My dad has always liked my sister more, and i have just tried to accept it. but now i really dont love him and i dont know what to do. i try to tell my mom but she wont believe me. he makes me do my sisters chores and other things and it is the worst when my mom isnt home! i really need advise!
~ a desparate 13 year old
2006-11-13 11:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
is your sister younger? and if by how much? Sometimes parents are nice to younger children to make them feel appreciated.
Is he your stepfather? Is your sister a half-sister and he being the father? If so that pretty much explains it, parents like their children more. Or he really loves you and thats his way of showing his love. Maybe you did something really bad to piss him off...
2006-11-13 11:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you start picking a fight with your father, talk to him. He might have a reason why he's doing these things. For all you know, he might have a different perspective. If he starts yelling at you or does something he really shouldn't have done, then tell your mom. I know you've tried, but this time, give her the details. Explain why you think your father is treating you unfairly. If no one is taking you seriously, then I suggest you talk to a close friend. If not, then you are going to have to call the authorities and have them deal with your parents.
Tip: If your father is abusing you, then I suggest you call the authorities right away. Don't wait until he beats you up to a pulp!
2006-11-13 12:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Faerie.Myst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the oldest, your dad expects more from you because you are capable of more. It isn't that he likes your sister best. Older children have always helped their parents watch over younger siblings. You will grow up more mature, responsible and dependent for it.
However, if you are being abused, you must talk to a teacher and get some help for yourself. If you are in an emergency situation you should call the police. Best wishes.
2006-11-13 12:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will initiate off by ability of asserting that i'm so sorry. i comprehend that having a divorced family contributors is quite tough. this would sound harsh because of the fact he continues to be your dad, yet he sounds like a bum. Thank God you're so sturdy. Why does he do it? it form of sounds like your observe for him is an adequate accusation. he's a bully and that's precisely what bullies do. they attempt to hold themselves up by ability of hitting individuals down. i could talk on your mom approximately it. i think of a counselor isn't a bad concept. he's verbally abusing you. do not think of that only because of the fact this is not actual, this is not undesirable. i'm soo sorry. a minimum of you have people on your existence that are keen to assist. i comprehend how stressful being an adolescent could be (im 15), even though this is stressful adequate with out pop who does not care. do in no way think of which you're what he says you're. i don't even comprehend you and that i already such as you :) when you consider which you're sane and you have not lost your wits to him and his snide comments. i could tell him the way you experience, yet be arranged to get a directly rejection. this way he won't be able to say which you in no way informed him the way you felt. solid success with each and every thing and God Bless. :-)
2016-10-22 01:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go right up to him and tell him how you really fell, and if your sister is their then you could tell her too. good luck
2006-11-13 12:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋