She is ashamed of me becuz I am overweight, but I am also 18 years older and have a child. She has excluded me from her life since she went to college. I have never been invited for family weekends, or anything in four years. I have spoke to her a dozen times in four years becuz I made all the calls myself!! She has been engaged and now has another serious boyfriend and I have never been included. I met the one boyfriend after they were engaged for a year! Now she has a new guy and I have never even heard of him. She sucks. I send her gifts, clothes all the time and I have had it. She has never once visited her little "brother" or bought him a gift and I have spent thousands of $$ on her.
She is lazy and self-centered. I hope she gets fat someday and gets to see how it feels. Life is short and your family is all you got sometimes. This is why I spend all Holidays away from family. I will never go to my families house for a holiday again and risk embarassing her.
No more sister.
2006-11-13 12:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by texangirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have nothing to be ashamed of, if your sister is ashamed of you, you need to tell her, "Hey your not the one that is big or has been pregnant therefor, you need to get out of my face". That makes me soooo mad because like so many people are treated like that because of how big they are, it should not matter as long as you love yourself, and you should tell her, "Maybe if you weren't always making me stress then I wouldn't have gained all this weight."
Good luck, if you need someone to talk to e-mail me if you can
2006-11-13 12:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as if you have given everything you have in you to give. Just go on with your life knowing you are a better person. But don't stop going to family functions to keep from embarrassing her. That would just give her more pleasure. And like you said when all is said and done life is too short. Don't miss spending time with the rest of your family because of her. You will miss out on all the time you will never get back when they are gone. This is really close to home for me. I lost my mom and one of my sisters last year. And I constantly wish I had spent more time with each of them. Good Luck.
2006-11-13 12:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you said that makes all the difference in the world: "Life is short and your family is all you got".
She is younger and more immature, but she's YOUR sister, so get over it. Keep calling, keep sending gifts, keep going to her house ... invite yourself if necessary ... and most assuredly, TELL HER how you feel without attacking her.
I have two small girls and I tell them all the time that they MUST love each other, whether they like it or not. They are sisters, and siblings are around much much longer than parents will be around. Eventually, the only ones left will be the siblings to carry on the family.
2006-11-13 12:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not some thing unusual fairly.its a sister project.! i'm a grandparent now yet I felt a similar about my youthful sister, who replaced into continually getting into hassle in college and giving me a problematic time. As a ascertain with a stroppy unmanageable teen (which I presume she is) its problematic to take care of circumstances. i'd want to calm issues down without the hassle maker storming off and that being the perfect time ever you note them back. it fairly is whats scary as a ascertain..yet to make pretend accusations, you want to study inclusive of your Mum even as issues are quieter and tell her that what your sister does to bypass the nice and cozy temperature off her isn't honest because she continually get you in hassle. and as for her citing some thing you've informed her is common. do not tell her some thing.
2016-11-23 20:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done all you can do & even then some. She is being so unfair & will someday be sorry. What goes around in life does come back to haunt one.
Be proud that you have done everything you can...now its up to her. Hopefully she will open her eyes before its too late.
2006-11-13 12:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by barbi316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is awful of your sister. but you have to stop trying to cater to her (which you have obviously decided already ~ good for you). she will one day get the ultimate slap in the face. but why aren't you b***hing about the rest of your family? they seem to be playing her game too.
2006-11-13 13:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will soon see that she missed out on a great person (sister)
2006-11-13 13:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kick her ***
2006-11-13 12:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by lola here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋