i m 15 years old.i have a 23 year old sister,my mum used 2 give me n my sister the same attention n love.but as my sis started getting older,my mum n my sis started getting closer.my mum often scolded me n even told that she didn`t love me as much as she did b4.when my sis went to k.l. to study my mum n i were aloneat home.she started complaining 2 everyone that my sister did not want to come back.so i called and told my sister that my mum was complaining bout her.my sis got very angry n today both of them had abig fight n my sis refuses to come back.now my mum is telling everyone that she was wrong bout me n that she likes me a lot now.m i at fault 4 both of their relationship fight??
2006-12-10 23:54:29 · 5 answers · asked by mouse genius 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it seems like your mom is the confused person - not you. she is playing one child against another - how can she do this to you or your sister? tell your sister your are sorry for telling what mom said about her - you didn't mean it to hurt her feelings and for her to fight with mom. tell your sister that you love her and that your anger was directed in the wrong direction - that you were not made at her - but, only, confused on the way mom has treated you and that you are beginning to realize that the problem is not with either of you but with mom. try to bond with your sister, love your mom for what she is (knowing that she knows how to hurt) and if you can talk with your mom, tell her how she is hurting both you and your sister by the way she treats each of you.
2006-12-11 02:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 16 years old boi, i have a older brother 21 years old, i think mum doesn't like me as much as she does my brother, and we always have family fights at home n' i always tell the fight stories to my brother, he told me once u grow up and go to another far place to study like i'm doin' she'll love you like she does to me, n' so i think ur mum will really love u like she does(Did) ur sister when u're at her age, trust me she loves u, she maybe doesn't realize it, i used to hate my mum, i don't now, oh n' yes that thing, that she loves you, it's not in her hands, she can't not love you, and anyway, ur sis will come back soon or later... good luck...
2006-12-11 00:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell kind of mother says that they don't love their kid as much anymore. Wow! She needs to be smacked!
2006-12-10 23:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it very hurt when mum should said to her.
2006-12-11 00:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all need family counselling
2006-12-11 00:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋