She makes me SO SO SO mad And I have a short temper and I don't mean to say something it's just a have a short temper like i said!!And then She goes ona and on about something and I simply ask her to stop and she won't until I get mad!!!Then she tells my daddy I got an attitude and I have had one with her all day long andIt makes me even more mada.(or makes me want to cry)What can I do?!?!?!?
2006-11-04 01:00:01 · 19 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
***on*** and ***mad***
2006-11-04 01:00:57 · update #1
it's not ike that THOUGH!!!!!!it's not about boys if I do something I take a lecture and I say yes,ma'am or NO ma'am I LOVE her and don't want to hurt her but she just geos on and on about stupid stuff.and I ask her to quit in a nice tone but she asks like I'm invonerable!!!!!!!plez don't "yell" at me!!!!
2006-11-04 01:33:16 · update #2
I ignore her and don't speak to her. That's worse than screaming and crying and complaining- because she doesn't know WHAT I'm thinking; and that drives her more nuts.
2006-11-04 01:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your mother is telling you something, why don't you try to LISTEN. Keep your mouth closed. Don't argue with her. Ask her if she is finished if you think she is done. Then you respond to whatever she said, then go from there. If you LISTEN to her, she will say what she has to say and then it will be over, but if you're going to be a spoiled brat and lose your short temper and NOT listen to her, then you're going to have problems.
You didn't say what she goes on and on about. Is it something that is not allowed in your household or did you do something wrong? If so, then you are obligated to take a lecture about it. Where do you think you can come off having a short temper with your mom? That's nervy. You're the daughter, they are the parents. They tell YOU what is what. It's not the other way around. If what she is saying is about a boy, then you should listen to what they say. You may think you know what you are doing, but you may not have thought of all possiblities of your actions, including the life ruining ones.
You can't do anything until you get older. When you turn 18 and legally become an adult, you should already have a part time job so you can save money to be able to rent your own apartment. When you support yourself, you won't have to listen to anything your mother says if you don't want to.
But if you want to make things easier until then. Be good. Do whatever they ask you to do. Listen to them. Don't argue with them. Stay out of trouble. Do well in school. Don't be disrespectful to them.
2006-11-04 01:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by grrandram 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. Plan your day so that you send your time with your friends or your dad. try not to rely on her for anything. Only come in to contact if it is essential. Also, when you fight, dont just stand there a take it all. Walk away from it, if she follows you go to your room, lock your door and turn up the music to full volume, or just leave the house for a bit. Maybe you could also invest in a boxing bag and take your anger out on it, you will feel better and you will get stronger
Im sorry for the possition that you are in, Good luck
2006-11-04 01:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by jst4di 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spend a little more time away from your mom if she bothers you that much. When she's talking about somethign that's making you mad just tell her that she's making you mad and leave. Go into another room to cool off. Take a shower or a bath, call some friends. Just don't dwell on it.
2006-11-04 01:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by lady.ceridwen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try and ignore her but it won't work for long she will just become more angry. Try and talk to your Dad or someone close to your Mom about what she says and does and how it make you feel. If you can make them understand that you try not to make her mad maybe they can talk to her about how it hurts you and ask her to back off a bit. After all girls at a young age are always moody.
2006-11-04 03:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you both are in a good mood around one another and can talk freely, ask her what you do that makes her so mad at you. Then say "well I wanna be honest with you mom. So I feek that....." you two should talk if your getting this upset
2006-11-04 01:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tay ;) 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always remember your mother wont be around forever. Is it really worth fighting about. Your mother loves you more than anyone else ever will. Think about that when she makes you so so so mad.
2006-11-04 01:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by smango59 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your mother and stop getting mad at her all the time . Remember she knows you like nobody else does and if you were smart you would try to understand and try to get along with her.Unfortunately shes the boss!
2006-11-04 01:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
woah calm down for a start whay dont ya have a chat with her and tell her shes making you feel this way and she can tell you how she feels and then ye can sort it all out hopefully. but try and stay calm and not get annoyed it cant be easy on her either remember.
2006-11-04 01:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sticks and stones may break your bones when there's anger to impart.
Spiteful words can hurt your feelings, but silence breaks your heart.
2006-11-04 01:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by niccilicci 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋