any more and in my opion I just think she needs her own life and peace of mind, I feel for her, but she just seems so independant and I want to have my own personal life , have you ever been in this situation, how did you handle the situation or how did/ would you deal with it?

2006-12-10 18:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad does. He leaves to work at 6a.m. and some nigths doesnt coem home until 7p.m. It sucks, he does the same thign every day Mon-Sat. Hopefully I can get a good degree in college and not have to suffer the way he does just to provide for us.

2006-12-10 18:19:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous