does wanting to castrate someone count as hating. im so damn sick of him!!!! he makes my life miserable, he is constantly harassing him becuase im bi, he says things like "hey i bet u want to rub titties with her!!!waguh hah HAH!!!!" or he starts humping me for no reason, he is always spying on me and goes on my computer and reads messages i write when i just go to get a snack. an i turn around an hes starring at me sometimes. he is rude incestual. mean poop head. im totally sick of living with him and want him to die. what can i do waaah X( im too young too go away
2006-11-13 13:55:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's definitely worth a discussion with your parents. Whether they approve of you being bi or not, your brothers behaviour is unacceptable. Reading your emails is one thing but trying to hump you is another regardless of whether he's just messing around. It's obviously upsetting you and making you feel uncomfortable. And from your other question about your mom following you around with a bible - I don't think she would agree with his behaviour either. So at least that aspect will work in your favour. Conversely you could just kick the crap out of him.
Being a teen is a difficult enough especially when having to deal prejudicism against your sexuality from your own family.
I can understand how this whole situation can seriously be depressing but it's only for a few years and it will make you a stronger person.
Also I know this may sound bad but to get through this time swiftly and painlessly keep that aspect of your life (your sexuality) separate from your family that way they can't comment on it or criticise. That's not to say to sleep around but don't talk about your relationships with them. Sometimes you just have to play along.
Feel free to contact me if you want to talk or just vent. Good Luck.
2006-11-13 16:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by eboni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say by the sound of it you are almost old enough and ready to move out of the house, but in case I am wrong try this out. Humiliate him in front of his mates badly! Say how if he doesn't get his wicked cute **** home that he will miss out and then call him an incestuous pig. Password protect everything on your computer, find good hiding places for your valuables and tell the sick pervert to grow some real balls. Don't be afraid to tell your parents about your fears he might be homosexual or possibly hillbilly style looking for love. Its not right and you need to make him feel that, and let him know his perversion of your privacy is not wanted.
2006-11-13 22:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by hunter_razac 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me, that, since I am a man, that being castrated by my sister is not a project I am looking for with relish. I would like to have much more practice in dealing with the opposite sex. I am 59 years old, and I am bi too!
If women insist on hating men, then I will get myself some with my own gender. After all, sex is sex. If you can do it, why can't we men?
2006-11-13 22:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL he is just doing what little brothers do...being a total BRAT!
But, from your end, as simple as it sounds, ignore his antics. The more you shout, get mad, basically REACT, you are giving him and the situation energy. He wants to get a response from you and obviously like the attention you have to pay him when he gets on your nerves. Which leads into my next point; I guarantee you if you make the smallest effort to start talking to him, plan something for you 2 to do, etc he will start backing off.
Trust me, at the end of the day, he just wants your attention...
2006-11-13 22:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Albritton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you must discuss this with your parents. your brother must stop acting that way and you need an authority to ask him to do that. i mean, fighting amongst siblings can be a normal part of growing up, BUT there has to be a line. you need your parents (or any adult whom which he's bound to obey) to lay that line for him. also, the more you show him how irritated you are with him, the more excited he gets and the more he'll do things to push you to insanity. so just let him know that he should stop and why but try not to stoop down to his level by getting even or doing things to him too.
2006-11-13 22:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's your little brother just make him scared of you and he'll leave you alone. I have 5 all together whole and step and I made all of them scared to piss me off and they still are to this day. They will also start to do whatever you tell them as well
2006-11-13 23:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by playfulcandy26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 8 brothers... I know how you feel. I suggest threatening to castrate him.
It works.
2006-11-13 22:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your folks need to intervene. If they won't, talk to a counselor at school. That's beyond sibling rivalry. That's abuse. Last resort, are you big enough to whip him?
2006-11-13 21:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Baby'sMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just young. When you're older, you two will be the best of friends. Believe me. It sounds IMPOSSIBLE, but it will happen.
2006-11-13 21:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by YoMamma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to see a shrink, the both of you.
2006-11-13 21:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by innocentguy757 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋