Family - October 2006

Should I leave ...theyve been fighting for past 26 years..Im 23. I heard they fought before me too.
So would leaving the house be a mistake..Im tired and dont know how to help..Ive talked to them over and over again and now my mom talks bad about dad for 2/3 of the day..I cant argue with her coz she shutsme up..I tell her I dont like backbiting and I like dad too so dont want to back bite she keeps talking and wants me to say YES SHE IS RIGHT or else she gets mad and tells me I dont luv her and that Im the only one she has.
What do I do??? My dad has many problems but he earns a very hand some salary for us. Mom does alot of work around the house . ..

2006-10-28 00:44:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and dad married for 26 years now have me (23 year old young lady) and a son whose 25. I always try to call truce but the war doesnt end. Mom doesnt like dads scruffy and filthyness since shes a (microscopic) neat freak and also coz his family is the most money robbing selfish out of this world family. To the extent that they almost killed his brother. And dad doesnt like mom becoz she is a neat freak and thinks shes the wisest and has rules and principles for everything. Apart from this she is very stubborn and also very self pittyful.

My mom has a sofisticated and well educated family and to OTHERS she is very friendly. She hates all of us so sometimes she isnt so friendly. Dad is mostly aloof of everyones problems.
Mom hates this the most.

My bro doesnt care ...or atleast it merely seems so. I on the other hand am the only one to take all the burdon to myself and get all upset and very very sad

2006-10-28 00:25:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mon actually recomended it too. I have horrible dreams everynight of the week and I remember everyone of them. Then I dont want to go to sleep and I have to take medication to force myself to go to sleep which doesn't always work. I feel tired and eveytime I wake up I wonder what the !!!! is wrong with me.
I have prayed about it
I have meditated.
I am running out of solutions.
And sleep effects your whole life, it is sooo important.
Help please!!

2006-10-28 00:01:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please any recomendations would be appreciated

2006-10-27 23:37:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a sister who I have not seen in 20 years, as well as two neices. Our mother passed away almost a year ago, and I have decided to try and track her down.

I was wondering if anyone here has been through anything simular and had any suggestions as far as resources, websites, etc. that may aid in my search?

Thanks.
JJ

2006-10-27 23:28:04 · 2 answers · asked by restlezangel 1

2006-10-27 22:46:56 · 1 answers · asked by Pele 1

I am very said that I cant be there with my family.
but my heart is already there and started cooking the steaks.

2006-10-27 22:32:03 · 1 answers · asked by soyoungdervin 1

okay, well my grandpa [from dads side] is half syrian half white he married a white woman, and had my dad. my dad married a white woman, and had me.
umm, but surprisingly, i just found out my great great grandpa from my moms side was black. he married a white woman, had my great grandpa, hwe married a white woman had my grandma, she married a white man [well kinda white b/c he has syrian in him] and they had me!!
so how much percentage of everything am i?

2006-10-27 22:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1

she arrives here in tassie in 2 weeks and I want her to meet the rest of my family before my parents, my parents are good but I just want to make things easier for her you know.....so do I have her meet my parents first or the rest of the family before hand?

thanks all
Mitch

2006-10-27 22:06:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

With the sad news of the two children in Corfu, I was wondering as a parent how do you come to terms with such a tragic loss ??

2006-10-27 22:00:35 · 17 answers · asked by daza4427 1

you.your boyfriend and your child lived with your parents? you were getting ready to move out in another 2 months once your house was ready to move in too..and no matter what you did it wasn't good enough? as if your parents were always ready to bust you and your boyfriend on every little bitty thing? my question here is how would you cope when your at your ends in trying to please them?

2006-10-27 21:50:08 · 9 answers · asked by love_soft_kisses_behind_my_knees 1

One of my best memories is when me and my daughter made a large turtle at the beach, we put stones on it to make it look like a shell. It was so peaceful the sky was pink and ornage at sunset, and we started just for fun, and we ended up spending hours making it. It was more like a dream than anything. We both like art and we silently built the turtle without even saying a word, it is the deep connection that a parent has with thier child that is so beautiful.

2006-10-27 21:08:55 · 20 answers · asked by thespeakeris tooloud 1

my mum just come back from foreign holiday and she was ill in hospital for all of it , i didntkno wtill she got back and wanted to help her and check she was ok and got a gobfulll for fussying and having a heart and caring!

2006-10-27 21:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, he's getting out of prison next week nad he'll be needing a place to stay after he get's out of the half way house. he was sent up for Armed Robbery and Atempted Murder. I don't think he'll hurt me or anything like that and he is an awesome shoplifter. I could really use some stuff around the house like a new TV and a DVD player and I know that he couldprobably steal some good ones. Should I look past his crimes?. He is my brother and I really would love to have a Hi-Def tv and I could probably get some money from the government for letting him stay here. And besides if he gets caught later on he'll get sent back and I'll have some new stuff. What do you think I should do?

2006-10-27 20:41:52 · 10 answers · asked by mrharderson 4

2006-10-27 20:37:40 · 21 answers · asked by kutti 2

During a conversation my wife ended up asking me for my sister’s password to her account since she knew I knew the password. I said that it’s not my password to give out.

I work in the IT administrative business and we hold passwords as “gold” so I’m used to never giving out any passwords for anything. I’ve also known my sisters’ password to fix issues (along with other people’s password) since I’m a “fix it” support person to friends/family. She did mention that my sister let her use the password temporarily (which I was there for) to update something, but she did not remember it. My wife ended up saying that she didn’t want it, but just wanted to know that I would give any password it to her and this was a trust issue. I’m I being too retentive on the password issue?

2006-10-27 20:28:55 · 13 answers · asked by Jimmy 1

I have a friend, she's very sweet. And somewhat of a pushover. Actually NO she's not a pushover, its just that some F U CKxers are forcing over her.

She has a younger sister (8 yrs old) who is a motherf_u__k_er in training. She is spoiled and rotten. She calls her sister FAT (which is not true) and trys steals her friends who are around the ages of 14 and16. She lies immmensly and she is a peice of crap.

Her brothers (one younger & one older) don't do ****. She has to cook, clean and everything. They don't even get their own food or water or anything. They are lazy m----f'ing---- b--tches.

Her younger brother beats her and curses her out.

Her parents don't do ****. And she can't talk to a trusted teacher at school, since most teachers don't like her because she wears a scarf to school since she is muslim.

She's such a saint. I wish I could do something for her.

I know she won't do anything about it. WHAT SHOULD I DO FOR HER WHEN I SEE THEM AGAIN?

2006-10-27 20:21:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don'k what to do.

2006-10-27 20:13:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother usually angry with me if she dont have much money on her wallet,,,althought iim never make her angry or make something to disturb her,,,plis help me,,she always angry with me and make me felt afraid...my mother works beauty centre

2006-10-27 19:56:26 · 3 answers · asked by raras b 1

what do you love about your dog? what breed do you own?

stories and funny times are welcome to be shared.

2006-10-27 19:38:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My step-dad seems like he is only mean to me and not my brother or sister. My brother and sister are his kids and I'm not. I feel like I'm always doing stuff wrong but most of the time I'm not. My self confidence is so low in my house. My mom says to give him slack but how can I when he's a bastard!!!

2006-10-27 19:34:49 · 8 answers · asked by loveurlife93 1

I found out when my daughter Kari said that she saw some food from dinner.

2006-10-27 19:27:12 · 10 answers · asked by Alexis W 1

I was talking to my seven year old daughter tonight and she told me that when she goes to visit her dad that he hits her and knocks her down. She said that one time he put his foot on her leg and held her down to the floor. She said that her step-mother has stepped in before and told him to stop, and that she has to say it several times before he actually will. I am a social work student and am pretty familiar with the CPS structure in the area, and I'm confident that if this is all that is happening, that they will simply investigate it and if it is substantiated they will order classes, etc. I am not wanting to take her away from her father, but did tell her that I need to do something about this and that it may mean that she won't be able to visit for a few weeks. I have always said that he was a lousy husband, but he's a good father, but obviously I'm not feeling that way anymore... What she tells me isn't really surprising to me because his abusive behavior is the main

2006-10-27 19:25:20 · 6 answers · asked by sunshineandsilliness 2

what if your brother's a ***** should you tell your parent's.

2006-10-27 19:09:15 · 16 answers · asked by alex r 1

now he is older, about 67 yrs. old and i want to live with him to get to know him better since he almost died a few times, but i struggle to make good money since i did not go to college. How do I make good money in a short time so i can buy a house for us to live in?

2006-10-27 18:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband babysit another family members kids nearly everyday.I love them and all but their mom will ask us to babysit so she can go places and says she doesn't know when she'll be back.when I ask her to watch mine she sets us on a time limit to be back.It fustrates me because I don't think it's very fair.My husband watches her kids regardless cuz their his neice & newphew and it's the right thing to do.I think we could watch them on our time not hers.But he doesn't want to start a family riot and doesn't bother him.How do I go about this issue without making my husband & his family mad at me? Because me & my husband don't get to go out just the two of us without our kids.But we watch her kids for her & her friends to go out every other nite.

2006-10-27 18:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by jentoxic06 1

I was at my friends sons birthday party and had my 7 yr old son with me. I knew that my cousins husband would be there, and he and I do not get along at all. but it had been about 2 years since we've spoke so i thought we could just ignore each other and it would be fine. the night was going good until i heard this man screaming at a child in the other room. screaming isnt even the word. it was a total loss of control! I thought at first that he was yelling at his own kids for he yells at them like this all the time and it breaks my heart. Then my son came to me crying and scared to death. You could see the fear and shock in his eyes. My son was the one the man was yelling at. My husband and I do not talk to our children like this. I got my kids and left. then called to the house and told the man that he had no right to talk to my child like that. He basically shunned me and hung up. What would you do in this situation? He didnt touch my son. but he did scare him. I am so mad!!!!

2006-10-27 18:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by JR 2

well my parents got a divorce about 4 years ago... and ever since then she has been drinking ALOT! when my parents were together she never drank at all.... so when they broke up she sid she felt "free" and that she wanted to have fun (she left him) but shes gone alittle bit to far... she never has anymoney, she has to borrow money off of me and my sister, not to mention me and my sister are just getting by with the little money we have. although my mom still goes to work she is always drunk after work everyday... she only calls me when shes drunk or when she needs money.. what should I do?

2006-10-27 18:02:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes, i'm so tired of everything, that i just yell....and i lose my patience and become so immature. How can i hold it together and be patient? Do i run out of the room and scream in a pillow? count to 10?... anybody know a surefire way to help!?

2006-10-27 17:57:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married in December and our lease is up in March. We want to move back to my fiance's home town and he has asked his mom to let us live there for a few months to save up some money to put down on our first home. She has agreed and while I don't really WANT to live there I do thank her from the bottom of my heart for being so understanding and helping us out. She and I have had a few issues here and there but we get along fairly well now. We have three children (one is not his) they are 7, 15 mos, and 3 weeks. She is having us to stay in the basement where there are 3 bedrooms, a laundry room and a living area. She's quite the control freak and full of ideas. She says we can have our furniture upstairs in the main living room because she would like to throw her's out and will buy new when we move out. I do not want my sofa up there as it cost us $2500 and is a very nice set (she just wants sofa up there and not coordinating chair and love seat).

2006-10-27 17:32:13 · 13 answers · asked by momofthreemiracles 5