Family - November 2006

it is annoying

2006-11-13 15:57:12 · 11 answers · asked by dana5736 1

Last year my husband and l separated for a short time when l found out he had been cheating on me. My daughter was very supportive which l love about her. The problem now though is that she refuses to have anything to do with her father even though we have sorted things out. She feels that he will cheat again and she hates him for what he has done to our family. I am trying to put it all behind us, not forget ofcourse but atleast learn to forgive. I don't think she will ever forgive her father. She is engaged and living with her fiancee so l guess it helps that we do not all live in the same house. I have spoken to my husband and expressed my concerns and he just says if that's how she wants to be it's her problem. The way l see it , it is our problem, she will not come to our home, if l want to see her l must visit her. Things are really starting to get me down. Does anyone have any suggestions please ??? I really need some help with this one.

2006-11-13 15:55:20 · 19 answers · asked by kazzadanni 4

My dad's remains are in Florida and I'm in Michigan and I need help with the expenses. Hospice informed me that there are foundations out there that can help me. Please send me a e-mail if you can help.

2006-11-13 15:52:58 · 4 answers · asked by ROXANNE I 1

tell my sisster n law that she really should clean her house she is so nasty dogs in the house cats and everything is ever where its so nasty i dont even want ta go and see my brother my nephew and there new baby there is never a place ta seat theres always stuff in the floor you cant even walk there is even food left from days and days just seating around and they have roaches really bad please help i dont want ta hurt her or my brother

2006-11-13 15:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jeannie T 3

This is rather long ....Here goes.......
My new husband hates his sister he just has no respect what so ever for her I don't really blame him, she has 4 kids 3 girls one boy and she doesn't work doesn't do anything for her kids it is all about her husband!! He can do no wrong (although) he is a drunken looser and treats his kids like ****!
She is always bragging how much money they have and how they have no debt !!! they have nothing to show for it! They live in a crappy OLD house trailer and they don't have a decent vehicle! Her kids love me I buy them clothes and toys and everything that tehy want but she never wants to bring them to my house we only live like 40mins from them and she always has some excuse no money for gas or some lame excuse!
I have caught her lying to me more than once I am sick of this and I am gonna have nothing to do with them and not go there and just stay away because I am just sick of it!!
Is this the right thing to do Just Cutting them off? wha

2006-11-13 15:32:38 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-11-13 15:06:39 · 1 answers · asked by ariel 1

i live in amador county i want to find the rest of my family

2006-11-13 15:02:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 14:54:07 · 8 answers · asked by mouthbreather77 1

Desperate for answers... I live with my partner and our 18 month old son on 2 1/2 acres. My mother-in-law also lives on the property in a separate house. I have lived here for 4 1/2 years and am getting dangerously close to breaking point. I can't stand living here, but cannot leave as i can't separate my son from his dad. We are locked in to the mortgage (with mother-in-law) and i feel so much pressure in keeping the family together, as it all depends on me. If i leave, i break up the family, if i stay, i feel like i'm damaging my health with all this stress. I have to permanently plaster a smile on my face when inside i'm going insane! I want to keep my family together and happy, but i'm in tears every other day trying to figure out to cope with it all, as i don't see an end in sight for atleast another year... Please help!

2006-11-13 14:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by morgainne 1

I always thought my mom didn't like my fiancee because he was shorter than me. During family gatherings she always made comments about how short he was and how she didn't think he was a very good guy for me. But I think it's more than just his height. My fiancee is Mexican. I think that is why she doesn't like him- she's racist! What can I do to change her mind about him? I've already tried telling her how thoughtful and kind he is, but she doesn't care. And whenever he used to come over she always gave him the cold shoulder. This really bugs me because I love my mom, but I also love my fiancee. And I can't choose one over the other. And this problem is getting worse everyday.

I want my mom to come to my wedding!

2006-11-13 14:27:19 · 25 answers · asked by birdsfishforeverandever 1

My parents told me alittle over a month ago that they adopted me...I was wondering if i want to find my real parents..where could i go that will help me find them?

2006-11-13 14:15:18 · 4 answers · asked by breyanasmommy 2

2006-11-13 14:10:58 · 13 answers · asked by Twig 1

I feel hella fake and ive lost all respect from my old crew. ive stopped hanging out with people and got really depressed. Now all i think about is college degrees, church, and scholarships, helping kids and being perfect. I know those are all good things but that doesnt feel like me im losing my mind cus now i feel like a loner and my little brother and sister dont even respect me anymore. My parents keep pressuring me to stay in school get a job, do voluteer work, dont smoke, dont drink, buy your own car, move out of the house, be independant, be responsible. i used to want to do these things but now im depressed you know? so all that stuff just seem like a steamroller of information pressing on my brain, so i get stressed out say **** it and go smoke a ciggarete. am i wrong for doing this? should i just say **** them all and run away and live alone somewhere in the woods? By the way im 24. advice please?

2006-11-13 14:07:47 · 18 answers · asked by Love Patience Peace and Kindness 1

cost and contact??

2006-11-13 14:07:37 · 3 answers · asked by chua p 1

does wanting to castrate someone count as hating. im so damn sick of him!!!! he makes my life miserable, he is constantly harassing him becuase im bi, he says things like "hey i bet u want to rub titties with her!!!waguh hah HAH!!!!" or he starts humping me for no reason, he is always spying on me and goes on my computer and reads messages i write when i just go to get a snack. an i turn around an hes starring at me sometimes. he is rude incestual. mean poop head. im totally sick of living with him and want him to die. what can i do waaah X( im too young too go away

2006-11-13 13:55:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 13:51:11 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Rabeka♦ 2

when a loved one passes away

2006-11-13 13:43:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have quite a few questions about this issue and not enough room to ask them...but here's a "shortened" version of my situation...

My husband and I live in Michigan (highest unemployment rate in the nation), we both lost our jobs to foreign competition over a year ago and since then, my husband has had 2 other jobs and got laid off from them also. I am going to college, thanks to the TAA federal training program, which is great ... but when I finish college, the chances of getting a job even with a degree seems to be slim. We are seriously considering relocating to another state, but have no idea where to start. I have been searching online for jobs in certain states (that I think would be a decent place to live), but all in all, we are both completely clueless on the issue. First question, which states are the best for employment and cost of living? Second, are there any government programs that help with finding (displaced) families jobs and housing in another state?

2006-11-13 13:29:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago and I am still not over it. I loved him more than anything in this world, but I guess he just didn't feel the same. He just recently got a new girlfriend and it kills me to think about them together and how he is not with me anymore. He said he cares about me and I will always mean something to him, but he doesn't want to get back together with me. Everyday is so terribly hard. I can't focus on my school work and it is my senior year and really important that I do so. He even sits next to me in one of my classes and lately I have been leaving school early just so I wont have to see him that period.
My parents just got a divorce recently as well and that makes things that much harder.
I have plenty of friends, but when I am with them I don't even have fun. Everything just feels like a waste of time to me.
All I really want is to be happy and not spend everyday crying over my ex boyfriend and ruining what I have going for me.

2006-11-13 13:29:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughters grandmother passed away and Ive gotten diffrent opinions from reds and purples which are no nos...... shes only 4 and was very close to her paternal grandmother. Is it even a good idea to let her attend the funeral?

2006-11-13 13:28:43 · 4 answers · asked by a curious lady 2

Please just give me a list and maybe some of the things they do to the children. NO JOKES PLEASE!

2006-11-13 13:17:21 · 2 answers · asked by hi hi 1

2006-11-13 13:10:57 · 29 answers · asked by lamar41 1

HELP PLEASE!!

2006-11-13 12:58:04 · 7 answers · asked by Amber K 2

i caught my moms husband looking at me in the shower outside the bathroom window. i told her but she still with him. i tell her to leave him but i thinks she a little afraid to be on her own. am i wrong for telling her to leave him?

2006-11-13 12:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 12:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by Tyler 1

She is ashamed of me becuz I am overweight, but I am also 18 years older and have a child. She has excluded me from her life since she went to college. I have never been invited for family weekends, or anything in four years. I have spoke to her a dozen times in four years becuz I made all the calls myself!! She has been engaged and now has another serious boyfriend and I have never been included. I met the one boyfriend after they were engaged for a year! Now she has a new guy and I have never even heard of him. She sucks. I send her gifts, clothes all the time and I have had it. She has never once visited her little "brother" or bought him a gift and I have spent thousands of $$ on her.
She is lazy and self-centered. I hope she gets fat someday and gets to see how it feels. Life is short and your family is all you got sometimes. This is why I spend all Holidays away from family. I will never go to my families house for a holiday again and risk embarassing her.
No more sister.

2006-11-13 12:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by texangirl 1

We left our home that was paid for to come live by my grown son and his children,his idea...We have been here 6 months,my son is wealthy,lot of rentals,we picked a mobil cause it was close to his family..He said rent free,and so we did..all this was his idea.Now he dropped a letter in our mail box,telling me that I expected him to take care of us and ask us to move that he did not owe us anything,which I have never ask him for anything.It cost us lot of money to move here,and both myself and husband are onSS...I am so hurt,I don,t think I will ever get over this,but i do plan to move back hm asap..What do you think of this?

2006-11-13 12:08:27 · 16 answers · asked by slickcut 5

I want results and real information, no opinions please.

2006-11-13 11:59:54 · 11 answers · asked by i_love_rock_girl1443 1

My dad has always liked my sister more, and i have just tried to accept it. but now i really dont love him and i dont know what to do. i try to tell my mom but she wont believe me. he makes me do my sisters chores and other things and it is the worst when my mom isnt home! i really need advise!
~ a desparate 13 year old

2006-11-13 11:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 25, unfortuately still living at home, they are doing anything in their power to try to keep me here and im trying to save up as much as i can to move out.They refuse to have my bf in the house just simply because they don't like him. In the past my bf did some things he shouldnt have, but nothing extreme. but now he has changed so much ,but because of how he used to be they really hate him. I have a feeling that he is going to be the one i will marry, i love him so much.He also has feelings for me.My parents are verbally abusive to me in general. I pay for everything except rent. I can't do anything a 25 year old should be able to do. I tried talking to my mom about him coming over and she just screamed at me saying she and my dad dosn't like him and there is nothing they can do to change their minds.Outside sources even tell me my parents are too strict. Mom won't go shopping or watch tv with me and said i wont get anything for christmas this year, all because im still dating him

2006-11-13 11:51:40 · 5 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1