By winning his confidence and trust. If you can prove it to him that having IM does not affect you, your attitude or habits, it will probably be okay with him. Having IM is not bad in itself. But by abusing it, spending too much time on it and getting distracted are.
2006-11-04 04:52:17
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answered by thunk 2
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Have im? How old are u. and what are you planning on doing with him if you were allowed.
Please understand that your Dad is strict because he knows what goes through young boys minds and wants to protect you. He loves you by being strict and feels your not ready to understand or handle dating drama's and heartbreak. In time and once you get older he will be better able to handle this and begin allowing you to date (maybe).
Until then be glad that he is there for you no matter how mad it makes you.
2006-11-04 14:47:43
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answered by trojan 5
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if you are under 18, there is a reason for parents to be strict, so listen to them. When you are 18, you're old enough to move out and do what you want.
2006-11-04 12:32:58
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answered by Jennifer L 6
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you can tell your dad that if he allows you to have I'm, that he can monitor everything you say on it by downloading a software that will allow him to do so. that you have nothing to hide that you just want to be able to talk to your friends.if he agrees to this, do know that he will see everything that you do, what sites you go on what you type to anyone. i mean everything. so, if you feel that you still want im then that's what you might have to do. here is how. go to yahoo search engine type in key logger, and the pick one and download. its that simple. but mind you he will have to use a pass word that you will not know so don't think that you will be able to go into it and delete any thing.
2006-11-04 16:38:25
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answered by here to help 4
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