Family - November 2006

my dad is strict!!

2006-11-04 04:30:12 · 4 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe GiRl 3

My mother is from the old country and does not like the different lifestyle here. She and my father attend church and harrasses all her children to attend. I don't attend only because I believe that going to church should be the time when you are truly giving your life to god and following his word, and at this point I'm not ready. To tell her that she basically says I'm a bad daughter and that I will suffer and what I do is embarrasing her and my Dad.
To visit them is very strained as the only subjects she talks about is the church, how she hates my husband, job,my awful kids (their not), and my other sibs. My teenage children have seen this and can not share their opinion because she makes them feel unworthy and stupid. She compares us to others that appeal to her and how we should be more like them. Rarely do we come away feeling happy and she likes to wave money in our faces if we do what she says. Should I visit her anyways even if I feel so angry and hurt after?

2006-11-04 04:24:03 · 8 answers · asked by trojan 5

i have felt different since i was a kid but hid the way i feel for yrs. now it has resurfaced once more and i have lost weight through it and have felt like i am losing my mind. i need to inform my family so i can be truely honest with myself and be me.

2006-11-04 04:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by cerys 3

my parents and i, well my mom mostly, argue way too much for me to handle and im thinkin about moving out. now, i dont know where to start, but im thinkin about maybe finding a roommate so i dont have to pay full rent. is there anyplace i can look online thats local to me for a place to move into? is moving out really expensive? any other random tips are appreciated

2006-11-04 04:08:24 · 2 answers · asked by sh8dybrady120 2

2006-11-04 04:03:40 · 13 answers · asked by Nsyane W 1

i only play basketball with my friends twice a week. my parents said it is because u play basketball with ur friends so u got a bad grades on my report card. i think it doesnt relate to basketball because those subjects that i got bad grades on were the subjects i 'm not good at.she also said that if i go play basketball she wont let me go back to her house.

2006-11-04 03:57:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do anything about it now? It haunts me all the time and my sister asks me about it occasionally. She (our babysitter) was 18 at the time but I was tall for my age, about the same height as she was at the time. I didn't think anything of it but I am worried now about any psychological effects it may have had. We grew up on a big farm with lots of farm animals (sheep, goats, horses etc.) running around and they may have seen some things also as we would "PLAY" hide and seek a lot and the animals grew restless watching us. Please help.

2006-11-04 03:33:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My GF has a nearly has an 18 month old child the father seems not one bit interested in her but he is paying csa. Or was i should say! he has moved jobs and not told them where he is working is there any way that i myself can find out where he works?

2006-11-04 03:28:23 · 10 answers · asked by dobesilly2002 1

Do people get them anymore? Hardly hear of anone getting them.

How do people get them in the first place?

2006-11-04 03:26:31 · 7 answers · asked by Deutsches Mädchen 1

There was a little boy whose mother was about to have a baby. One day, the little boy walked in and saw his mother naked. He asked his mother what the hair between her legs was.

She responded, "It's my wash cloth."

Weeks later, after the mother had her baby, the young boy walked in on his mother again. While she was in the hospital, the doctor had shaved her pubic hair.

The boy asked, "What happened to your wash cloth?"

The mother responded, "I lost it."

The little boy, trying to be helpful, set out to find his mother's washcloth.

A few days later, he ran to his mother yelling and screaming, "I found your washcloth."

The mother, thinking that the child was just playing, went along with the boy and asked, "Where did you find it?"

The boy answered, "The maid has it! She is washing daddy's face with it."

2006-11-04 03:11:14 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1

My mom is really old fashioned and she just got really angry with me last night when she caught me shaving my pubes all off. The bathroom door was open by accident. Now she keeps talking down at me like I'm a little boy or something. This morning instead of making me cofee like usual she made me warm milk in bottle. She's pretty angry. Why? I'm 21 now. Help me .. please! I'm scared and don't know what to do!

2006-11-04 03:01:41 · 18 answers · asked by mikykinsABC 1

OK, so me and my friend went with her dad to go to one of our high schools last football games. He told me to bring my phone. And i was. So i went to look for an extra pair of socks and my friend and her dad pulled up. Well, my dad doesnt like her dad so, he said "hurry, up their here, go, go". I had to run through the house grab my coat and get out. I forgot my phone. Now, he isnt going to give it back to me for a couple of days. Is that fair. I mean, if he didnt rush me, i wouldnt have forgotten my phone. I dont understand what i did wrong?

2006-11-04 02:58:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hardly ever get time to do things with them and me only.
I am excited that they want to spend some time with just me. I need some ideas of things they might enjoy. Any teenagers here, feel free to respond.

2006-11-04 02:33:14 · 14 answers · asked by Ellyn 5

My husband is a wonderful husband and he made me decide to stay home with our little girl, but he has entirely too many " projects" going and I can not get any time for myself. I am even rushed in the shower with him telling me to hurry or following me around with her in his arms, he has only changed 5 diapers and she is 3 months old. I have only been away from her for a total of 4 hours and that was to get my nails done. He does not realize I need a break to do things tooo and I want him to have more of a relationship with her. Oh, he also wants another baby SOON. I told him if he helps more and he said No, you can raise it till it is 2-3 then I will help more.... I love him and our baby ---- help, what do I do... How do I make him see we/I need him more???

2006-11-04 02:11:33 · 15 answers · asked by Karlee bug 3

ok him and my sister got married 2 years ago in June or July (not really sure which one) And they have a 7 almost 8 month old baby they will bring her(the baby)to our house and let us hold her and and play with her for hours and let us babay sit her every once in a while BUT AT CHURCH life takes on a whole new meaning---They won't let us hold her if we talk to them they smirk,turn away,jerk the baby away if we try to play with her,act like they R too good to be around us,just like TOTAL JERKS!!!!It hurts my mom So much and it's starting to build up anger in her.WHY DO THEY DO THIS???WHAT ID THEIR PROBLEM?!?!?!?!

2006-11-04 01:45:44 · 13 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4

Ok how do I get emancipated in arkansas? Im 16 my mom moved to north dakota and left me here to live with my older sister(25) and my dad lives in tulsa and he is now trying to get custody of me but I really dont want to live with him!!!! He has a wife and 2 daughters and they are going to live in Illonoise in December! I really want to stay here with my friends and I got good grades in school and im in softball and track. He doesnt really want me to live with him, he just dosent want to have to pay me child support and I know that bcuz when we all lived together(me, him and my mom) in colorado a few years ago he divorced my mom and got me and here bus tickets to arkansas for CHRISTMAS!!! and he never calls me not even on my 16th birthday! Also my mom said she would let me get emancipated so do u guys have any suggestions???

2006-11-04 01:30:35 · 12 answers · asked by sara lynn 1

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2006-11-04 01:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-04 01:20:44 · 17 answers · asked by feefee 1

My brother was going out with his partner a year and a half, they now spilt, but one night we went out for a few, got back home, and then the partner got mad because the chair was in the other room which I was using, she demand me to go and get it, but I said nicely it's okay go into my room and get it, my room and the kitchen is 5 steps away. She got so mad she went and got the chair and slammed it on the kitchen floor tiles. I said why did you do that for. she went for me, then my brother he didn't know what was happened he thought i went for her and he started on me. the row was so bad. The next day I rang my parents and asked them to get me a plane ticket home, When I got home my parents had to hear two side of the story. But no I got the blame. I never spoke to my brother ever since. Now him and this girl broke up because she does nothin but give him grief. he packed his bags and lefted. Now he met a lovely girl but somehow I wish I could say to him I told you so. But!!

2006-11-04 01:11:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

She makes me SO SO SO mad And I have a short temper and I don't mean to say something it's just a have a short temper like i said!!And then She goes ona and on about something and I simply ask her to stop and she won't until I get mad!!!Then she tells my daddy I got an attitude and I have had one with her all day long andIt makes me even more mada.(or makes me want to cry)What can I do?!?!?!?

2006-11-04 01:00:01 · 19 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4

this is his second tour the first one when he came home his wife was living with a new man so i really want to make this special for him. I have most of it but not the closing cost which is almost 2000 i would hate to see him lose his house because i forgot to save for closing cost.

2006-11-04 00:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by jur92 1

We would like more children but have 2 and I don't want to go through all the pregnancy and birth again - had terrible time. Also there are plenty of kids who need a home. Anyone out there adopted and what was/is your experience/advice. Thank you

2006-11-04 00:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3

I hear this term used all the time " hines sights 20/20" or hinds sights 20/20. not sure how you say it..

2006-11-04 00:45:11 · 12 answers · asked by panda 6

She complains about our communication, even though we speak for hours on phone and when we meet?

2006-11-04 00:40:42 · 9 answers · asked by awon_eleyi_intl 2

The morning the hospital called and told me she was gone, I raced to her, thinking I could breath life into her. I laid with her for 2 hours, trying to open her eyes and breath into the tube that was down her throat. I couldn't bring her back. We were 11 months apart and I can't even describe how close we were. She was my only friend. I am 46 and she was 45. Everyday I think about how I want to be with her. I had a dream the other day that she came to me. She told me how beautiful heaven is and wanted me to go with her. I was going to go, but I woke up. I was so disappointed. I cannot stop crying. If anyone can help me, please do.

2006-11-04 00:26:40 · 26 answers · asked by smango59 2

My husband's sister doesn't like me (reason unk) and everytime I am around her she makes sure I know it. When I make conversation with her she either stares as if I said nothing or responds with, "Yeah" or "OK". Sometimes she will blatantly just make a smart remark in front of the whole family in order to embarass me. I am still kind to her, but I am also at my boiling point. AND my husband says nothing and makes excuses for her like, "Oh she's just like that!" or "She's just in a bad mood." But I don't believe in treating people that way. I would probably respect her decision of not liking me if maybe she would justify her reasons. And I'm POSITIVE I have done nothing to offend her. It's been this way since I met her. She actually said absolutely nothing (just stared at me) the first time I introduced myself to her. She even once told me not to bring any food to a family Christmas party and when we showed up, it was a potluck dinner. I was the ONLY person without a dish!!! Any advice?

2006-11-04 00:15:28 · 18 answers · asked by Ginnabee 2

2006-11-04 00:07:33 · 5 answers · asked by im 1

Im like grounded all my life. She doesn't allow me to go out of our house since I was a little kid if I don't have anybody with me.. She's afraid SOMETHING might happen to me. What should I do?

2006-11-03 23:54:24 · 14 answers · asked by Winter Princess 1

2006-11-03 23:48:05 · 7 answers · asked by Raywilson G 1

I dont know anyone who can help as my mother wont talk to me about him please help

2006-11-03 23:36:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous