i caught my moms husband looking at me in the shower outside the bathroom window. i told her but she still with him. i tell her to leave him but i thinks she a little afraid to be on her own. am i wrong for telling her to leave him?
2006-11-13 12:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think your wrong. But next time he does the peeping thing call the police and press charges
2006-11-13 12:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong at all in any way. You did your part, you did the right thing by telling an adult,MOM. If my child came to me and said that, the freak would hit the road. He is very clearly not ok in the brain. I suggest that if your Mother cant take the steps her self then you need to tell someone at your school, like a counselor, teacher, secretary, just any one who is willing to help. This guy may be peeping now but if he gets away with it, then there is the possiability it could get physical. Your mom maynot be able to help you but that does not mean that you cant help yourself. It also doesnt mean that you dont love your mother. It means that you are scared for your safety and well being and NEED SOMETHING DONE ABOUT IT - RIGHT AWAY. Please talk to someone, somewhere, cause right now you are indanger. The guy is a pervert. Wish I could help you more, other then to plead with you to tell someone. I wish you safety, and the next shower you take, should be when you know hes not around.
2006-11-13 13:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by cjpburgess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not wrong for telling your mom how you feel. This dude sounds really creepy! The problem is she is not willing to let him go. If your over 18, I suggest you leave. Move in with a friend or a relative. I would hate for you to deal with this on a regular basis. This man is capable of stepping over the boundaries again and could possibly assault you!
2006-11-13 13:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I say this will eat at you the rest of your life. Similar situation happened to me and I told my mom and she did not leave the sob. I learned to hate! my step dad as well as every man with blond hair as he had. Years later I ask mom why she did not leave and she didn"t know why, but I too think she was afraid of being alone. Once I had a daughter I told my step dad if he ever even tried to touch my daughter I would kill him myself. I wish you alot of luck!!
2006-11-13 13:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a camera and put it some where to catch his every move. show it to the police.and to your mom so she can leave the gigolo.
2006-11-13 13:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But if she's not listening to you and your uncomfortable about him you need to let another grown up know.
2006-11-13 13:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by lee lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋